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Archived questions from: 2 May, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

My wife touched his privates to check out his problem..did she go too far?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I need a little advice, or maybe just reassurance, or maybe someone to tell me i'm being dumb. Or maybe I am right and this is nothing. My wife has her 2 year degree, and about 2 years ago we decided that she should pursue a full degree to get ce...

I have feelings for her; but she's engaged!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - Hi. about 6 months back I met a girl in uni that was doing some of the same courses as me, I got chatting to her and walked her to her bus stop before going home. I never saw her again for a few months. The next semester it turned out that ...

He says we're nothing to each other so why does he act jealous?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - ok, well this guy and i have been casual sex buddies for about 7 months now, we talk everyday and meet up as and when we can. He gets jealous if he thinks im seeing other ppl, and even makes up stories about other girls to make me jealous! But when ...

Why does he act so strangely if he doesn't want to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - This is kinda confusing. I once liked this guy. A lot. I mean I was crushing on him super bad. But he didnt feel back, so he told me to get over him. I did (as much as possible), and I thought we could be friends. We cant really. He has a few i...

Is your first friend on facebook your most important one? (ie boyfriend or girlfriend)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Can you date someone from face book by just meeting them on face book? It's a general question. If you make someone your first friend on face book list does that mean they are girlfriend or boyfriend or is that rubbish, I thought it went ...

I'm falling in love with her best friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I am a 25 year old male, who just got out of a 4 year relationship last week. The girl who I left, I have a 2 year old son with. I left her because even after a year of trying to work it out, the fighting, drama, and unecessary stress was getting ...

I was told he likes me but he's with someone and can't see them breaking up any time soon...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - My crushes best friend told me that my crush likes me but he likes his girlfriend more. Recently he has been acting more interested in me but he doesn't act like he's gonna break up with his girlfriend any time soon. What can i do?...

Is she going through some kind of phase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I like this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me too. She has the top average in my grade. In recent years, she wants to be "popular" and acts stupid and bubbly when I know she's not really like that. We like each other, but her style butts heads ...

Am I being lead on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - There's this girl I've really liked for a long time, and I'm pretty sure she likes me. However, she does this weird thing where she gets all flirtatious when I don't show that much interest in her, but when I try to show interest, she becomes a lot ...

How to stop being jealous of my ex best friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I'm really jealous of my ex best friend. She's prettier than me, more successful than me in all areas of life (eg: academically) she's popular and has more friends than me, has a really hot boyfriend in her life (the guy I had a secret crush on for ...

Is it normal to fall for a guy whom you have been chatting to for several months online with, only after one meeting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Is this normal for me to feel this way about him? Is it normal to fall for a guy whom you have been chatting to for several months online with, only after one meeting, we have had a few disagreements and have been through a bit together, even tho...

What should I do? I really like him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Recently i'm 20 and i have been having feelings both emotional and sexual towards my mum's cousin's husband's brothers son. We have always said we r cousins even tho we are not related through blood. We have been close for about seven years. i Broke ...

My football coach is getting too cosy for my liking.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I posted a question a few months back concerning this. Now i have more to think about. I like my football coach and i think he might know. He is the number one person i trust in my life - he knows everything about me and vice versa. That's no...

Is there a chance he might actually like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - i like this guy in my class we allways joke around but his always mean to me..he calls me ugly then i call him ugly back and then he says i should shave my face cuz its hairy and i get mad and stop talking to him then he says he's sorry..i call him ...

Our friendship is falling apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - my friend is getting annoying i think she is bipolar please help me..i have a best friend and i text her all the time 24/7 we're soo opposite of each other but we are the biggest dorks around each other..sometimes over texts we get into a fight and ...

Is my boyfriend too flirty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a naturally flirtacious person who likes to make people laugh.he has quite a few friends as girls. Some r ex girlfriends! He isnt trying to hid anything and is always honest that when he goes out he does get girls come upto him ...

I have to lie to my parents to be able to go to a bizarre party, I'm nervous, what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - okay tomorow well pretty much today im qoinq to this party at some popular girls house with my friends. theres going to be alchohol and lots of high schoolers and smoking and i dont know what to do. ive really never been to a party. and i have to ...

My best friend introduced me to an abuser, and still wants to hang with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - I have been best friends with 'Jill' for well over ten years. In August of 2007 she met up with me downtown and brought one of her co-workers with named 'Jack'. We ended up hitting it off and he asked me out shortly after. We ended up dating ...

I want to have a wife with whom I can discuss things that are heavily scientific and who can understand reality at my level of thought.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I’ve been friends with this woman since 1st grade, although between grades 5 and 6 I moved to another area and we didn’t see much of each other. We’ve kept in touch by every now and then emailing back and forth or talking on the phone, and sometimes ...

Why is she seeming so distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

2 May 2009 (M) - I am 23 and have been out of the dating game for several years after an extremely hard breakup just before college. Now I've started dating this wonderful young woman and it seemed like everything was going great... But something started eating a...

How do I handle this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - My best guy friend of over a decade and I decided to have sex last night just to see what it'd be like with each other. Well, while he was inside me, he confessed to me that he loves me. The sex was so utterly great and the fact that he told me he ...

I'm becoming less and less my true self

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Hello, Okay, here's the deal. I have this friend, let's just call her "Alice". So Alice has epilepsy because of a cyst on her spine she had as a child which has given her permanent nerve damage and a bad back. People often think she's retarded...

I don't think she has my best interests at heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

2 May 2009 (?) - I have this friend of mine, I say she's my friend, I wasnt working for a year and a half, she is working, we chat and laugh on the phone about her business. during that year she never called me then one day she called and asks me if I'd found a job, ...

Friendly neighbours?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

2 May 2009 (?) - I am living on my own, I am new to the environment, I don't talk to my neighbours and they don't talk to me. I don't rush to say good morning, they don't either, only the guys talk to me, and have been friendly only 2 guys, what do you think about ...

Is friendship unconditional?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - Really need some advice about a friendship please. Friendship works both ways doesnt it? - Both ppl giving and taking? What if the taking is mainly done by one person? they dont even know that they do it, they have their own problems at t...

My boyfriend's friend doesn't like me... how do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

2 May 2009 (F) - we've been 7 months with my boyfriend.. and it's the first time i can feel that one of his church mates was not just into me. I mean, doesn't like me for him. there's this one time when i checked on my boyfriend's friendster account and read one ...