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Archived questions from: 21 July, 2009 (see latest in Health category)

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Health: Help and advice

What is the truth about anal sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I want to know the truth about anal sex. does it hurt. and ive heard that you can poo, or there may be remains of poo on the condom after withdrawal, is this true???...

What do the labia look like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - this is libia question when one of my friends puts on a bathing suit there is a little lump..kinda like an arch stretching down. i think it is her libia. does this happen to all girls? and What is it? [Moderator note: the following question w...

Two UTI's in one month?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Two weeks ago I got a UTI. After it went away me and my boyfriend continued to have sex with a condom on. Last night we had sex without one, I'm on the pill by the way and now I wake up and I feel like I have a UTI again. I'm scared to tell my mom ...

My drug addict ex boyfriend dumped me, he just puts drugs before me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My ex bf began taking cocaine at age 10 as well as drinking and having sex. His parents sent him to a rehab in grade 9 but when he got out he became a dealer and ended up doing time in jail. When he got out he went back to his old ways and ended up ...

Foreskin doesn't retract! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5403 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - i am 20 years old and a hindu. when my penis is erect , my foreskin gets tight and doesnt pull back... plz tell me some soluton to it as i fear that it will affect my married life? [email address removed per DearCupid guidelines] plz r...

Any ideas on how to make the smell go away 'down there'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Hi, recently my boyfriend told me when ever we have sex that I dont smell very pleasant down there. I went and had a pap and everything was fine. i dont know what else to do?! any recommendations in how i can make the smell go away?...

Am I heartless for even thinking about this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - I'm engaged to a lovely girl. We've been together for over 5 years, but ever since we bought a house together she's become very distant. She still chooses to live with her mother rather than at our house, and openly admits that she doesn't know if ...

I have some sex and health issues and questions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

21 July 2009 (?) - [Moderator note: I combined two questions into one for space and continuity.] 1: i hate anal sex it hurts me really bad but my boyfriend loves to give it to me. lastnight we ued lube but still i was in alot of pain. i want to mke him happy so i jus...

I trusted my long-term boyfriend enough to stop using condoms with him, but now I am itchy! Could it just be thrush or something more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5402 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I need help. I hope I am just worrying for nothing. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and been completely faithful. Before him I have only had sex with 3 other guys all who were my boyfriends. I was safe with all of them (using ...

Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, ...

Squirting worries

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5403 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - hello, iv noticed that when i cum its alot and its a very pale yellow colour, i know im not pissing because i go to the toilet before hand, could anyone please explain this to me?...

Questions abot the female form!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

21 July 2009 (M) - i feel weird asking this this but does the libia of the vagina "stick out". because a few people when they are in their swim suits something sticks out a little and i was wondering if it was her libia...and what is a hymen?...

What do you use for your allergies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Not a relationship question, but just wondering something out of curiosity. Does anyone here have allergies? and if so, what do you use for them? Mine have seemed to be getting stronger lately, and because of this I can't get sleep! I take some ...

I hate smoking more than I love him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5403 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - I had always known my boyfriend smoked when he went out to pubs and clubs but it didn't bother me. Now 6 years later he has changed jobs to an outdoor job and seems to be smoking here and there. I'm gutted cos i thought our relationship was ...

Is the babies father able to accompany me to the Doctors?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5206 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - Im 17 yrs old and pregnant with a 19 yr old guy i've been dating for almost 2yrs. Hes very active in both mine and the babys life and wanted to keep it as soon as he found out. because he is so active though, he wants to be involved in all the ...

Why do people judge other people because of their size?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

21 July 2009 (F) - i know this isnt relationship... but what exactly is wrong with 'fat' people? people slag them off, call them names, pick on them, bully them, talk about them! i dont get what the difference between a fat person and a thin person is? is it not the ...