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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is he interested or just playing games?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Hi! Me and this guy went to two parties, made out at both if them. We went on a date on the weekend, he paid for cinema, food and cab. I said I liked him and he said that he's not looking for a relationship, he has uni applications and a business...

Why is LDR boyfriend embarrassed to sex text me now? He wasn't before!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Sex Text question? I have been with my LD BF for just over 6 months- we meet up every month or so and have a great time together. A few weeks ago he mentioned to me that sex was no longer the most important thing to him and that just being with me ...

Love my job, but! Married Boss is badgering me to have an affair. What's the best realistic thing to do in this situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - I have been at my job for about a 18 months. about 6 months ago, my married boss started badgering me for sex. I emphatically told him I wasnt interested because he had a wife. plus he is not my type-- although i couldnt say that to his face beca...

Arousal makes me need to go to the bathroom!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Apologies in advance for the slightly graphic nature of this question, but I've noticed something rather puzzling about my body! From time to time I'll feel really aroused out of the blue, then a few moments later I'll realise I need to use the ...

I'm insecure about my inner lips ever since one guy said they looked weird!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - hi, so this is more of a body issue question.. I am 21 years old and I'm a virgin. I have had oral sex once a couple years back but it has really made me isecure. I have larger inner lips 'down there' (labia minora) and the guy I had oral s...

When someone just wants sex, do they avoid affection like this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - How does a man act if it's "just sex"? I've been seeing this man. We slept together once and since then I've tried not to see him, but I keep ending up seeing him and we kiss. We can never be together - there are so many reasons. Our situations i...

How do I not ruin this relationship, due to my insecurities over failed past relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - I have had a really bad relationship in the past that was emotionally abusive and resulted in me being very insecure. He cheated on me repeatedly, lied about even basic things and put me down constantly, when he kicked me out I was left pretty d...

I think I've made the biggest mistake of my life ending my affair. Don't want to be hated. But how do I make this work out right?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (M) - Hi, not sure how to start this but hoping to get some good advice. I have been with my wife for 9 years married for 4 and last year i had an affair for 3 months with a woman who is friends with one of my friends. There was a connection from ...

Guys, don't you feel it if a woman wants you? or you just give it a try anyway and try your luck?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - This is what I want to ask you guys and girls, but mostly guys: can you tell when you have a chance with a woman even for just that night, or are just men absolutely oblivious to the signs and you guys need to be told straight forward yes or no? ...

Does anyone think the law not allowing 16 year olds an younger to have sex will stop anyone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

7 October 2011 (F) - Just want to clarify, I don't want to have sex. I just think its unrealistic. Do you think it'll stop anyone? No one will call the police. Especially if their both underage. I know why its there and all, but I also know a pregnant eighth grader. T...