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Archived questions from: 4 May, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Why do guys like to play games with your heart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Why do guys like to play games with your heart? Its obvious sometimes how this guy feels about me but then it seems like he doesn't like me. It makes me sad when I don't talk to him and he doesn't care until later on. I don't like him playing games! ...

I care about her so much and just wish I knew what she thought about me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Hello everyone, I have been seeing this girl for about four months and I really care about her a lot. Things have been sort of rocky. Sometimes she just doesnt seem interested in me and other times it seems like she is really interested in me...

My friend, dating my personal girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I have a little problem, one of my friends wants to date my personal girlfriend! Please, I need advice on what to do. Please reply as soon as you can. Do I let him?...

What sexuality am I? Confused - lesbian or straight???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Basically ive just started to question my sexuality... ive always been straight and when i was younger had boyfriends but for the last 4 years ive just been having the odd snog on the weekend and foreplay with men as im 16 and just want to have fun. ...

Should I stay, go, or simply give her space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Last year I met someone, me and we instantly connected and became friends. At the time she was engaged, but there was trouble in that relationship. She would come to me for advice and we would just talk about anything. I helped her through the ...

Should I get in contact with him or let him come to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hi guys :) Have a really bad situation going on at the moment and I need all the help I can get... :( Recently I began working with this guy who I really got on with and we had this whole flirting thing going on but to be honest I didn't pay mu...

I told her the cold truth - and she hates me for it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Hey, My friend (not me at all) just told me she is pregnant, with this guy that left her right after she told him. He was never a real relationship, which all her friends kept telling her, but she didnt listen. He had her just for the weekend fun, ...

Back out on the dating scene after years... so how can I tell if we are more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I am single for the 1st time in 9 years and am not sure how to tell how a guy feels about me. I have been hanging out with a guy from work, going to the cinema, meeting up for drinks, watching DVDs at his house, and from my perspective, we're just ...

My best friend said these awful things and now hates me. Should I forgive him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - Okay. I don't know what to do. My "best friend" and i hate each other and it wasnt my fault! Last year my auntie died and i was really cut up about it as we were really close and it was a shock. so when i needed my friends around my so cal...

I'm attracted to my friend who is straight, what would you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - i think im attracted to my good freind who is 100% straight. I value her as a friend way too much to ever act on my feelings or tell her and I know it will never happen, I dont really want it to happen as it will totally ruin our frienship and ...

How do I convince her that I won't hurt her as bad as her ex bf did?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Please help me, i'm in love with this very special girl. Only problem is she got out of a long term relationship about 6 months back that destroyed her, she is so scared of being hurt like she was again. This has caused her to be very scared of ...

Why all the stupid games? Why the stringing along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - What the hell is going on? I met a girl and we were instantly attracted to each other. We gradually got to know each other going out once a week. After about 4 weeks we started spending more and more time together and really opened up to eac...

I can't forget him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - GUYS... please i need help...im 15 years old ..and i was in an open relationship.. a guy with me at school .. i liked him so much and after that i loved him but he leaves me and he return to me again ..and he was saying that he loves me and everythn ...

Does my old crush still like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

4 May 2009 (?) - well when i used to have a crush on him i told him and at the beginning we got on fine and i don't know if he liked me back or not but then it sort of changed and i went off him and now he is being so annoying and whenever he sees me he always tries ...

Can't stop thinking about my bf's friend! Is this fair to my bf-should we break up??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I'm 20 years old. I have been with my partner for 4 years and have two children with him. and i do love him. but since i was at school i have liked one of his friends. and all of a sudden this friend is spending a lot of time with our family and i ...

I ended the friendship because of his dishonesty..so why do I feel so low about it all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - What to do when the EX-boyfriend still lies to you? Why is it so difficult to be just be honest and upfront? I'd told him last year he needn't get back in touch till he was ready to be honest. Well, he did- but the lying still continues. WTH-- we ...

How can I stand up for myself to my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - I've had a few arguements with my friends before (we're over them now though) which they have always started. They do things that they no will end up making me really upset, or be hypercritical - which is one of the things I don't like. However I ...

What does it take for someone to be a true friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - i always wanted 1 thing in life and its a true friend, but what does it take for someone to be a true friend? because i dont know if i have 1 or not... plus is it usually the same sex or opposite?...

My 13 year old friend is dating a 19 year old guy is this going to end well?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

4 May 2009 (?) - My friend(Girl 13) is dating a 19 year old boy and they have already like planned getting married and she wants to move in with him because she hates life at home. I don't think it seems like a good idea but they said it was love at first sight.Th...

Friends with benefits or couldthere be more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - My long time best friend is a male, we have been friends since we were both 4 years old, and never once have we ever felt anything between us other then just friends. We both have have ended our last relationships about 8 months ago and started ...

I know he likes me as much as her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

4 May 2009 (F) - i need help. This guy has a girlfriend. he talks to me more than he talks to his girlfriend. and we have great conversations(usually on the phone or through text), lots of fun together (only by ourselves though). Nobody has any idea that we even ...

What do YOU guys do???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

4 May 2009 (M) - Exams are coming up soon and i study at uni from mornin til late night. currently i dont have a girlfriend and i see quite a few really nice girls in the library. i get nervous jus to go up to talk to a girl. once when i was walkin up a flig...