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Giving good head..suggestions please?

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Question - (17 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *haraoh... writes:

I really want to know how to give good head... and since this is a place where lots of people share their advice and expierience i would like to know what certain actions make this the most memorable expierience?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009):

no no no! Dont blow on it! It is possible to get an air bubble trapped inside the urethra (where the bee comes out) and that can supposedly go into the blood stream and kill the guy! Im sure thats an overly dramatic suggestion but its what Ive heard, and so I would say, dont actually blow!

also, google blow job how to or something like that, theres loads of non porn websites with sex tips on! :)

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A male reader, minex United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2009):

stop every now and again to blow on it. it should be wet due to saliva and there is a pleasent tingly sensation, most people don't get this subtlety from the name "blow job"

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (17 April 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntOh Phil, you old romantic you...spit on it alot...ha ha

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009):

I think it's a very much overrated pastime myself, but just for the record, keep your teeth well out of the way and spit on it a lot.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009):

Im not a guy, so i wouldnt know, but i do know that i've never had a complaint when giving head, and i guess its partly because i want to and partly because i actually try and put some effort in.

My other half has told me in the past that the worst head he ever got was in the instance of being scraped with teeth, only having the tip sucked, the person moaning about being down there, when they offered! (Dont do it if you dont want to!) and being too rough.

Now you have a list of don'ts i guess the rest is up to you!

Find a position that you are comfortable to be in, being down ther for a long time can be uncomfortable on your knees or similar - you dont want to get the guy going then have to stop becase its all too much - then just take it slow, you and he should enjoy it, it should be easy for both of you - i usually kiss him all over, everywhere but down there, make him wait for it, get him going, then when you are ready to go down there, touch him there with your fingers, a light touch near or on the penis, perhaps? Work your way down to his nethers and kiss around the penis still hightening tention, lick it, suck it, get it wet, whatever YOU feel comfortable with and listen to his moans and noises, you'll know if he's enjoying it and when he's not!

I'll not give you a detailed description of what i do, because its a trade secret ;) But you should talk to him, see what he likes because all men prefer it a little different....

The fact you're willing to go there and want to please him means you're already halway there to giving good head in my oppinion!!! Just remember the no's and everything else should just happen.

GOOD LUCK!!

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