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writes:help!!there is 23 years between me n my boyfriend, we have been together for 5 months and only started having sex 2 months ago, he is quite experience, even thou he denies that he has been with over 10 girls, but we joke bout it, i love him so much and i am very very afraid of losing him, he has helped me throu depression, anorexia and a critical suicide attepmt, i dont know what i would do without him, he satisfies me rediculously!! (excuse the spelling) we are very very confident with each other but i want to please him, any suggestions? please? x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Never ever TRY to be someone you are not, if you do, then you will fall foul. Just be yourself and you will be ok.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Show your love and appreciation of his body. Take time over it and kiss and carress him everywhere. Treat his body like a temple, treat your partner like a god. Keep an open mind, and ask him to tell him what he likes, how you can keep him happy. Don't do anything you feel uncomfortable with, stop if it hurts. Tell him how much he means to you, and tell him how good he makes your body feel, tell him what you like sexually and have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): Miss, please, just be yourself, do what comes naturally to you and don't worry.
Don't forget, he is quite possibly as afraid of losing a cute teenage girlfriend as you are of losing him. He seems to be genuine enough, having proved his love for you by the help and support he has given. I would say that you both seem to be doing the right things for eachother. Keep going the way you are - no point fixing what ain't broke!Enjoy eachother and good luck!
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reader, caring-chrissy +, writes (20 May 2008):
Has he said anything about leaving you? if so then you two are in an adult relationship now, there should be no reason you cannot talk about you're problems. If he hasn't said anything about leaving you then you have nothing to worry about. He is obviously happy, other wise he would not be with you. Experience has nothing to do with sex. because no 2 people are the same. the joy of being together is to experiment with each other. to try different things to see what pleases each other. there is nothing to worry about unless he has mentioned leaving. and if this is anything to do with sex, all you need to remember is that if he is only after one thing, then he isn't worth it. if he isn't willing to work on it then he doesn't care about you as much as he says.
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