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Archived questions from: 5 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How do I turn my sex buddy into my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I'm sort of seeing this guy at the moment, it started out as a 1 night stand back in January but recently we seem to be making a habit of meeting in the pub for a few drinks and then going back to his house. I guess you could call us 'sex buddies'. ...

15 and addicted to porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - I need help with my porn addiction, I have been looking at it for I don't know how long. I have tried to stop but I can't, I am Addicted. I need any help I can get....

How can I lose weight fast without losing my boobs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Help! How can I lose weight fast without losing my boobs? Hi I'm 13 and a size 10 dress size, I'm 8.4 stone im a 36DD and I'm happy with my boobs so I don't want to make them any smaller. I feel self-conscious about my weight, im not massivly ...

Does her grabbing me mean that she wants sex from me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfreind were in the basement on the couch snuggled under a blanket watching a movie... later on she started making out with - I really liked it... but five minutes into the tongue action, she grabbed and felt on my penis.. I kinda ...

Opinions please. Do I stand a chance with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Ok I'll try n keep this short! Basically there's this girl that i like, and im trying to work out if maybe she feels the same. She knows im a lesbian. When we have sleepovers we cuddle up like a normal couple wuld, like 'spooning' and falling ...

I'm always just seen as "one of the guys"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I would appreciate some outside advice. When I started 6th form there were some new people start too and one of these was a boy who is also one of my best friends closest friends (she also started school with me this year) so this boy and i became...

Why can't he let the ex go and why would he want her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Dating a man for a couple of months. He told me things like love at first sight, my family will love you, I can see you in my home, could you see yourself living where I live etc. "joe" was in a relationship for 5 years with "Sally". She ha...

What can I do to make her happy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - I'm just gonna get straight into it. Someone who I have liked for a couple of months now has been going through some really bad times, and I kinda knew half-heartedly about them before but now they seem to be gettng more serious. Her parents ...

Advice needed. Does he love me or is he just wanting to get inside my knickers?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I need to know if he really loves me and doesn't just want to get in my pants. After he fingered me and I gave him a hand-job he wants to do a little more. So do you think he really loves me or not. Hope you can help...

Can giving head cause a throat infection?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I'm really sick, I have a throat infection and I gave my boyfriend head this week. Is it possible that giving head can cause a throat infection. I know he's clean for std's, but I'm not sure since urine passes through there, it might cause a throat ...

I have a boyfriend but I'm attracted to girls too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - When I was younger I used to kiss my friend in the toilets.(yes a girl!). I know this may seem like 'oh she's young and confused' but I'm not. But I am confused about what I am meant to do. I still have some feelings for girls and find girls mo...

I'm too intense when he's around. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi! I love a boy, we go to the same school but we don't know each other and we've never talked before. I saw him staring at me many many times and even my friends did. One of my friends is in his class and when he sees me with her he comes to us ...

Any suggestions on getting rid of spots on my back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - This question is about my body. I don't get too many spots on my face, however i find i get loaadss on my back, and it looks disgusting. My boyfriend hasn't seen it yet, and im hoping he will not be turned of by it?:/ Even if it doesn't bother him...

My ex b/f lost his virginity just after we broke up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Okay, I Broke up with my Boyfriend a few months ago. I'm not sure if i still have feelings for him. But he lost his virginity right after we broke up. So does that mean he's lying or he had no feelings for me. I don't know whether im hurt he done it ...

How can I tell if this guy likes me so I can ask him out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - there's this guy i like.he is the nicest, quietest, guy in class and i think i should ask him out.but i don't want to be teased about asking him out if he doesn't like me back.how can i tell if he likes me so i can ask?...

What do you do when all of a sudden your best friend for so long tells you he's gay???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - Oh man!!- im still in shock!! what do you do when all of a sudden your best friend for so long tells you he's gay??? Well that's what happened do me, i knew "D" since kindergarten, so it's been 8 years-we're really close friends and ...

I was 18 weeks pregnant at the age of 15 !

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - im 15 and i was 18 weeks pregnant i decided to have a abortion because i was scared to tell my mom and was scared of what people at school would say to me if i kept the baby but now im am so sad because i took a life :'( and i keep thinking ab...

I'm 14 and wants to know how to "snog"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - hi umm, im 14 and i just got a bf and i love him to bits, and he wants to snog me, but im really scared because i don't know how to , please help me? x...

What should we do to let my bf's mother to agree for him to come over without her getting mad at him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other every single weekend since the end of January. He lives about 45 minutes away. Anyway, Well, he was supposed to come over today, I asked my parents and they said yes and we could go pick him up and take...

How do I initiate him "going down" on me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hey, well I've been with my boyfriend about a year and a half now, and I've had some amazing times with him, at first, I was really uncomfortable about my body, which he respected and didn't rush me into anything, yet because he learned I didn't ...

14 yo in LDR. What's going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - hey um i'm 14 and i've been dating a 15 yr old. For about a few week's now but this is the 2nd time we've dated, it's a long distance relationship and we never get to see each other, but i don't know what's going on with my boyfriend. We're kinda've ...

Next step: how do I give him a BJ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - ok... well me and my boyfriend we are ready for the next step. he has already fingered me and i have given him a hand-job. we have talked about me giving him a blow job and i need to know how to do it....

