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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Why did I bleed during foreplay when I've lost my virginity 10 yrs ago?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

23 October 2011 (F - i'm female, almost 26. lost my virginity 10 years ago when i was almost 16. i was with my boyfriend tonight and after we had some foreplay he had blood on his hand. it most definitely is not that time of month. i cannot and do not understand this. i ...

We had sex for the first time in just 1 week, now feeling insecure about it.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

23 October 2011 (F - I've started a really stupid habit and I feel so anxious about it. I just started dating someone new after a 5 year relationship/engagement. All we do is hit the bars and have sex afterwards. The first few days, I pushed him away. But this ...

Partner doesn't appreciate my larger size. Did I make a mistake making it bigger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

23 October 2011 (M - I aways thought I needed to add inches to my member. I started in 2003 and worked at the penal excersizes for years. It took for ever the natural way,but worked. I am 8 1/2 in length and 7 1/4 in cir Width Flaccid I don't change that much,...

Is outdoor sex illegal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

23 October 2011 (M - Is outdoor sex illegal? I have a big craving for it, and know some desolate places. Where have people tried it without getting caught?...

My boyfriend is flirting with transmen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

23 October 2011 (F - I'm 25, my boyfriend's 27, we've been together for over 5 years, lived together in our own home for 2 years now. We have a young daughter as well - he's the father, I'm not a single mum etc. - she was born out of wedlock to be technical. In the la...

Are details necessary? Or is it better to never know?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4573 days ago

23 October 2011 (F - Hi aunts and uncles. I have a question which I am hoping I will get a few answers to. I wanted to see what everyone's general opinion was on knowing their partners sexual past, and the extent of that knowledge. In a relationship, do you feel the ...

My fiance keeps asking me to play along with her fantasy but then rejects my advances! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

23 October 2011 (M - so i know rape fantasy is very common among women. my fiance has always enjoyed this fantasy and has often asked me to "fuck her like im raping her". she will always tell me to be rougher or go harder. now she is quite ashamed about these fantasies ...

Is she serious, or just pulling my leg?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4577 days ago

23 October 2011 (M - my fiance will often screw with people simply because she finds it funny.. it started out fairly simple like telling me the wrong weather forecast so i would wear summer clothes on a cold day. she does this with everyone however she often will joke ...

Everytime I'm with him, he gets a hard on!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

23 October 2011 (F - Hello! I am just beginning to date a new man (5 dates, its still early days and not yet 'official' in terms of being classed as bf/gf). He is a total sweetie, and a real gentleman, I really couldnt wish for a nicer man. I really do like him,...

Should I date this liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

23 October 2011 (F - Dear Cupid, I'm a freshman and he's a junior. He's had sex with 3 girls I know of and I'm a virgin, he promises he won't hurt me or pressure me into sex. He's lied to me once about how many girls he's had sex with. When I talk to him in person i...

I don't want sex to hurt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

23 October 2011 (F - I have a sex question?well like a 2 years ago I had a boyfriend that took my virginity half we tryed having sex but when he was putting it in he only put it halfway in it poped but we didnt do it cause I jumped out I guess it hurt me cause I wasnt ...

Was he that good? Is this normal? I'm horny and if he's not there, it's hard for me to feel pleasure from touching myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

23 October 2011 (F - First off, my age group is misleading, I'm a few days to 18. Anyways, about a month or so ago, me an my bf got intimate, not sex, but he did finger me. Ever since then, when I'm horny and he's not there, it's hard for me to feel pleasure from to...

She says she loves me, but has shown absolutely no emotion or affection toward me since we got back together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

23 October 2011 (M - Things my girlfriend of 4 and half years dreads if I ask her:- "Shall we have a night out?" We used to have nights out at least once a week. Then we split up for 3 months in 2008 and got back, things have never been the same. Its as if she doe...

Why not? he asked his friend to ask my friend for my number ... But he DIDN'T call me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

23 October 2011 (F - Hi! Three weeks ago I went out with my friend, a friend of hers and a friend of this friend. We had a blast and i finished sleeping with this second friend. During the night he was telling me about going out together after work (we live very cl...

Please be fair about this : I'm a virgin. How can I make it easier for me to find a girl without a sexual past??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

23 October 2011 (M - okay, i have a problem and i would like some help if you guys have the time to give me some advice, is not the first time that i bring this question here, but i feel that the last time i didn't express myself correctly and only confused the readers, ...

Period 1 month late after b/f fingered me

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23 October 2011 (F - ok idk if its normal but my period still didnt arrive and i think its been a bit over a month since i had it the last time, and this happened especially after having had sex with my bf, but we didnt really do it he just fingered xD, idk ... is it ...

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