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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Are big areolae a turnoff?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Are big areolae(2 inches) a turnoff? Is an areolae reduction a turnoff to men or are men ok with a reduction?...

Does my husband have a problem with me? or sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Been married 12 years and sex has always been a problem almost from the beginning. When we were dating I had a higher sex drive and was frustrated about the quality and quantity of sex, although when I married him I reasoned that it would be easi...

I need help making my younger man happy in bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I'm wanting to continue make my younger boyfriend happier in bedroom we been together five months he says I don't work my back or hips enough in bed give me tips to keep man in my bed we stay complete I thought I was doing good he says I only got ...

My wife was adventurous with men in her past but I have to beg her for sex

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - Can someone explain why is it that my wife could have sex in every sort of way possible with different men and now that I am her husband I am stuck with just nothing. I literally have to beg her for sex...she never wants to experiment like she did ...

Should you trust your partner enough not to use condoms?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - This might sound a little stupid but i am going to ask it anyway and it is more to see what are people's sides when it comes to this topic. So i have been in a relationship with this wonderful guy for like a year an a half, he is in his mid 20s a...

How do I know what is assertive and what is taking and not giving?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Ok so this is quite a graphic question as i feel I have to go into detail to explain. I was with my boyfriend at the weekend and Sunday morning I got a little upset. To explain- I was with someone for 16 yrs and married for 4 yrs before I met my L...

My boyfriend wants me to use dirty talk in the bedroom and I have no idea how to do it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4395 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I'm quite embarrassed about asking this, but i have no one else to ask... i'v been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we started having sex, but he never manages to finish 'if you know what i mean' and he told me he'll only ...

I don't want my first to be a stranger, but at university the temptation is always there!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I'm 18 and I've not slept with anyone before and it doesn't help that when i go out in the evenings and meet guys that i'm so tempted to sleep with them! Two nights ago, I met this guy and we were really on it with each other!! I couldn't get ...

I understand not being in the mood, but for 8 months??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - I feel that I've become unattractive to my girlfriend. We've been going out for two-years. At the start of our relationship, we were all over each other all the time. We would have sex basically everyday, sometimes two or three times (or more) ...

Is my FWB toying with me? Should I wait and see what he does or should I just ignore him and get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I've had a FWBs relationship with a guy for a little over a year now, I've asked for advice on here before but now there is a different problem I seem to cant understand. He has recently become more affectionate with me and openly telling me he wa...

Sex doesn't feel good -- is there something I can do to fix it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Ok so im 18 i have been sexually active since i was 15 but sex has never once felt good. I have never had an orgasm from penetration. Its kinda like im not feeling anything at all when im having sex. when I was younger i did what i think every child ...

How can I control my lust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I think my lust level is way too high compared to normal women. I swore to myself I won't sleep with anyone til I'm married, but I think about sex 24/7. I know this sounds like a paradox, but I really don't want to have sex...