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Archived questions from: 8 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

How can I stop thinking about my unavailable crush?

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8 April 2009 (F) - Why can't i stop thinking about him? I've had a crush on this guy for 2 year but just a few months ago i told him. But then i found out he had a girlfriend so i tried staying away from him. I just see him during nutrition and lunch but all of a ...

Dont know what I am! Should I come out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 April 2009 (M) - Hi, just some general backround info you need to know. 1.I'm a 13 yo. boy 2.I don't know if im straight, gay, or bi. I don't know what my orientation is, because it could be hormones, but I find MEN, not boys to be attractive, I also like girls...

They say horrible things about me making me feel totally unloved and unattractive!

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8 April 2009 (F) - Heyy. i'm probably being stupid but well i just feel really self- concious and unconfident. well i have a bit of a slutty past and i admit that but a few of my friends constantly call me a whore etc and won't let it drop about my past and who've i...

Periods becoming lighter and lighter...could I be pregnant?

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8 April 2009 (F) - I'm 15 nearly 16 and at the end of november my boyfriend entered me. It happend before I knew it he went in for a couple of seconds like twice, he didn't come in me. I knew it was likely i wasn't pregnant i'm normally late anyway. And I was worried ...

Confused & friends teasing me about this guy

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8 April 2009 (F) - I really like this guy but he's a year younger than me. I dont have a problem with it and i know i shouldnt listen to other people but my friends have been taking the mick. i would really like to have a relationship with him but i'm nervous about it...

Teacher love story......And Obbsession...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Well i am only 16...My questions is does it mean anything if your teacher(married) stares at you a lot and tries to talk to you in the hallway and always compliments on everything you do and his always smiling every time he sees you. Like today well...

How long will it be before I know?

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8 April 2009 (F) - I normally have an irregular period and its been that way for awhile. Just before i met my boyfriend it had been skipping just about 2 months then i got it and now for the past three months i havent had it. About a week ago me and my boyfriend had ...

My ex wants to have sex with me on my Birthday, but I am not a cheater. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - so i have a bf but i keep thinking about my ex and is crazy because i love my bf but we have sex issues. the sex has never been good but i didn't leave him because i love him and i didn't want to just tell him and hurt his feelings. but we have spo...

Is he bored? He chats on MSN more than with me

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8 April 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend haven't been going out for long but i think hes getting bored of me because he always talks to his friends but hardly to me but on msn hes really nice to me and says he misses me all the time but when i actually see him hes acts...

I wish there was something I can do to give him a reality check

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8 April 2009 (M) - omg.. where to begin.. well im 17, a senior in high school he's 18 and a college freshman. we'll I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months and everything was perfect in the beginning we were together all the time.. we never e...

Is it wrong for me to feel unappreciated?

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8 April 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together a year. I love her very much. Since we have gone out, I have paid for the gas for us to travel (my vehicle ), every date (movies, eating out, etc.) This has never really bothered me, but I also am a coll...

Is he looking out for us or is he just a damn bimbo?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - I recently had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, and i feel i might be pregnant. the problem is that my boyfriend for a year is telling me to get an abortion. i was stunned as he always talked about me having his first child. he's calling me ever...

He's made it clear that he won't date me..but I like him!

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8 April 2009 (F) - So i like this guy thats plays the drums in a band at my church. I know that he doesnt like me because he said he would never date a younger girl. and im two years younger than him. but i dont know what to do. he makes it so hard to not like him. ...

My boyfriend won't stay with me unless I lick him and strip

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8 April 2009 (F) - this is her little sister i am 14 nearly 15. it all started at his 15th birthday party when we got a bit drunk.then i shared a bed with him we keep hugging and kissing. he went under the cover and pulled be pj bottoms down and started touching...

What if I get horny in the school shower amongst other boys? Will it ruin my reputation?

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8 April 2009 (M) - okay next year ill be entering the world of high, wich is pretty scary, especially because im going to try out for the footballl team...and if your in gym or an athletic team it's required to take a shower..ad the thing is i get horny when i ...

When should I break up with him, and how do I do it in the nicest way possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hey - please can you help me! I'm 16 and have been with my boyfriend for 5 (nearly 6) months. Recently I've been thinking about breaking up with him - I just don't have the same feelings for him anymore and there are lots of things that he d...

In love with two women

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8 April 2009 (M) - Ok, Well i'm Scared to admit it I am in love with to girls I have known one for about lets say 7 months and the other about 3-4 maybe 5 months total the first woman lets call her (awkwardkitty) and the one I know less (jynxy) please note these are ...

My boyfriend was lovely but now turned abusive. Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hi. I have a massive problem right now, cant sleep at night, cant eat. I don't know what 2 do. Here goes. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and for the first few months he was so lovely and so good 2 be with. But now I am so scared...

How can I ask him to let go of his ex's "memories" and what I mean to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Well this is it. I had to make a call to my mom from my boyfriends phone, my phone is in for repairs, right, so well i was going down the list to find my mom's number i came across a contact called 'sweetheart' allow with his ex-wife details. I was ...

I have lied to him about my age but I love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I have recently met a guy and we have got off on a really good start the problem is i have lied about my age saying i am 19 when i am really 16. he really likes me too, but him being 10 years my senior i know he wont like me for the followin...

Who should I choose? "C" or "R"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - ok so i have been going out with my bf for just over a year now. my bf ("C") has always known that i have been really close with his brother ("R") but it has only been a friendly jokey type of thing if you no what i mean, its just like hugs and ...

