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Archived questions from: 15 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I admitt I flirt but, I DO NOT love him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Okay so my buddy nick and I are talking like any old Convo, then he brings up our past relationship. We hated each other. I was mean to him but he loved me, when I had a boyfriend. He tried to break us up before but I forgave him. Then he says he ...

How can I lessen my period pains each month?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Does anyone know a good remedy for period pains as I get it really bad. I'm no good with pills and that's all the doctor precribed but she didn't listen to the fact that I CANNOT swallow pills. It's just I'm on really heavy and for ages as well and...

What would you describe as 'good' sex for a boy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (?) - What would you describe as 'good' sex for a boy? My boyfriend responds to me a lot on that side of things. But not enough. Obviously to a large extent the answer needs to come from him himself. But I was wondering if, in general, there was anything...

Now that he knows I fancy him he can hardly look at me, why is that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi, When someone finds out you fancy them why do they after act weird and not talk to you and when you're around they used to say Hello but now they hardly can't look at you for some reason? Why is that?...

I have weird dreams, and I think I am depressed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm just really confused and think I'm depressed. I think a little background information would help with my actual question. I was friends with benefits with my best friend for about 8 months and then a few weeks ago we just stopped because ...

Does age matter when he's a young adult and I'm a teenager?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - hey well i met this guy over 3 months and he has a girlfriend but he inst spending anytime with her because she lives in another state and they aren't spending time together because he goes t college.. then here i am and i never had feeling for ...

He's the perfect guy, except he keeps texting his ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years and I think he is absolutely perfect! He is sweet, caring, Always supportive of me, gorgeous body and face, and amazing in bed. He is 19 and already making almost a thousand dollars a day, smart, fun to ...

Why do we cry when someone dies?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hey y'all! Ummm I just need to ask this but why do we cry when someone dies? Or leaves us? Or anything like that why do you think we cry other than when we get hurt? Cause I can't help but cry everytime I see my fathers pictures and think of his ...

He is recieving texts from "boobs"...do you think he is hiding something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now, and are very much in love. So much so that a lot of drama went down before we could be together, we had secretly been in love with each other for 6 months until he told me, he dumped his ...

Sex is too painful for my fiancee!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - OK, i have been with this girl for a year now, we are 15 years old. We really do love each other, we actually recently became engaged. Please don't comment on the engagement part though. She says that she is ready to have sex, we have tried twice, ...

Is he just flirting with me or does he really like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Lately I been going crazy about this boy named JK his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Today I saw him when I was walking to school he kept looking behind to see me and at the end he crossed the road and then looked...

Still waiting for my first kiss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 turning 16 in May. I have never had my first kiss not even a peck. I've had 1 bf before.The fact that i haven't been kissed has always made me insecure, but lately i've felt terrible. What's wrong with me? I feel so ugly and unwanted. My ex ...

My boyfriend has made me anorexic and still wants me to lose weight, what can I do?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I got with my bf when I was 11 years old and since I turned 13 he started controling my life. I am now 15 and he is nerly 18 and when I was 13 he told me I was fat and told me I had to loose weight. I weighed 8 st 2 at the time and he wanted me to ...

Overwhelmed and overworked!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'M SO STRESSED OUT! I'm in my junior year of high school. They always say how important this year is. I'm doing my best. I got a 3.00 GPA last marking period which i was proud of. but this marking period I have a 2.50. Today I got so stressed ...

Unprotected sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - Me a girl had unprotected sex, and she has not been on the pill for two weeks, but started to take it again after we had sex, will she be protected? ...

Too scared to have sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i'm 15 years old and im too scared to have sex. i had a boyfriend at this beginning of this year, and i'd done everything but sex. i started my periods when i was in year 5 and i have fully matured. when it came to having sex, he literally could not ...

My boyfriend is giving up on his friends and spending all his time with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm really worried i'm separating my boyfriend away from his friends. He seems to spend all his spare time with me, and he's never with them, and whenever I suggest it his response is always "I'd much rather spend my time with you" I'm flat...

Condom split, morning after pill taken, period came. Could I be pregnant?

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15 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I was just wondering if you can still get periods even light or short periods if there's a chance you might be pregnant? Back in January we used a condom but it split inside me and we didn't realise until after, but I took the morning af...

Was I unreasonable about his cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My bf cheated on me in feb with his ex gf and after alot of tears on both sides i agreed to take him back,On the condition he have NO contact with her.My exact words were "no calls,texts,online talk, Dont talk to her in lessons or anything at scho...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and so are 1 and my other male friend. At school me and my friends were playing around and one of my mates pushed me by accident I kind of tripped lol and I fell on this boy call him 1. When I fell on 1 he smiled and gazed into my eyes...

