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Teenage: Help and advice

I'm sexually challenged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 15 years old and I've been dating this hottie and he wants to have sex. I'm definitely ready to do it. I have questions though. Where can I buy condoms and where do you think we can do it without anyone knowing?...

Do you think that my boyfriend being another race would affect us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I am just here and confused and I really need help from you my cupid friends. :) Well my question is - I am Hispanic (Dominican republic) but my boyfriend is white. Do you think that effects our relationship because we're baptist and do y...

At the end of the day, does age really decide whether you will be "together forever"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I always see people making comments such as "you're too young, it will never last" and "it won't last forever because you're too young". But I was wondering, is that actually a general belief? Does everyone think that, just because you are in your ...

15 yo and pregnant. Who decides on giving the baby up for adoption: me or my parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hey. Im 15 years old and i think i might be pregnant. I live in Georgia, and i was wondering if i am pregnant can my parents make me put in up for adoption or is it my choice? Just need some advice, Thanks....

Troubled teenager with a young baby and one on the way

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - hello, i'm sorry to bother use with such a embarrassing question but i really need to know, i am a really sexually active teenager and i already have a 3 month old baby, i went through a rough past and turned to men ive had 30 bed partners or mayb...

I'd do anything to feel safe in his arms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - dont know what to do been friends with a guy for 3yrs met online and have never met in person - theres a 9yr age gap for the last yrs its been totally on a just friends basis u kno nothing romantic or sexual but we've obviously cared alot about...

What could I do to show him that I'm the one for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I used to be with this guy and we were really into each other he loved me and I loved him. Now he says that he doesn't love me anymore but he likes me and really cares for me and that I'm important to him. We're just friends right now because we h...

Would we be ok to have sex with protection and me on the pill?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

9 April 2009 (?) - Me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and virgins, we have been best mates when little and actually got together 3 years ago next month. We've talked about sex, we have condoms, and we have only kissed and hugged alot, i have given him a hand...

There must be a way to get him to like me! Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I need help. I'm in seventh grade, and I've liked this boy since 3rd grade! We've been best friends for ever, but thats all. Tons of people say that I should just try to ask him out, but the thing is, I know he'll either say no, or walk away. L...

He was too fast for me then. Will he take it slow this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm in an awkward situation at the moment. I started going out with the guy, it didn't work out. I've known him years (from school) but weren't all that close, and then i agreed to go out with him but realised that he wasnt my type and he told me ...

Sexually abused by my brother... what do I do for the best?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm Heli and I'm 13. I was sexually abused when I was younger, by my brother who is 3 to four years my senior. I have told a few people about what happened, but I've never told them who it was who did it to me, because I still live with my ...

My parents don't trust me with my girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - my parents dont trust me... me and my girlfriend have been goin gout for a year she's 15 and im 14.,, and yes we're a very mature couple for our age//...but we wont do anything we are not ready for....whenever were alone watching tv in t...

My little brother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - My brother is two years younger than me and has just started dating girls. I find it so sweet but he has just started dating this ugly cow and who doesn't treat him right. Me and my best friend have been talking and have found out that my best frie...

Prince Charming must have died

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old and I've been with my Bf for 7 months (mind you this is my first bf) So the problem is I'm bored. We don't go anywhere And we only see each other at least once a week. When we do see each other we just watch TV and movies (and ...

Why is he always nice, if he doesn't want to hang out with me?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - This guy i like, who i speak to online like everyday (we text too). We speak for hours sometimes, and we obviously enjoy speaking to each other. We've been to the cinema before and he came to my house party last week, we ended up kissing and he f...

How can I move on and like another guy?

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9 April 2009 (F) - Recently my boyfriend broke up with me because of complicated reasons. I miss him loads and still love him but I really want to move on. I have tried liking new people, but I can't like anyone seriously like I did my ex. This new guy has been tex...

What do you think is going on? Please answer all the questions.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - i know he liked me a lot since the last year, it was so obvious, but at one point i started ignoring him. a few months ago he tried several times to greet me, but i didn't hear him and sometimes i didn't answer on purpose. last week when i was with...

Shouldn't DC be a judge-free zone?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I've noticed that a lot of people have posted questions on this site asking about anal sex [how to do it/tips/tricks etc]. And last time I checked this was a site designed to give people advice and and information about relationships and and ...

How do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Just a general question in case my boyfriend wants to touch me up or anything, how do I ask whether he likes shaven girls or not? I don't think we'll be doing anything yet as I'm not ready to have sex but it would be nice to think that if...

He's asked me out. Should I trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and like this boy name him A so i liked him for a while since primary school but he gave me the cold shoulder always taking the piss out of me etc... Now i'm in secondary and i do still like him but as i've gone through the years alot o...

Is this just a natural phase in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I've been dating someone for two months now, everything was going really well, until I left town for a week. After that he stopped calling and texting me as much. He's really busy with work and is really over stressed; however, I wonder if he is o...

I'm soo turned on, but I'm a virgin!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi im a 17 year girl. and im still a virgin. But recently all my mind is on is SEX. I cant even talk to man without thinking what it would be like to have sex with him. I get turned on by the smallest things. i'm also having dreams about me havin...