Am I mad? Do you know how to stop these imaginations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

8 April 2009 (?) - Hi there, I'm in love with someone but that person doesn't have feelings for me.That's not the problem I'm having now. The problem is I have stupid imagination like I have sex with him and that if he likes me,the things he would do to me. I have...

What are the consequences for masturbating too much (for a female)?

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8 April 2009 (F) - I love masturbating lol But I do it so much I'm afraid it will make me "looser" or something. What are the consequences of doing it too much?...

Does he have feelings for me? All the signs are there!

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8 April 2009 (F) - I'm a sophomore in high school and I met a guy when I first moved here and have know him for almost two years. We get along well, but he's always been less social than I am. I've recently started talking to him more again, and I've never been mor...

If he likes me then why does he make fun of me?

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8 April 2009 (F) - i like this guy in my class but his pretty weird but really cute..he always makes fun of me and idk if that means he likes me..today he was like "hey babe" to me i turned red and i was like "im not ur babe"(smiling) then before the class ended,he ...

Feeling drained after masturbation. Is this normal?

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8 April 2009 (M) - OK, I masturbate 1 time a day or 1 every other, and I was just wondering, after I cum, I'm not really horny anymore, and I feel very physically drained, is this normal?...

What should I do to control these urges?

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8 April 2009 (M) - Ok, I'm 13, in the 8th Grade, and I like to fantasize about having group sex and individual sex with about 4+ of my male teachers. I know this will never happen, but I get so aroused by thinking about it. I am very attracted to older hairy men, and ...

Did I give my best friend the right advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Ok so my best friend is having a Big problem... she likes this guy. She and this other girl were competing for his attention/ being his GF. Anyways it turns out he was deciding between the two of them and before he could the other girl made the firs...

I have eating disorder, how do I overcome this?

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8 April 2009 (F) - This is going to sound self-centered, but this is a question about the relationship with myself. When I was twelve to fourteen years old, I had a minor case of anorexia because I was depressed and did not like living where I lived. This was ...

Will sex make us closer?

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8 April 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old and my boyfriend is 16, soon to be 17. We've been together for 11 months only. We've done other sexual stuff and it seems after we do that we fall more in love. We've done basically everything except, actual sex lol. But we ...

I feel bad for not listening to my parents about my boyfriend

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8 April 2009 (F) - hey im 16 years old and im going through a hard time right now..i got caught sneaking my boyfriend into my house at midnight i feel so bad because i had a lot going on with my parents they were telling me a lot. where it got to the point that both ...

Does she like me too?

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8 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm a 16-year-old boy and I'm love with the most beautiful girl (In my opinion of course) there's only one problem, she's one of my best friends. She doesn't know I feel this way and I want to tell her and I want her to feel the same way however ...

Does he like me?

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8 April 2009 (F) - I have loved this guy since the 6th grade(even though I had to figure out that I liked him because he's so different then any other guy I’ve liked before) Anyways in the 6th grade(two years ago) him and some of my friends were tight and we were easy ...

Me and my boyfriend fight a lot

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8 April 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend fight a lot, but we want to be together and love e/o, were both stubborn but wana make it work we've been together for only 11 months and from the start its been tough. Specially since he never gives in after we argue, he has too ...

I really want him to kiss me

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8 April 2009 (F) - What do i do if my bf says hes going to kiss me but doesn't because he said we weren't alone? There was only 1 person in there but I'm a little shy to. I really want him to kiss me....

Growing apart

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8 April 2009 (F) - What do you do when you feel like you and your boyfriend are growing apart but you really don't want the relationship to come to an end? Please help me out :[...

Worried my girlfriend is pregnant

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8 April 2009 (M) - you see my girlfriend turns 18 on May first while i turn 17 in August. We have been together for about 2 years and couldn't be happier. We are planning on moving in together when she turns 18.(her parents aren't exactly happy with our ...

Am I Suffering From Hysteria?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - When I was about 11 I tried masterbating for the First Time and It Didn't really do anything. But I noticed Something Strange, ever since....I'm always wet. Sometimes more then other, but my panties are getting wet and it's staining them! I wa...

Does he only want me for sex?

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8 April 2009 (F) - About 5 Day's ago a Friend of mine sent me an honesty Box Comment saying " i would like to make sweet love to you all night long, it'll be so good you wont want me to stop." I figured out that it was one of my perverted Friends, But he's a Nice ...

If me and my ex went out would it work?

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8 April 2009 (F) - me and my ex are good friends he likes to joke around with me saying he wants to touch me. We made a bet he said his prize was to have a lil feel of me i said ok but he didn't want to do it at first. i thought he weren't attracted to me. After he ...

I think he may have pushed her for sex and hurt her..Should I even continue dating this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - About 6 days ago, A friend of mine asked me out over facebook. But not the way most People would.....He said very bluntly that he wanted to have Sex with me. I thought that he was Just being the crude Joker that his is and I said "Well as Long as ...

Should we stop making out?

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8 April 2009 (M) - Whenever me and my girlfriend make out, because we're alone, it turns into this big romantic movie montage, we get so caught up in the moment and just loose ourselves...she gets on top of me on the bed/couch and starts feeling me up and i do the ...

No matter what I do...I cant orgasm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - Ok, so i am 17 years old and will be turning 18 in 12 days, i just started having sex with my boyfriend in october of this year. Although we have only been having sex for a couple months we have "done it" many times, (by many i mean at least 3 days ...

What's the deal with the student/ teacher fantasies?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

8 April 2009 (F) - This may seem a but random, but please bear with me: what's the deal with student/ teacher fantasies? i've been hearing a lot of talk lately about how it's a man's "greatest fantasy" (and how they even go as far as watching porn on the subject) ...