My boyfriend is not the love of my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi my name is Soda, I have a boyfriend of 7 months,I hate that he is so freaking controling. I mean I am the biggest flirt but still, wtf? Like, I thought he was the most amazing guy on the planet. What the hell was I thinking? I have lost the spar...

Should I confront him and wait to see his response?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hi Descriptions of me(so you can answer more effectively): I'm 18 and 144cm tall chinese. im loud, cheerful, lazy, happy-go-lucky and a gamer. Just started studying A levels in T college. Had 1 bf before J. Lives in a conservative environment...

First pregnancy anxieties.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (?) - I'm 19 and last night I found out I was pregnant. I took a pregnancy test after having cramps and sore breasts pretty much constantly for around a fortnight. My periods have been slightly irregular for around the last four months so I'm not entirely ...

Will it work out if he does like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Im a 13 year old girl who is unconditionally and irrevocably in love with a teacher (24 yrs.).He is so fine!!!!!!! His blue eyes hypnotize me. He doesn't teach one class. He fills in a class when a teacher is out and when a teacher leaves for a long ...

"Blow on ear": what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - what does it mean if a boy wants to blow on my ear?...

Where exactly is the clit?

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15 April 2009 (F) - I have been really horny lately and don't know how to pleasure myself. Can someone please help me and my friend find my clit so i can orgasm?...

Crush on this guy for 3 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy for 2 years, almost 3. He knows that i have a crush on him. Well he had a parent conference with my 1st period teacher so when i came in he was there. All my friends were like "look who's here." I was so embarrassed that i ...

13 year old step daughter out of control!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - My 13 year old step daughter moved in with my husband and I a few months ago. She is out of control and I fear for her safety. A month ago she was kicked out of school for giving a blow job to a boy at a school dance. One of my neighbour said ...

Creepy new teacher tells me I need to be a "good girl"

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - we have a creepy new teacher cause the original lady left on pregnancy leave. ok. now ill admit i look a little mature for my age (long bleach blonde and black hair, make-up and a Monroe piercing) but in no way was i provoking this guy. he...

Sneaking out to see my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I know what I'm doing is something that's gonna end up breaking my parents heart and will lead to great consequences, but I am secretly going out with someone from my class, in school, for a little over a year now. We get along really well and he ...

Sex while on my period w/protection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - i did sex while i was on my period and i used protection but i have missing period can i be pregnet im 14years old?...

How should I approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - hello everyone. so there is this girl i like a lot, but i dont talk to her a whole lot. we've had a small class together for the last two years. i recently started to message her on myspace and she just stopped replying to my messages. i gave her my ...

I can't be that bad can I? WHY can't I get a boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Ok i'm 16 going on 17 and i have never had a BF.idk y i cant get 1.i'm not fat and ugly. I weigh only 120 and i am 5'7. i'm growingmy hair out right now 2 get it in a cute style that i want, but right now my hair is blackish brown and is about at ...

Do you think my g/f tells her friends that I'm small?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (?) - Hello I'm 18, and my question is...does size matter? Becasue for me I am only 4", is that normal for my age? I just get embarassed becasue I mistakingly see a friend of mine and he is a lot bigger than I am, and I am too scared to talk about it...I ...

Pregnancy - How should I deal with this? I can't tell my mum as she will go mental.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - I think I may be pregnant. I had sex 2 weeks after my period and the condom broke. I'm now 12 days late for my period and will get a test tomorrow to make sure I am pregnant but my periods are very regular and i have never missed one or been more ...

Her mom found out we are sexually active and has threatened to press charges against me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I am 17 and my girlfriend is 15. Her mom found out we are sexually active and has threatened to press charges against me. I never forced her, but can I still get in trouble....

I can't seem to satisfy like I did with the other girls

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (?) - Hi I am having a problem... well to start I am 18 and I have had sex with 3 different girls, then the 4th is my girlfriend now, well we have been together for 8 months and we have only been having sex for about 2 and a half months, but we don't do ...

I wanna meet this girl!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - I walked into a record store a few weeks ago, and one of the girls working there was very beautiful, and she actually noticed a band t-shirt I was wearing and told me something about them, and then I left because I was with a friend and he was on a ...

What are the sort of signs she'd be giving me if she liked me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

15 April 2009 (M) - It sounds really silly but here goes. There is this girl I think I love, we are friends but live in different states and speak every single day be it online or over the phone, we used to live in the same town but she moved away... we've been seeing ...