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Archived questions from: 18 January, 2010 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

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Marriage problems: Help and advice

Is husband depressed? Having an emotional breakdown?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I have been married for 13 years (happily I thought). This is a second marriage for both of us. We recently bought a beutiful new home, have good jobs and both of my children have moved ot and have lives of their own. When my children were living ...

Husbands dirty secret

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - This morning my husband left for a business trip. He forgot to close out a hidden folder on our computer. I have never seen this folder. It was like I entered into a shrine of women...from porn, pics of famous women, to random naked girls......

Wife found out about texts to other woman, and I don't think our marriage can survive this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - I hope someone can help. I got very close to a co-worker, especially texting and phone calls plus some meetings when we could make it. Nothing sexual happened although we both led each other on to believe we wanted it to and the texts etc got pretty ...

His looking at porn could be a big problem for me, especially as he lies about it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My husband likes to look at porn. I don't mind as long as he is truthful about it and offers to include me sometimes. No it's not my favorite thing to do, but I love him and if it's something he likes then why make a fight of it so long as he is ...

Should I read into these comments on Facebook?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - My wife is a different cultural background. Would you get upset if you saw on a public networking site two of her clients at work making sexually suggestive comments about her? Nor directly at her, nor were they crude. The convo went like ...

My mum is dragging my husband into our arguments, is she trying to sabotage my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Dear cupid,av got an issue that hurts me deeply.well i got into a very huge fight with my mum recently,she always barks orders at me and insults me evry chance she gets,so i bursted and told her that i wouldnt talk to her ever if she didnt start ...

Why is my husband so lazy when it comes to sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Hello My Dear Cupid friends, I been married for 8 1/2 months i'm 29 and he is 48,I wrote about him in a previous post.. I have had some problems with porn with him but he cooled out on it alot.. My husband does not like to kiss and is not affec...

Would you be angry if your husband took a job that pays a lot less?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - Would you be angry with your husband for taking a job that pays a lot less than what they should be making? my husbad and I have been married for 1.5 and together 10. We are both nurses and we moved from one side of the country to the ...

I found a photo on his phone, he says its nothing but why keep the photo?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - i have just found a photo of a woman on my husbands phone which he had hid in his phone files when i asked him who it was he lied and after alot of shouting at him he admitted he had kissed her on a night out when he was away on a stag doo. He said ...

Was I too pushy with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5204 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - My husband and i are in the process of getting a divorce and so is his sister and her husband. well last wek her husband and i made out and talked on the phone for an hour and had phone sex. we both said we liked it and he told me to call him ...

My husband acts like I'm invisible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - my husband and i have been married 10 years to each other. i have been married before 3 times. he has been married once. we met at rehab where we were both recovering from our own addictions. we are both clean and sober now. my husband, however is a ...

Is my wife dating another man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - please help me to make a decision about my relationship? i am suspicious of my wife dating another man after reading a message on facebook to her friend stating she was going on a date but i arrived home that night discovering "going out clothes ...

I'm hurt about my wife's sexual past so what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - My wife was married for 5 years in the seventies.Her marriage evolved into swinging.She has had sex every way you can, from anal to group sex, she was quite the party girl.Toward the end of her marriage she got knocked up to reel in her husband and ...

My husband watches gay porn but denies he's gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I am very confused... My husband and I have never really had much of a sex life and he hates french kissing, oral sex (given or received), as he says it's degrading. I ALWAYS have to initiate sex and even then it's such a chore to him. I always ...

He fawns over young employees and tells them I am okay with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I have struggled with a situation twice in the past 4 years with my husband of 12 years. We have 3 young children. Each time he developed a "crush" on a much younger employee, which lasted 6-8 months (winding down now). Although no physical ...

Wife number two doesn't like children of wife number one, I have them once a week, and every week she complains

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - Should I leave my 2nd wife? She and the kids from the 1st wife don't click well at all, I've tried so many things but noting helped, the kids stay with us every Sunday, by Sunday evening she always bitch to me about them, so my week is always m...

Despite a loving relationship for 17 years I am still bothered by the guys she knew before she met me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

18 January 2010 (M) - OK - after reading all the other posts and trying to compare mine with others - I could not! So, here I go. I have been in a very sexually active relationship with my current wife of over 13 years especially when we have been together for wel...

Caught my husband in affair and he left me pregnant and alone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

18 January 2010 (F) - I am 36 weeks pregnant with baby #2. We have been married for 5 1/2 years and already have a son who is almost 4. We were more like roommates than a married couple, but I never imagined he would be cheating on me. Man..I was wrong! He withheld ...