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Archived questions from: 21 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Will there ever be someone for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Hey, well im 16 at the moment, i'm 17 in just over a week and basicaly ive never had a boyfriend. I've never really been interested in relationships, obviously I've fancied guyss and stuff, but I've only kissed 3 boys, once each. One of them i met ...

I don't know how to fix all the bad things I've said to him and now he's dying...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - This isn't really about relationship, dating, love, or sex but I need help anyways. Well, actually I guess it could count as a relationship because I have a daughter/dad relationship with my dad. Well I'm fifteen. My dad has been out of my life a...

One year anniversary

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - It's almost me and my boyfriend's one year anniversary... Can you guys give me some help on present ideas? Or like anything we can do that's special? Thanks! ...

Fancy dress ideas.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering if anyone had any fancy dress costume ideas, they're having a fancy dress day at college on Friday and I have no idea what to dress up as. All comments wellcome, thanx x...

She seems to have time for friends and other strangers, but not for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - Hey guys, I not sure about a thing here; Am I being too jealous? My girlfriend seems to have less interest in me. She didn't call, or send me a message on facebook for 2 days. Usually we talk every day, But she messages this other guy; Finishing ...

My teacher has a crush on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - What should I do?! My Maths teacher has a crush on me since about 2 years ago. And it is bothering me. I can't concentrate in class , while she stares at me occasionally. She even thinks i like her as well! But I don't! She's annoying me sooo...

I have absolutely no clue how you can get STI's

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - When you give someone a hand job, can u get an STI?? I don't understand why you can't? Also, what infections can you get from kissing loads of people at a party, when everyone is getting off with one another? HELP!...

I don't want us to break up..help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5494 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me when she was on holiday. I told her i was fine with this and i went away myself skiing for a week. Whilst there i had an accident that meant i should be dead but i have survived with considerably minor injuries. Upon ...

How can I motivate myself to become more organised?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and have been having a lot of stress. Here are things that stress me out. -Overload of school work -Courswork -Exams -Exam Revision -Having time to myself -Not doing any piece of homework stresses me out and I worry a lot What ...

Please can you help me make sense of him here.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask you all a question: I told a guy I liked him, but he said it's not possible because of the age difference and the fact that he has a girlfriend. Although we are very close still, as friends and have talked about ...

How many white guys find Indian women a turn on?

This question has 69 answers - newest was posted 2703 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I am an Indian Girl. I have always been attracted to White Guys. This is kind of a poll question. How many white guys find Indian women a turn on? Is the dark skin a turn off?...

I'm not on birth control. Can I get pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I'm not on birth control but when I have sex with my boyfriend he doesn't ejaculate inside my vagina. He normally ejaculates on my stomach but last weekend he was a bit slow pulling out and some of his sperm went in me. It was mostly outside but ...

This guy just hurt my feelings. I'm going to move on but I don't know how to stop texting him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - This guy just hurt my feelings. I'm going to move on but I don't know how to stop texting him. Do you have any advice on how I can forget him and move on? I told him that he hurt my feelings and he didn't really care to much. Well if he doesn't care ...

Should I try and pursue this relationship through University?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I've been in a relationship for almost a year and a half with my girlfriend. We Were/are both in love with each other but a couple months ago we broke up briefly when she was questioning our relationship and kissed another guy due to this. D...

How do I resolve this situation with my boyfriend of 9 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I am madly in love with my boyfriend of 9 months. For half of the relationship he was nothing but an asshole because he was depressed. I've been under some stress lately and I have been acting pretty stupid, bitching at him all the time, flipping ...

Teen pregnancy... written by a teen herself currently expecting twins!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I am expecting twins and I am only 15, was 14 when I found out and I want to be here to discuss my story, help other young mums who are expecting, teens who don't know whether to have a baby or not, relationship advice just someone your age to talk ...

We think I might be pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - Hello. I'm New and Well... I'm sorta worried. I've know my friend for a WHILE~ and We just hooked up. We are SO~ much A like! Clones maybe. Ha! Well, one day we hung out and just enjoyed our selfs. and when we came back we watched tv and well... ...

How do we overcome our weight insecurities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (?) - Hiya everybody! My boyfriend and I both struggle with our weight and have insecurities about it. I think he's drop-dead gorgeous, but whenever I say so he thinks I'm kidding or mocking him. Any way to get him to believe me? (were both working on ...

What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - What are some basic but definite ways to turn a guy on during foreplay? My boyfriend and I are both virgins, and we're going slow. But we recently started messing around, and I really wanna turn him on! We're both inexperienced (and he knows th...

He says he is not sure if he wants a relationship. Is there anything I can do to change his mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I have been "dating" this guy for two months now. He says that he really likes me but doesn't see the need to label our relationship, at least not yet because he is not ready to be my boyfriend and he hasnt had a girlfriend in 2 years. My frie...

Ideas on spicing up a relationship while remaining "pure"?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

21 April 2009 (?) - Hello everyone! I'm 15 and I wear a purity promise ring. The vow my ring symbolizes is that I will not have sex until marriage, but oral sex and feeling up of any "private" area is also included in what I've sworn not to do. I have no problem with ...

Question about scheduling the pill

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21 April 2009 (F) - When you are on birthcontrol is it bad to cut your period short? so instead of it being the full week you would start taking the active pills again after 5 days. would it leave you at a higher risk for pregnancy?...

I want to play hard to get..just don't know what to do . . .

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - i like this guy but he has a girlfriend BUT i know he has to be a bit into me. we hang out and when we do he puts his arm around me and gets sad if i move and touches me etc. but we havent kissed. i want him to want me more but i dont want to seem...

We're no longer as lovey dovey

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months. Everything was going great, we were loving to each other during school and we spent some time together on the weekends. But, things have been going downhill since a month ago. Her father is very ...

If two virgins have sex, (and no protection is used), does that mean that neither will get a sexually tramsmitted disease?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - If you are a virgin, you can't have a sti, as you have never has sex, right?? So, In theory, if two virgins have sex, (and no protection is used), does that mean that neither will get a sexually tramsmitted disease? Please answer!!! I need t...

How can I pursue things emotionally and sexually with her without losing it? I love this woman to bits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - I've known this one amazing, beautiful, funny, intelligent woman for four years now and have never been able to stop thinking about her. We actually dated for four months back when we first met at the end of sophomore year but the timing and other ...

Respecting my privacy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - How can I get some privacy? I was masturbating the other night with the comforter over me, just in case someone came in and I was completely naked and my mom walked in flipped the light on, and sat on my bed and started talking to me about church ...

Am I bi? or am I gay and in denial?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

21 April 2009 (M) - I'm an 18 year-old male who has always identified as straight, but have now realised that I am definitely not an normal straight guy... I think it's important that I never had any sexual experiences apart from kissing a few girls, and the usual ...