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Archived questions from: 16 April, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Could it be pregnancy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Hi, I was just wondering if anyone knew what it could be rather than telling me to go to a doctor, or if anyone else has experienced this: I had sex around 8 weeks ago so I don't think I'm pregnant and, what I think has been my period has come twi...

Can anyone give me some advice on the symptoms I am having?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - i have weird symptoms like unusual light period,tender breast and drops every now and then of brown blood what do these symptoms indicates. ...

First time help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5497 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - First of all I'm a girl not a guy and so I've been with my gf 8 months now and it's a online realtionship, well right now I'm going in 33 days to go be with her.... I'm so in love with her, she's my everything... we talk about sex all the time and ...

I need advice, I'm pregnant after being raped!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hi i am 14 and pregant i got pregant cause i was raped i dont know what to do i am scared please give me adivice i beg u ...

He's enthusiastic but doesn't orgasm. Where am I going wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

16 April 2009 (?) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for almost 7 months now. We're really close and love each other intensely. However, even though we've made love countless times, he still hasn't yet had an orgasm. What am I doing wrong? He really gets into sex wi...

Is it just because I'm a teenager?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Is it just because I'm a teenager? I'm 15 and I feel very bad about myself. I'm chubby and hate my face, I've been told I am ugly and fat by boys and just started believing them... should I? My mom always tells me to ignore them but I just can't. ...

My problem includes three people, my frend, the guy we BOTH like and me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - My problem includes three people, my frend, the guy we BOTH like and me. I told my friend I don't mind if she asks him out. He said yes, but it was only to not really hurt her. So that's not really the problem, it's just that that lead to him not ...

How can I either stop myself from cumming so soon or find a way to make my boyfriend cum faster???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I am very sensitive when it comes to having sex and find that I cum very easily... my boyfriend is the opposite and takes time to come... I get very frustrated and feel as if I'm not doing enough to please my boyfriend... How can I either stop ...

I don't know what to do when "doing a blowjob"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Me and this boy have been talking and we want to move to oral sex! Well I really don't know what to do when doing a blowjob. Can anyone tell me how because I don't wanna look like a complete fool and not know what I'm doing. Please help!...

What on earth do you think he's up to? It sounds very dodgy to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Hi, this is really weird. The other week I had a fight with my boyfriend, afterwards we made up and he made out he wasn't still mad, but he made this phone call in front of me just before I left his house. He mentioned a "sick plan" and some man - ...

Is he just using me for sex and company?

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16 April 2009 (F) - I am 17 years old, and was dating a boy who has turned 19 for 4 months. He dumped me on the night of a party I was hosting claiming that I acted like "a drunk hoe". I really wasn't acting that bad, he just didn't like that I paid more attention to ...

What is this cum like discharge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Hey all, I'm 14 years old, coming up to 15 next month and I started my period a year and a half ago and recently I have been getting a type of thick cum like substance sometimes when I wake up. I thought it was my hygiene but bath every day so I'm a ...

Should I go out with someone that I don't have alot of feelings for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - i really want a boyfriend atm, theres the prom coming up and im just really lonely theres a few guys that i think are interested in me but i just dont feel that much for them do you think i should just go out with one of them anyway? surely ...

Asking me out? How can I get him to do so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy at the recently, a friend of a friend, and we just clicked. nothing happened, but he added me on fb and msn. he told his friend that hed met a really nice girl - me. so theres a chance he likes me, right? thing is, hes not in my g...

Can you tell me what he is thinking?!?

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16 April 2009 (F) - I really like this friend of mine. I have told him this and he states he just wants to be friends. I am very confused as after he started wanting to hang out more and all my friends notice his body language and his additude show he wants some...

Follow up: Whats going On?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - (this is a follow up to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-he-just-flirting-with-me-or-does.html sorry but just got the clues) Lately I been going crazy about this boy named "HR" his same age as me but turning 17 this year and I’m 16. Last we...

Do you think I can have sex in the future, with my problem right now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I was wondering if I had a problem. I try to use tampons instead of pads, but I can't seem to fit them in. I have a light flow for about 4 days,every 5 weeks. I thought that may be the problem, but I'm not sure. All of my friends use tampons and ...

