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Archived questions from: 10 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

He likes me but says he's not ready to date yet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Okay so basically I really really like this guy and Im not sure if he likes me even though my friend said he does. He shows moody signs, at one point he acts all flirty and the next he acts as if he doesnt care. My friend wanted us to get together ...

He's twice my age, married, and yet this relationship is keeping me from meeting others

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Okay, so here it is...I went onto this site (games) and got chatting to this guy, who I found out is twice my age and married...and doesn't even live in the same country. It was just innocent chat so I added him on msn and the more we talked the ...

No one to talk to but my sister but now she just fights with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - ive been having troubles lately a couple months ago something happened that made me reallly upset and the only one i could talk to it about was my sister who i dont know if she has autism or severe add but now she wont even lsten to me whn i talk to ...

I'll do anything to get him back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - i am 14 and there is this kid a year older then me and we use to txt alot and flirt non stop. then he asked me to hug him the next day at school so i said yeah...but before we hugged he txtd and said im gonna ask u a question after we hug (ask me ...

Did he lose his phone? Just not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Im at the end of my teather here! Ok basically I have been talking with this guy for ages now, and hes lovely and made it quite clear he likes me, he got me a gift for xmas, we talk almost everyday etc etc Anyway we went to a party together and end...

My friend is annoying me so much at the moment, how do I deal with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for 3 months and things are great between us and it was my best friend *Hannah who got us together in the first place cause she knew I liked him and wouldn't say anything to him about it so she told him and it ...

Am I being paranoid or have I got every right to be angry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - okay here goes.... I was reading through my bf's phone earlier and found texts from 2 girls (they both work at the club he plays rugby for). He had deleted his sent items so I don't actually know what he said to them, but the texts from these g...

Should I tell my parents? I think I'm pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 and think I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do. Should i tell my mom and dad? I need advice before i do anything. I've had sex 1 time but he pulled out and we used a condom. I told him we shouldn't do it anymore unless we're really ...

After his experimenting 7 years ago, I'm terrified my boyfriend might have sex with his best male friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Firstly, my boyfriend has never given me a reason not to trust him - as far as I know, he's never cheated on me, or any of his partners. But, we where talking a few months ago, and I found out that when he was about 16, he had a gay relation...

Boyfriend's Muslim family wont accept me :-(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - i have been with this guy for 6 months and his family is Muslim, but he doesn't believe in that. i am white, and not Muslim, therefore they don't want me to go out with him. they found out about us, and forced him to break up with me. but we got ...

After sex, my penis hurts and her she has stomach ache. Should I be worried?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5504 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - hi, I feel worried, I'm 15 years old and I have had sex with my girlfriend. I have a problem which I need help with. A couple of hours after I've had sex my penis starts to really hurt and my girlfriend gets a stomach ache. What seems to be the ...

I'm getting the point where I just feel used for sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - So ive been dating this guy for 8 months on and on. But not going out. He says he wants to be single but we cant see other people. Of course it sketchy to me. But we've been hooking up all the time. And im getting the point where i just feel use...

I don't know how to tell my chat friend that I love her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - Its like am in love with this girl, she is 18 and am 18 she is living far away from me but in same country. We both met in a chat site. I call her on phone most time, she told me about her self and I told her mine, the way I hear her voice on phon...

Could I be pregnant, or is it just stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - About three weeks ago me and my bf had sex and he wanted to see what it felt like without a condom. So we didn't go all the way but he did go in. Lately I've has extreme nausea, i'm always tired, my boobs are really sensitive, and i pee a lot more ...

Any ideas for something special for my girlfriend this Easter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 and I'm in love with my girlfriend and i know I'm so young but i know i love her cause every time i seen her my heart starts beating really fast and i just know. anyway we've been going out for 3 years cents yesterday and i just got back...

I told my crush of 6 years how I felt. Now I'm confused about what happened. Help me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - I'm too lost now after what happened recently... I've been crushing on this girl for 6 years now, since I was 13 years old, freshmen in high school. She's the same age as I was, she is the most intelligent, quietest, absolutely beautiful girl I...

Is it alright to not like anyone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Hey y'all waz up? I jus need to know is it alright to not like anyone? And LOVE not been with anyone? Cause my parents and a lot of other people say that there is something REALLY wrong with me...ex.... So I just need to know is it weird or ...

Would it be worth it to become friends again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - hi, i need some advice and im hopein you can help see i had this friend and he was awesome. he was there for me and i was there for him no matter what happened. but one night we did things and after that night he barley talked to me.. and i w...

Am I a needy girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I know most people define needy girlfriends as being too possessive; which I am not. However, I do try and get him to spend some time with me a lot. Thing is though, it never works. We're both in High School, so we dont have time consuming jobs yet...

We talk most time on phone but yet cant tell her I love her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - Am a very shy boy i dont know what to do about it. I find it too difficult to talk to a girl even a boy that i don't know, the only people i communicate with is my family members, Thats all, i dont just know how to put this shyness off me. Now ther...

Do tampons pop your cherry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Hey I started my period when I was 11 years old and I am now 15 and I have also started wearing tampons. My friend told me that it pops your cherry becuase it hurts. It did hurt me when I first started wearing them but they dont anymore. Is this ...

Desperate! How do I get over my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I have loved my english teacher for ages; though there is a fourteen year age gap between us so I know nothing will happen. I know teacher crushes are common, and the best thing to do is either get over it, or just enjoy it but keep it quiet. My tea...

