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Archived questions from: 18 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

The adults on this site are so annoying!!!

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...

I want him to get a boner over me!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I finally go out with the boy I like, he asked me out but last night I went to see him and then we went about with his mates and they were like Drew she's the only one you haven't gotten a boner over and then he was like you don't know, you weren't ...

4 months and I still cry over him... not because I still love him but because I'm hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am asking for advice and just a comment! Please be honest! I am 13 and I am going on and off with my ex-boyfriend for about a year. Every time we go out we are the main thing in each others life. We spend a good amount of time with each other an...

If I tell my dad then I lose my mum and my sister... What do I do???

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Very tricky problem! My boyfriend of 2 years recently went to pick my younger sister up from school (she is in year 11) it was after hockey practice and she wasn't at the front of the gates like usual so he went inside towards the all weather pitch ...

I don't get butterflies with my boyfriend... something's not quite right!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - This is driving me mad... please I need advice!! I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months, I was in love with his friend, before I met him and I was young at the time but that's all in the past. My boyfriend is loving caring, polite, thoughtf...

Where can I buy a vibrator online? (Discreetly packaged)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I'm just 16, I want a vibrator, mainly because I want to get the pain and blood out of the way before sex. and I just really want it, but don't have a steady boyfriend at the moment and don't want to have my first time on a random night. Therefore...

He can't get hard, does he find me unattractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hiya, would love your opinions. I met this boy about a month or so ago and we speak all the time. I've stayed at his a few times but no sex. He tried it on with me a few times and I think I lead him on but I didn't mean to. Now he says he can't ...

I had sex while I'm off the pill. Could I get pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi so i have only been on the pill for maybe a month now and i am usually pretty good about taking it regularly, plus i am not even really sexually active and up until last night i was a virgin. not considering the circumstances, i forgot my pill...

I have no idea what to do or say!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi Im "S" and I am 13 years old! I have already talked to my mom about a vibrator. She said to be honest when you need a vibrator I will get you one. Well I want one but I don't know how to ask her. How should I ask?? :)...

What do you think guys - good or bad signs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - There is a girl I like. I've never spoken to her before but I see her everyday. Her friends all seem to like me but I don't know about her. Today I was playing football with my friend and she was watching us. Everytime I went near her with the ball...

She asked if she could kiss me, but I am not so sure.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am 14 be 15 in September.I have never dated. Last night a girl who is quite attractive, better looking than I am, who is 17 asked me while we were secretly alone if she could kiss me. I was shocked and told her perhaps later as I had to thin...

I am confused, depressed, frustrated, devastated, sick of my life! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm 15 but I got the problems of an old woman with 10 children. I wanna ask you for help to solve at least some of these problems. 1- I love a boy and we go to the same school but we never talked before and we don't know each ...

I've asked my ex to help me get over him how can he help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My ex knows I still have feelings for him, but he doesn't see me in that way more like a sister. He admitted when we were together he only saw me as a good close friend, not a gf so he held back and never kissed me he said it didn't feel right. This ...

I found a pair of my panties hidden in my stepson's room! How do I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I am a stepmother to a 16 year old boy. I recently discovered a pair of my panties hidden in his room between the wall and the bed. It was apparent that he was using them to ejaculate into. It was also apparent that he had used them on multiple ...

Should I move in with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Well... I find my friend sexually attractive (I'm bisexual, and she knows I do but she pretends she don't but she knows because I told her once and when I got drunk I kept feeling on her and she mentioned it and thought it was funny but she wants us ...

Signs of pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I had sex with my bf a couple of weeks ago. We used protection but we have used protection in the past and I still fell pregnant. I had an abortion but that is a different story. I had what a believed to be my period last week but it was ligher and ...

I think I told him "I love you" too soon...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I'm currently going out with a boy and we have been together for two months now, although we have been talking for about six months. I really like him now and I stupidly told him that I love him. He said it's a bit too soon to say that sort of ...

19 and 45, what to do... need some help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy when I was 10 and I fell deeply in love with this guy sexually emotional and physically. I'm now 19 and he is 45 and I feel it would be wrong but on the other hand I really love him and we are starting a relationship, and I was ...