I had sex with my best friend and guess what? I'm now I'm in love with her.... so am I a lesbian?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hi, im 17years old and i have a problem... and recently found that i have begun to have odd feelings towards my best friend who is also a girl. shes unbelievably pretty, smart, funny and i melt when she speaks to me, which is quite often as i see he...

Falling for a guy in the Army- tips on how to make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Okay, i missed my first few classes to do this... so im really hoping i will get some responses and feed back. Here is my story. So my cousin is in the national guard and he went off onto that 16 week training after boot camp. There he met a guy ...

Double standards?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - how come if a women has slept with lots of men people see her as a slapper but if a man has slept with lots of women everyone sees him as 'cool'?...

15 and never been kissed by a boy!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hey, ok i have a problem with myself. i am really slim but my mom is really slim aswell so it kind of runs in the family. no i am not anorexic and i don't have a eating disorder, i eat like a pig infact and just comfort eat but i dont know where it ...

I'm always on the receiving end. What can I do to be the giver too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - my b/f is really good in making out and in bed , he has experience , while me on the other hand i just find myself on the receiving side , he kisses me all over , licks , sucks , plays .. all but i dont know what to do where to kiss him beside the ...

My b/f has a very high sex drive and I can't keep up. What should we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - hey everyone. my problem involves my boyfriends sex drive. im 19 and he is 22, been going out a few months. He has an extremely high sex drive, and we have just talked about it and he told me that he has lost all his past girlfriends because ...

I'm just wondering :)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Ookay.So i was just wondering how you get std and all that other kind of contagious stuff that you can get from sexual contact. Thank you....

A couple questions about masturbation.. *girls*

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - when i'm on my period and have a tampon in while i watch porn, i still come! how can this be if a tampon is in me... no blood comes out, just come? also, is it normal to orgasm continuously? i mean, if i was to count how many orgasms i have in ...

When do the birth control pills start working?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I just started taking birth control pills today(Wednesday) and I'm going to be at my boyfriends house on Saturday. My Question(s) are: -Will the birth control pills start actually..working by then? -If I'm on Birth Control and he still DOES Use a...

Why can't I have an orgasm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - plz help! Me and my boyfriend just started having sex a little while ago, and he was my first. and the first time we did it, he had an orgasm in a good 45-60 minz! but we've had sex multiple times and i just cant seem to get one?? he may have been...

She said it is too late now, and I am shattered

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - hey, im a guy that is 16 years old. i have relationship issues with my girlfriend and im seeking a lot of advice... we've been dating for 3 years and 2 months now. during the 2nd year she cheated on me for another guy. they met, hugged and kiss...

How you would feel about going with a girl 3 or 4 years younger?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - okay so im fourteen and i hang about with people 3 years older than me , i dont know why i suppose ive always just got on with older people better. ive only had one boyfriend before.. no boys ever like me, any i like back,. im quite a picky pers...

What should I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Heyyyy..... i need to know what i should do... Im 15 and my boyfriend is also 15, we have been together for 9 months. We had PROTECTED sex on March 14 and i missed my period and i got alot of pregnancy signs. I took one preg. test Tuesday morni...

Confused about how to make this work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - so this past weekend i met a really cute boy at a party.. and we didnt kiss or anything but we hung out the whole night. he got my number at the end of the night and the next day he texted me. we texted the whole day. we added eachtoher on myspace ...

How can I tell if she even cares about me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - hovering around the same subject as my last two posts: the girl who i think i love, who is also my bestfriends ex. i still am holding off on the whole telling her how i feel idea, but today i might have realized something.. ok, so last week, i lef...

Does inexperience turn a guy on or off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - Does inexperience turn a guy on or off? I recently started seeing a new guy, and things have gotten pretty intimate really fast.. though this is a first for me. Any ideas? Much appreciated....

Taken but regretting it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - I've wanted a girlfriend for more than a year now and recently I started dating my friend. She's amazing but I found out I really miss being single. Like I've had this huge need to flirt with other girls and talk with my friends about how hot they ...