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Archived questions from: 19 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

What is a sexy outfit to wear for a striptease/lapdance?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - What is a sexy outfit to wear for a striptease/lapdance? I was thinking a miniskirt, a mesh shrug top that ties in the middle, a black thong and some stockings? ...

I have a huge crush on my best friend's brother!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I have this huge problem. Let's cut to the chase - I have a huge crush on my best friend's brother. My best friend has an older brother and I've known him for so many years, and I've never ever thought about him in a personal kind of way. He ...

How do I get my parents to quit controlling me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - How do I get my parents to quit controlling me? Do not get me wrong, I do enjoy attending the Sunday school (I teach toddlers) and the worship service. But I hate going at night... it drives me crazy. I hate doing the same routine every Su...

How come I would choose my ex over anyone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - How come I would choose my ex over anyone? Like if he wanted to come back... well he has a girlfriend and he tried getting back with me but I didn't really tell him how I felt so now he's back to her and he said he'll always love me, he just ...

I don't know how to snog...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I am 14 and the guy I like is 16 and I really want to meet up with him and I don't know what to do. It's going to be my first time to kiss someone and I don't know how to snog. Please can anyone help! plzsss... help me! I'll be looking for your ...

I love him but I don't know why!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I know why I love boyfriend, because of the great man I see in him. I fell in love because of that but at the beginning, I asked myself why I love him and I replied to myself, I don't know, I just know I do. That's just how I feel. That was the ...

I'm gay but I have to hide it because of where I live!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, I have a big problem 'thank God I found this site today 'My story is a painful one and I need a help here wish I can. I'm from part of Africa where gay people were regarded as evil spirits and outcast from the community or from the...

Am I his muse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I had a talk with my boyfriend and he has told just how he has been doing some thinking lately about everything, and he figure the struggle he goes through he doesn't even have to go through it,he let it happen to him. I told him how much i miss...

Mood swings...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 14 year old boy turning 15... and lately it's been kinda wierd, I don't know, I think I have mood swings or something, like one minute I could be really happy, two hours later I feely all crappy and depressee or just extremely angry. I...

Pimples around my pubic area .. STIs or just acne? I'm a 14 yo virgin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - are there other ways than beying sexually active to catch sti's and std's...becuase im a virgin and i didnt think i can have one of those.... but i m 14 and i have like some pimples around my pubic region and they can really hurt some...

Why am I always more "enthusiastic"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I started going out with my first boyfriend 3 months ago. Im embarrassed because i always seem more enthusiastic when we're making out and i get excited kinda easily. Is this because i've never had a boyfriend but he's had three girlfriends? We've ...

It sounds like he likes me, but I'm not completely sure. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I met a guy about a month ago,and I bumped into him last week. I went round his house, we were talking, and then we kissed. But I'm confused as to how he feels. We're not going out, but we're more than friends. He asked me why I was single, so I re...

I lied about my age to my boyfriend! Is he mad at me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Ok so i lied to my boyfriend that i was 15 and he is 15 turning 16 in May but i'm really 14 turning 15 next year so i told him my real age on AIM but he was offline and he hasn't txted me or anything.... Is he mad at me, does he still love me.....

We just broke up. She was my life! Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend just broke up. We are 15 people say thats too young but i dont think so. She said we are very different and she has exams soon and it will be too difficult. I dont know what to do, she was my life. ...

First time sex for virgins: do we still need to get checked for STDs beforehand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I know this sounds absurd but I still really appreciate some help... My boyfriend and I are over the legal age to have sex and lately we have been getting extremely intimate and have started talking about making love. We're both virgins ...

Students Falling In Love With Their Teachers.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. So their own passion...

15 and feeling a bit behind in my sexual or sexuality development in my peer group.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I am a 15 years old and while the other girls in my class are getting sexually active, i am just not feeling it. I had struggled with my sexuality in the past and was wondering whether this sort of non responsive state was normal or acceptable at m...

I like my friends brother, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I like my best friends older brother (he is 16 and im 14) she knows i like him too. ive been going to her house a lot, usually when she has family there. Everytime he talks out in general, he always flashes hes eyes at me. i noticed he only does ...

Am I being paranoid or do you think something is wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Okay, so it's eatser break and my boyfriend is at his Dad's for 2 weeks. We were speaking online most of the time, we usually do anyway when we're not together. But gradually he's been speaking less and less. I was fine with it and first since he's ...

My boyfriend loves to hold my hand a lot is this good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - my boyfriend loves to hold my hand a lot is this good?...