19 yo F and feel inexperienced. Do men like hair or no hair down there?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I'm 19 and in a new-ish relationship. We're getting more serious and i really like him a lot, so want to go further sexually with him. I'd like some advice on what to do with my pubic hair. What do you guys prefer? I am afraid to ask him, b...

I think my family stole my money. How do I handle the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - about 2 months ago i had 60 pounds go missing from my room, the only person who new where it was was my younger brother. he and my dad were the only ones who had been in the house apart from me and my mum as we were at work. Now i have had another ...

One night stand problems!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - This is going to sound really really bad, but I really need some advice. I go to college and the other week Ii had a one night stand with this guy. I always thought he was good looking, but never really liked him, but I was really really drunk an...

It's all such a mess of secrets, I need your opinions.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I could really use your help, I don't know how to feel at the moment. In December I started a sort of friends with benifits situation with my best friend A, and it was all secret because he had a girlfriend at the time (wrong I know and I feel v...

Questions about eating and diet.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I have recently been doing a health promotion campaign on body image, which focuses on anorexia, bulimia and obesity. I have mainly focused on bulimia and have researched a lot about it. I have been on a diet since the end of xmas and have lost 2 s...

Advice on how to do Phone sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I just currently turned 14 and my boyfriend's about a year and 5 month's older than me. We have a very long distance relationship, but we've gotten to the stage of phone sex. And for some reason I won't do it with him, I feel bad because I ...

This is my first time. How do I give a handjob?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Heyy, im 19 and am going to give my boyfriend a hand job for the first time, but im not sure what im doing. I've heard you have to pull back the foreskin, do you have to do this? And also, when you move your hand up and down, do you move the for...

14 yo girl and no access to sex toys.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - hi, my name is B and i'm 14. :) recently i have been very horny and sexual :P i have been playing with myself and fantasizing but it hasn't been getting me off properly :( i was just wondering how i could masturbate and make myself cum? i hav...

My teacher winks at me. Does it mean he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I am kind of confused when it comes to men, so I don't really know what the case is with this. I'm in art school, and I had this teacher in one class last semester who recommended that I take another one he was teaching this year. So I did. I h...

Two important questions on contraceptive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

5 April 2009 (?) - hey i was wondering, i have never opened the morning after pill packet, and its two years expired. is it still effective? secondly, how do you know if the condom broke? cause i after the "quickie" i changed underwear and there was white secretio...

What do I do on a Prom date? What should I expect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - I need help!!! I just asked a girl to prom (she said yes) and I don't know what to do now. Is it weird to go to prom on a single date? Because it seems like everyone group dates for prom. My date and I are both sophomores and I couldn't find...

Why does he keep staring at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hi. There's this guy at school that i have a crush on. He knows that i like him by some messages i sent him on myspace. But the problem is that he has a girlfriend so i haven't been able to ask him out. So i try to avoid him as much as possible like...

Split Love, what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - i need advice!! i have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now, since 9th grade. It was going strong all along, head over heels in love. recently, i hung out with an old flame, we hit it off. turns out we both still have feelings for each othe...

Does he love me? I waited 3 years for this

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - hay i am tia and i know over and over u have heard about loveing your teacher but i am deeply in love with mine it started off as a crush and this crush went for like 1 year and now for another year it has gotten to be love he is my science teach...

How do I make her see that she should get over her exes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - im 13 and my girlfriend is bi, and she has had a lot of gf and bf, i think being bi is only for nymphos personally by the way. she always looks at her exes weird and shes friends with half of them, it pisses me off. i love her and she said she love...

Boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A""

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - One morning(7:30), my boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A". I had a major HUGE test (3 hours) that day and it will determine if I'd graduate from high school that day. It totally threw me off. Anyways, I didn't know what to do....

His wife won't divorce him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Okay so 3 years ago, the summer of 2006 I fell for this guy. He was a junior while I was a mear freshman. I was 15 at the time, and I wasn't ready to commit myself to someone yet. So I told him goodbye and we stopped talking. Then I dated this guy ...

He proposed to me, but is it too early for marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5512 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I met nine months ago at my freshman orientation. He was a volunteer going into his sophomore year in college. We started dating a day after that and he proposed yesterday. I told him I would have to think about it for a couple days ...

Told him to delete my number. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - If my bf said he needed a break, but the ext day i see him with another girl, so i tell him to delete my # of his fone... was that the rite thing to do?...

I thinks she still likes me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

5 April 2009 (M) - hello all, im just writing about this little story and i want you to answer me... there was a girl in school who were attracted to me and liked me so i started to talk with her and getting to know her, But someday she said suddenly throug...

He isnt acting like just a teacher

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Hello there. Thank you so much for deciding to help me! Sometimes I actually think I like this guy, do you think he likes me??? First of all, I am in eighth grade. The teacher, we will refer to him as {}, is 46 years old, married, and has tw...

When will I start?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - Well, Im 13 soon to be 14. Mainly for girls to answer, but I haven't gotten my period yet and im worried that theres a reason for it. Is there? Or does it just come slower for some people?...

Does he? why? what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

5 April 2009 (F) - I am practically in love with this boy. He's funny, has a great personality and makes me smile a lot!!! I know this boy through a friend who lives next to him and he goes round her house everyday because my friends brother is best friends with this ...