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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

Is he just using me? Should I tell him I have feelings for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I've recently become intimate with a boy who I've known for about 2 years. We've been out before but that was a year ago and it didn't work out. Now I'm single again after a relationship, he wants to become 'friends with benefits'. This is fine with ...

Six years with no intercourse. Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 years,on and off.he wants to have intercourse but i dont for various reasons.he said he shouldnt have to wait any longer as 6 years is a long time and he said he doesnt want to be with someone who wont have intercourse ...

How to tell him I am falling in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - what is the best way to tell a guy im falling in love with him??????...

How long should I date her without a sexual relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

17 October 2011 (M) - I am a male with a high-sex drive in my mid twenties. I have had a lot of partners and dated even more women, but only one previous lover. I met this new girl who I am absolutely attracted to in multiple dynamics and hope her to be my next love....

Personality vs looks?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Hi, So I was wondering... Is personality or physical attraction more important? Any thoughts would be appreciated!...

How many men think sex isn't good unless a BJ in involved?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - How many of men consider that sex is not good without blowjob? Is intercourse alone not enough to satisfy a man? How many women would perform oral sex on a stable partner vs a casual sexual encounter?...

How do I ask her do have sex with me without pissing her off and ruining our relationship?...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (M) - Me and my cousin have always had this kinda connection since we were younger. It went from just touching to kissing. So now a couple of months ago me and my cousin ended up having sex together, and all i can think about is having sex with her. I ...

Pubic hair, rashes and embarassing moles!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - [Mod Note: 3 questions merged into one] Quite a personal question... but here we go, pubic hair is so annoying. I do my bikini line and trim, but it still feels like there is too much. How can you trim "neatly"? Sometimes I feel like being complete...

I want to make sure he's not just using me for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I know this is going to sound silly but I,ve recently slept with a guy that I,ve been dating for 3 months now and he was my first. The thing is since we slept together he's been kinda distant.( silliness bout to come up ) But I want to make sure he ...

How much did you regret not losing your virginity to your husband/wife?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Did you regret not losing your virginity to the person you're married to? How much? I'm torn between waiting until marriage (for religious and mostly nonreligious reasons) and just going for it with whoever I feel like. But I don't want to one day ...

We decided to be FWB, but now it sounds like he wants something more but he cant give me a straight answer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - Hi! Ok, this situation is a bit more complicated than I'd like it to be, but it is what it is. I met a guy 3 1/2 years ago and things didn't work out. Now, we've started talking again and we decided to do a friends with benefits type of thing. ...

I really want to, but I always back out at the last minute

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4584 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I'm 17 and I've only ever had two boyfriends. The first realtionship I was in was really innocent even though it lasted a long time. He was really respectful and chivalrous, and we never really even thought of moving past making out (and letting ...

Does being turned on more by girls make me lesbian???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4583 days ago

17 October 2011 (?) - So I'm a girl and I hang out with guys all day so they got me to watch porn and then I started to watch lesbian porn. It turns me on more to see a girl naked then seeing a guy. but I don't want to be lesbian. what does this mean if I get turned on ...

I'm scared and unsure what to do. The guy thinks I'm not into it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4584 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - So I am hooking up with this guy but really I do not know what I am doing. I really like him and he feels the same way too, but still. He's experienced and I feel scared. We tried to get it in but I couldn't take it. I'm completely lost and he said ...