Love square - so complicated!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - I need help i fancy a girl but she fancies another guy the problem is another girl fancies me but the guy the girl i fancy, fancies the girl who fancies me. please help...

I need your help and advice! How can I get out of this situation and resolve it peacefully?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - When I was at the supermarket in the queue a few days ago, an elderly lady pulled me up and said "We need to go somewhere to talk. It's some news about your son" I thought this was odd, but went anyway when I'd done my shopping. The woman told m...

If I ship out I'm gonna lose her but if I stay I can't have her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - I have a friend and she is great. She makes me happy just to be around her. She knows exactly how to make me smile. We work in the same store and she is a manager now and I'm a regular employee. She used to be a specialist wich means when the ...

How can I be with her in the position I'm in? We are really great friends and yet I'm in love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - I have a friend she is great. She makes me happy just to be around her. Sshe knows exactly how to make me smile. We work in the same store and she is a manager now and I'm a regular employee. She used to be a specialist which means when the managers ...

Did I just lose my best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Me and this guy had been talking for about 4 months now, almost everyday on the phone. I told him i liked him, something he already knew. He always told me he liked me but since i am scared of love and commitment i never responded. One day i told...

Could he just appear in to my class to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a crush on this guy for 3 years. The other day my crush came through the door of my last class. Everyone started yelling "Oowww, Nancy!" He just smiled at me. I was just trying to hide myself and tried to tell them to shut up but i wa...

What is up with my crush? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I've liked a guy for 26 months. In the 9th grade I had quite a few classes with him. We frequently made small verbal contact: he would ask for a pen, I would say hi, etc. He gradually became more receptive, I caught him staring at me and HE said...

I don't know if I love him, but I cant get over him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago, because my family moved to QLD. After we broke up, my ex slept with a few girls, and messed with my head, and treated me horribly. A few weeks ago, I moved back to Adelaide, And I hate to admit it...

My g/f and I often broke up. Is it over this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - well my gf and i broke up....again and well she broke up with me like usual and i think were really over. and we broke up cause we fight to much and stuff and we break up a lot and she always comes back and i let her. but not this time shes h...

How do I make him see that the girl he's been waiting for may be me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - So there is this guy who I met the other day, and he is.... perfect. I don't know what else to say. I really like him. But there is a problem, he doesn't seem to care about me at all. We were hanging out in the park with a few other friends an...

Should cell phones be allowed in school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - Okay I don't know if this fits as an article but I would like to hear your opinions. For grammar we have to write a persuasive paper and mine is about "Should cell phones be allowed in school?" I don't know if they should or shouldn't even though I ...

I don't want to choose sides so how do I handle this situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5496 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - I have two sisters one is 18 and one is 17. Harley is a great sister and has a 4.0 in school and Brandi is an alright sister too because I never see her, she's never home and she's doing really bad in school. Brandi lies all the time to my parents ...

Fiance is a jerk and she likes a better guy....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - ...Back again! Now, for another teacher question. This one's not really about me and a teacher relationship thingy (which broke off...um, 2 months ago i think) it's about another teacher. Ok, so the teacher I'm talking about is currently engage...

I need to lose weight

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - hi i am overweight i want to lose weight but everything i try something stops me is there anything you think could help me lose weight any advice please thank you xP...

Is it OK for me to date an almost 17 year old girl when I am 19?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (M) - Hi I have known a girl since I was around 10 years old and have always been attracted to her and thought she was really cool. Today she told me that she has always felt the same way about me. She is turning 17 in July, and I am 19 right now but will ...

Should I do it? Why or why not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - The other day a friend of mine asked me to be his first.I met him at school, we had a couple of classes together the past 2 years and he's a nice guy. I lost my virginity a couple of months ago and have and sex with a total of 3 guys with in ...

The age gap is no big deal to me. Please tell me, from what I have told you, what you honestly think.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Ok guys heres the deal. After reading this you may think I'm being silly and overreacting. But I need some honest, genuine answers. I have recently began driving lessons with a very handsome 30 year old man. I am 17 and have only had 6 lessons with ...

Why is he coming in my dream constantly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - This boy from my class who I know constantly appears in my dream, one day after the other, ok I fancied him once upon a time and then it ended up dragging to about 5 years liking him on and off but why now? Why is he coming in my dream constantly? ...

Does that mean that I may have premature babies too?

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19 April 2009 (F) - My grandmother and mother both had premature babies (ranging from 2 weeks early to 5 weeks early) Does that mean that I may have premature babies, and if so what is the earliest you can have a baby without it having any major health problems?...