Very self concious about hair around my nipples and other parts of my body! Any help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - This is really really embarrassing. I am 13, I shave my pubes down there, and legs ect ect. But MY BOOBS ARE HAIRY! like around the nipple and then I have hair on my chest and stomach and stuff! It's not like proper chest hair or anything lol, it's ...

I'm 13 and we are considering "fingering", does it hurt and how should we do it?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Okay, well I'm 13 my boyfriend is 15. He is 22 months older then me. He is very very sweet and always is like, "we are not doing anything that you are not sure about or comfortable with." and he means that, seriously. He gets really really worked up ...

How can I tell if my b/f is getting aroused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have made out quite a few times. At first, I wasnt sure if he was getting "excited". Then, last week we were kissing and I was laying next to him and my curiousity grew. I've read some other sights for tell-tell signs that he ...

How do I act if someone is against me?

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18 April 2009 (M) - hey ppl, sometimes i get sad like everyone hates me. what do i do if someones against me and bothers me? do i fight back or accept the social abuse?...

What are some signs a guy is thinking of you??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - well i know when a guy calls you thats a sign hes thinking of you. but what are some other signs that hes thinking of you. whithout asking him if hes thinking of you.. xD...

Broke up...what should we do about prom?

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18 April 2009 (F) - my ex is going crazy because we broke up and we are going to prom my and his prom what should i do ?...

He's nice an' all but he doesn't know how to ACT like a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (?) - Hey, How can I try to fall out of love? I really love my bf, and we're pretty much perfect together, but he really doesn't know how to act like a bf. I need someone that does. As much as it hurts me, I'm tempted to break up with him because he ...

I didn't make a move on him one time and now he's really off with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I need help, I'm really confused. Me and boyfriend have always been intimate. However recently he is losing interest ever since I didn't make a move on him one time and now he's really off with me. He's not usually like this, he called himself a ...

Is this the start of love... or an extreme crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - Hi there, I need a little advice. I'm 16 years old and I have a friend who I really like, she's just my type of girl, I love everything about her! I get butterflies whenever I see her and even when I hear her name. I get extremely jealous when I see ...

Call me old fashoined, or stupid, or naive, but I believe that truly amazing and intense sex comes from love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Does the best sex ever mean he truly loves me? Call me old fashoined, or stupid, or naive, or whatever you want, but I believe that truly amazing and intense sex comes from love, and not JUST the physical stimulation. My current boyfriend is by far ...

Stepping out of my sexual prison...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I'm still young but have been stuck in a mundane and protected box, only had 1 boyfriend which my mom really chased away when he found out we had had sex, and any mention of anything sexual is'nt something I'm allowed to partake in because I'm too ...

Rollercoaster ride!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I are on this crazzzzy roller coaster with our relationship! I'm getting tired of it and hurt and every time I think about just turning away everything we went through makes me heartbroken and go into a depression. I need help ...

Would it be a good idea to move in together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - My and my bf have been going out for 9 months. I am moving out soon, and I think he wants to do this. I'm moving into an apartment complex and I would like him to come live with me. We would split the rent, and all that stuff. Should we? We fight ...

I'm 17 and feeling guilty about my sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Hey, I'm 17 and I feel very guilty about sex, I started last year and never told my mom and she found out in a messed up way so I broke up with the guy that devastated me and I feel like I should be innocent for her sake because she believe I've ...

I don't like being with him any more because of the way he looks.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5498 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I don't like being with him any more because of the way he looks. My boyfriend is 13 and I'm 15, he's 5"2, I'm 5"6, he's small and thin, I'm broad and larger... Everyone looks at us wierdly together ect. What do I do!!!...

He means a lot to me and I can't bear to lose him, what the hell is he thinking?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly 9 months now and no matter how pathetic this sounds I admit I have fallen in love with him.. We rarely argue but recently we have started to have problems. Last week everything was perfect and we w...

What is a "rainbow kiss?"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5495 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I'm 13 my boyfriend is 16. We are both non virgins from other relationships. We have had sex and done everything. Finger, BJ, 69, toss off, lick out ect. We were keen to move onto a rainbow kiss he said, I don't know what a rainbow kiss is.. What is ...