I think I was abused when I was younger. What do I do now? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Hi I was abused when i was younger, and for a while I was OK but nowadays its really been getting me down, I've been crying all night and stuff and I am scared to go to sleep sometimes because of the nightmares, though most of the time I don't rea...

I don't get this girl. Is she straight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - So there is this girl who I really like and I have been for quite a while. We've know each other for about two years but just started talking this year. Yesterday I told her I wanted to tell her something because it was bugging me. She guessed that...

My gosh - struggling under the pressure of HUGE crushes on TWO teachers (& one is female!)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Ok here's the deal: I'm in year 12 (6th form) at school, and I go to an all-girls college. I am almost 16 years old. Ever since 3rd form I have been crushing on one of the teachers from my school - he's young (27) and a happy, likable person. H...

How do I regain control of my life?

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10 April 2009 (F) - I just realized my ex was controlling me in basically everything. I'd like to know how do I take control of my life so it doesn't happen again next time I get in a relationship? ...

Please help. I cant stand not knowing, does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Hi. Me again. I really have to know if this guy likes me. Sorry if its long. Im 18, hes 25. Hes the youth leader at church. His cuz used to be but he dated and kinda used the gals so he aint anymore and now there is no dating allowed between the ...

So many differences between him and I. I am confused. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - hi friends, i need your help.i'm very much confused about my relationship with my friend. i'm 18years old. before 9 months i met a boy.we became close friends.i've never talked to any boys before tat. he's the first boy to whom i've talked oth...

Male Teacher, Female Student and a Father-Daughter Relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1669 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I'm sorry for another one of these questions.. My philosophy/religion teacher is middle aged, and a very handsome man; but what has won me over most has been his confidence, down-to-earth demeanor and corky sense of humour. He has led an admir...

I don't know anything about having sex really. Can anyone help me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Okay, I'm 17 about to turn 8 in July. I dated my ex for 4 years and we just broke up in november.. It was really hard on me. I have become depressed and just broken. He hated me for the longest time and didn't talk to me, for reasons.. Well we talk...

Sex related questions. Help please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - [Mod note: updated questions:] 7. i want to do sex with my boyfriend..always..but we both should not marry..this was our deal..but now i want him in my life as my life partner..how to tell him... --------- 6. i want my boy friend to do sex with m...

13, wants to stay virgin for a while, but no access to sex toys

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - I want to stay a virgin as long as possible, basically until I get married, but I get way too horny too often and so I masturbate. But lately, I've been having trouble getting off, so does anybody have any new ways than just a standard grip and ...

Straight? Bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Well im really questioning my sexuality right now. I KNOW i like boys but im not sure if i like girls also. Sometimes i have weird day dreams where I'll be fucking a girl and I'm fine with it. And as weird as it sounds I've even imagined doing in...

I just wish I had someone to love me and make me feel great!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - please help! i don't know what to do!!! i wrote on this before, but i really don't think anyone understands how depressed i am! normally Im a happy girl and i like to enjoy life to the max! but recently i get these pangs where i feel so so sad! ...

Any tips on how to bring up the topic of using condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I'm on birth control and he pulls out but am I still running a high risk for pregnancy??? And I was wondering if anybody had some good tips on bringing up the idea of a condom to him...especially because we have been involved sexually many ti...

I developed fetishes on my stepmom. Is this weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

10 April 2009 (M) - ok i am 18 and i have a very difficult problem. my dad married this lady who is 36 about 3 years ago and now she's my step-mom. and now i have been having fetishes about having sex with her. is this weird or not? what you think about me actu...

I'm14 and have never been on a date, kissed a guy, or done anything

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - im 14 never been on a date,kissed a guy, or done anything i really want a boyfriend or at least go on one date im going into high school for crying out loud! most of my friends have had at least 2 and when i tell them they find it surprisi...

I am thinking too much of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - First off, last summer I visited my sister and her husband on a marine bass they lived at. I visited them for 2 months. I met a friend of theirs.. he liked me, I liked him. We even hooked up one night. It was the best haha. Anyway, he went to iraq...

Help!!!! How do I talk to my mom about sex and birth control?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Here is the whole run down. I am 15 going on 16 my boyfriend is 16. We have been together appox. 9 months. I really really do love him. And I know he loves me. I want to be with him for the rest of my life, we have talked about marriage and ...

I had a bad feeling I ruined the whole evening with this rejection

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I live in Germany and travelled to Sweden (I travel there every second month because my Dad lives there)3 months ago... there, I met a guy and fell in love. I have been there for 2 weeks, we were seeing each other, doing things that couples ...

Really erm... distracted and confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I joined the university gym about 2 months or so ago, and since I joined I have been going every day at least 6 times a week because my gym closed down. When I was working out one day I saw the most gorgeous guy there, and as weeks have ...

Is he just trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy since last semester and I started liking him since we joke around, talk and play around together a lot. I think he likes me back by the things he does such as: trying to get my attention all the time when I'm doing my ...

I'd happily spend the rest of my life with him. How do I know if he feels the same way about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - There is this guy I really like, in fact I think I'm falling in love with him. I really want to be with him and spend a lot of time thinking about him, we speak daily over the phone so this is pretty unavoidable. I was really wondering whether I ...

He has a girlfriend but I'm getting mixed signals... Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

10 April 2009 (F) - Theres this guy and he has a girlfriend but whenever I talk to him he NEVER says anything about her or even having a girlfriend but when I talk to her, all she talks about is him but when I went to our hangout he was just waving at me, so I waved ...