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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid...I met this wonderful guy in Durban almost a year ago, and we've been chatting alot..and recently he had to go work on this cruise ship.Before he went away he came all the way to Pretoria to see me before he goes away. We had such a wonderful time, we even kissed in the rain it was just like a fairy tale.Well today I am still waiting for him to come back and he calls me sometimes, he really tries but he is so busy.What I want to ask you is it worth waiting for a man that makes me so happy and smile even if he's not here? Or am I just wasting my time? Reply to this Question
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reader, TashaLeigh +, writes (4 February 2013):
Thank you very much you have given me hope! i will wait for him and be patient...he will be coming back in 3 months thats not long right? thanks and God bless xoxo
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reader, Soldierette  +, writes (2 February 2013):
 Well well well...Let me tell you something missy!My life story is exactly a holiday romance which I waited on for 2 whole long and hard yrs.. And today I'm married to that same man with a beautiful baby boy and we are now 6 yrs going strong.. so my dear fairy tales DO exist!!!If the man makes you feel happy and he makes u smile, he makes the effort to contact you and he has come to see you.. he makes you feel special and you know he is busy with work etc etc then take the work away and add up all the good things...Only you know what is right for you but be realistic too.. I never thought I would up being with the man I met on holiday but here we are 6 yrs after...so dreams do come true and yes I know what others would say too.. you're crazy move on.. its only one time Only you know whats right for you my dear..but romance is not dead out there
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 February 2013):
 Waiting for what?
what has he offered you?
personally I do not think this is the type of relationship that has enough substance to work in the long run.
YOU met him once
he works on a cruise ship which means he's gone more than he's here... and it seems as if his home is not where your home is...
you met once after you initial meeting...
he calls once in a while...
not seeing anything worth waiting for....
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