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Archived questions from: 12 May, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

He's better than me... should I push him away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - He has been my friend for 3 years. We get on really well. I trust him enough to cry in front of him and he always makes me laugh. He told me that he likes me more than a friend and I really like him but he is better than me. He has a law degree and ...

How can I keep my friend and my boyfriend apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I've had this crush on this guy for 4 years and when he asked me out, I was so thrilled. We have been dating for 5 mouths now. But 3 of those months have been on the rocky side. I was getting a feeling that my boyfriend had a crush (huge one) on my ...

Have I made it obvious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Okay my friend told this guy I really like that I think he is cute, but just in a young way. (cos he is slightly younger than me.) Ever since then he is really nice to me, laughs at everything I say - and sometimes its not even funny - there are ...

How should I take this friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - My guy friend at school that I've known since september is weird. At school he stares at me, makes me laugh, texts me occasionally, and sometimes he mentions a teacher I hate that he loves just to make me talk to him. Today I was talking to his ...

Need advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I've recently got my first boyfriend at 15. I am a bit nervous and unsure of what to do. for a start there is an age difference of 3 years. My friends think I have been moving a bit fast and I had no idea! I didn't know what was acceptable and what ...

I'm scared that if he finds out that I like him, it'll ruin our friendship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - ok so i'm 15 years old, and a high school fresh man. i have this problem. there's this guy who i just met this year. i noticed that i really like him for about 3 mouths now. he's so nice and we always text each other. i would say we're pretty close ...

How can I know when a girl is in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - So there is this girl at our church who smiles at me all the time. She hardly takes her eyes of me when ever she see me,be it at church, bus etc She is very cute but only 17 yrs old while i'm 23. So i ignored her all the time. But now that i ...

Do I really have to let her go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Reality check... Do I really have to let her go. My ex girlfriend have split now for over 5 months and I'm still finding it very difficult to move on. We were together for 3 and a half years and most of the time it really was the best time of our...

When do you know that you have a true friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Heya everyone! I was just wondering when you know you have a true friend? Because recently mine seem to be proving to me that I am just a convenient friend. For instance, one of my friends always puts me down when I am talking to people, and then...

I don't get it...why the sudden change in him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - So me and this guy have been bestfriends for about 4 years, there was never connection between us. Not as far as I was aware. One of my friends, who used to be his too, told me that he used to say I was pretty and wants to kiss me, you get the ...

My ex FWB and future husband wanted my consent to have sex with a friend, I disagreed, what now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I am a female of 32 years old. I have a boyfriend who is 30. We have had a no strings attached relationship for about 2 years, where he knew about my boyfriend then and i knew of almost all his escapades with women. He went for postgraduate ...

Fuzzy feeling with my friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - Hi, I am implicitly going nuts over my friend. I met this girl about a year and 6 months and we have been very good friends. I wanted to ask her out but I was scared of loosing her as my friend. Eventually I did because I just could'nt shake th...

Why am I so bothered he is moving back in with his mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5466 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi, here it goes. I really dont know whats wrong with me. See, my best male friend, which is really very close to me is moving back to his mom's house. She cant afford to pay the place and still manage everything by herself. So he decided to move ...

Bad patch is over...so why am I still in touch with this new man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Im 22 and I have a boyfriend of 4 years, we had a bad patch and i met another man gave him my number been emailing alot etc, hes a great laugh we have not done anything we just have the same personality, things got better with my boyfriend but im ...

Getting over a girl I can never have

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

12 May 2009 (M) - Hi, Sorry for the essay but it must be said. K i have really strong feelings for this girl at work, id say she's pretty much the most the amazing girl ive ever met, id probably say that even if i didnt love her. Anyways we see each other about...

An old friend that ruined my life is moving in on the guy I love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5468 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I am very much head over heels for this guy lets call him Troy. Troy is my ex-BF and we broke up because i was pushing him away because after my last Bf and every other male in my life i find it very hard to trust guys. But when i started to trust ...

Why is he flirting with me if he doesn't like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - theres this guy i liked since ever we would always flirt but he would always be mean to me saying i should shave my face and i'm effin ugly and i know his joking cuz he always smiles and continues flirting well today i decided that i wantted to text ...

He broke up but wants to be friends and I want more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

12 May 2009 (?) - Hi! My bf and I just broke up in this past week. We have been best friends for quite a while, and were really in love (yes, I'm 15--I know you're going to say we aren't in love, but let's move on from that). We broke up because we were too busy and...

He said how lucky my future husband will be

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - A guy friend of mine told me this: " I hope that your future husband realizes how lucky he is to have someone like you." ? This guy and I were talking and he just randomly told me this. He told me he liked me, and then he just said that. I re...

Pregnant with abusive husband's child! Do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, My name is Brooke and I am 24 years old. I met my best friend Mike, when we were in high school. We spent many hours hanging out and just being there for each other. 18 months ago he walked me down the aisle when I married the man off ...

He's going to a party as a female and wants me to help dress him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - One of my best friends who is male recently told me a secret of his. It's not uncommon, he gets turned on by wearing girls clothes and has fantasies of having sex with girls whilst in girls clothes. This isn't a problem with me, however....

Why does he stare if he doesn't care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5469 days ago

12 May 2009 (F) - I've been friends with this guy since September 2008 and i like him, i think he likes me but then again i'm not sure. He's always talking to me, touching me(arm,thigh),complimenting me on my clothing, staring at me in class and when i walk by him in ...