How do I do "open mouth" kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hiyy,im 13 I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly 3 months. all we've done is hug and kissed a few times in a game and he slept over at my house but that's it i don't know HOW to pash (open mouth kiss) and he kissed me but I'm scared to kiss h...

I've never met him before and he wants me to move in with him but I don't feel ready...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok I'm 18 nearly 19 and I am in love with a man who is 30 and I've know for about 7 months. I've never met him but speak to him every day but I am also an addict to heroin or was, I've been clean for about 4 months (but he thinks it's been a lot ...

He dumped me but we still act like we're together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 19 years btw (don't know if that matters to anyone) I love my "boyfriend" so much and will do anything for him, he is my home, my heart and my other half..but.. we're together for one year, and this has been my 1st very serious relationship. But...

My friends don't seem to appreciate me... what am I doing wrong???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I would be grateful if you could give me some advice. Here is my situation: I am a reasonably quiet, but kind and (sometimes) funny. Don't get me wrong, I have a lot of friends, but I am beginning to feel that they are taking advantage of me. T...

On the pill, on my period, test negative. But could I still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Okay, I'm taking birth control pills and I take them everyday on time.. never missed 1 in 2 months. Me and my boyfriend had sex, and the condom broke. I took a pregnancy test and it was negitave and I'm on my period right now. However, my friend t...

Teenage sex problems!

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9 April 2009 (F) - I'm going round my boyfriends tonight and I think he's going to "finger" me. I'm concerned as I generally only use one finger and if he tries two I'm afraid it was hurt. Is this normal? ...

How can I make my parents trust him again and how can my boyfriend prove he has changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Ok here's the deal. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years now, everything was going fine until last october... my 18th birthday. I really wanted to go away on holiday with friends for my birthday and to cut a long story short my ...

She has a really pretty face but she's fat!

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4946 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I kind of like this girl in school. The thing is she's the nicest girl I've met and she's got a stunningly pretty face but she is a bit on the big side. She is pretty but fat. I feel I shouldn't go out with her beausde I'm one of the best foot...

How can I get her sister to see I have no ulterior motive?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and I'm dating a 14 year old, now I know it looks like im probably just trying to get in her pants coz of the age but I'm not really, we both really like each other but the problem is her older sister, though she has never met me, she thinks ...

I'm utterly confused about my feelings towards my teacher and his feelings for me! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I'm 16 and I'm going to graduate at the end of the year. Today, I felt this strange sensation in my stomach today, nothing I've ever felt before. There were actual butterflies in my stomach today when I saw my teacher, and I just said, "wow" to ...

Do I still stay interested? Or move on?

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9 April 2009 (M) - right here we go again. there is a girl whom i like at college, 2 years younger than me and we get on well. we danced at a Christmas party where i thought she looked beautiful and i felt she was interested, we spoke every now and then over the ne...

My ex g/f stole my friends away from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - I broke up with my gf a couple of months ago (well...she broke up with me to be exact) but I was still in love with her, even though I found out that she didn't love me for the last three or so months of our relationship. A few months before th...

I feel like I am the only one trying to make our relationship work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - I wrote a couple of weeks ago about me and my boyfriend because we were having problems. We decided to go on a break type thing but still see each other. Recently, we've been getting on fine. We haven't argued or had any real disagreements. I...

I had sex today without protection, could I get pregnant?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex today just about, maybe 11 hours ago. We didn't use protection(I thought he had a condom on but he didn't so please no rude comments) anyway, We started it "doggy style" but while we were doing it doggy style, He didn't ...

If I am pregnant, I have no idea who the father would be!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Well I'm 15 and I have a 15 year old boyfriend that is about to turn 16. We have been together for 9 months and We have had PROTECTED sex a few times and had no worries about it. But lately I have been getting pregnancy signs and I missed my period. ...

My parents don't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

9 April 2009 (M) - OMG I AHTE MY LIFE...i hate my rents they are so oo over protective, they get on my nerves and are always on my back!!! it's soo frustratting.....i hate my life, im a freekin 14 year old guy, i can take acare of my self.... i have no frreeedo...

I'm worried about him and my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - question 1. hi guys. i'm worried. well.. i'm 12 and theres a boy i really like. hes also 12 but a day younger than me. i met him in year 4 or 5 and now i'm in 7. i hav been out with him about 3 times now. i would love to go out with him ag...

The more we hang out the more it hurts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - so theres this guy and he is my best friend, hes there for me though thick and thin. he treats my brother like gold (spoils him rotton)and my family loves him. we've gotten really close lately and i have fallen in love with him. but he doesnt like ...

I'm 15 And 80% sure that I'm PREGNANT

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Hi , i am 15 years old and i am very confused , and in need of advice of a few things , im sorry that this is long.. , my ex bf keeps on asking me out , nd i keep on saying i cant go out with him , like i like him alot , its just the night i broke ...

Is it okay for my boyfriend to act like he owns me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

9 April 2009 (F) - Well my boyfriend and i have only been together 3 weeks and i've always known he was sort of the possessive type but i think its getting a bit over the top. I used to kind of like it but lately he's just been going to far i think. Like today he hit ...