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Archived questions from: 21 May, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

I WON'T leave her!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - There is a girl in my grade that I like and she hates me. I will NOT leave her. Please help me!!...

Does this sound like I'm getting involved in a whole load of drama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - This guy ive met 4 times, found out his has a kid... i was ok with this as its still early days, we arranged a lunch date tomorrow then he texted me saying sorry he could not make it as he wasnt going into work, he lives far from work and i only ...

How do I approach him about trying swinging or introducing another in the bedroom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Hi there! Well, I am in a 2 year relationship and things are just great. However time went by and sex just isn t the same but I'm a very creative person, so I have always lots of kinky ideas and games. My bf is a dear, really good looking and so n...

Staring at me and acting like a "panicked rat" WHY?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - A few weeks ago, I finally told him that I liked him. Straight up. Face to face. Honestly. I didn't ask him how he felt about me though, I was too scared. So instead, I asked him if we could be friends, and he said that yes, cause he loved me very...

How do deal with a drama-queen collegue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - So this is not a love life question but a social challenge question. my co-worker is a complete drama queen! she and i work in the same office just a few feet a way from each other. she is so bossy and trys to belittle me every chance that she ...

Do you think he gets a kick out of treating me badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Ok.. so this situation has been going on for a year now, i used to be really best friends with this guy who has been blowing HOT and cold with me for a whole year now. ive cried many times over it.. he would act weird and say horrible things t...

I want to acually date him but how can I get closer to him if I never see him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I knew this guy when I was fourteen and hadn't seen him for 5 years then we meet up and hit it off. We text all the time every day or every other day but every time we make plans he always breaks them and it makes me so mad but then he'll text me ...

Finding it hard to stand up for myself without making the argument worse!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been friends for four years and dating for 1, and this is really starting to bug me. We'll get into these stupid ridiculous fights and he'll accuse me of really dumb things (ei. my friend that doesn't like him: he thinks that ...

I told her secrets to another and now she doesn't trust me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - about 4-5 months ago I told one of my girlfriends secrets to a friend of mine. She found out about it by reading one of my IM chats with that friend, she was furious about it. But now 4 months later she is still angry about it, she doesnt trust...

If he wanted a fling you would think he would choose a girl he has less history with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - *answers from guys REALLY appreciated* Hi, I'm female, 21yrs old. My best friend (male) has been confusing me. At my 21st bday he kissed me now he acts like it never happened. (I posted a different question about the same guy a while back http:...

I love her but do I stand a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - ok, im 14 and in eighth grade, I met this girl in 4th grade and fell in love the day I met her, she stayed single until 6th grade when her first boyfriend was one of my best friends, they stayed 2gthr for around 4 months, 2 year ltr I confessed to ...

Is there anything wrong with being a long distance friend, to a married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - More than 2 years ago, I met a guy in a business who was very friendly. He´s military and we became friends, nothing more. After he left we started to keep in touch by email, and sharing regular friends stuff. He have always talked about his...

Had a crush on him in school, found him again, he has a girlfriend and a daughter, is there a chance for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Please help !.I'm 25 years old, and i have recently found my high school crush on Facebook !.He hasn't changed abit in ten years !.He is a year older than me, so he left the year before i did. Just to tell you abit about it, he found out i like...

Sometimes I want to kiss my friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - i dont know why but everytime one of my friends thats a girl has a boyfriend or talks to another guy i get mad and annoyed. i know im sorta bi because i do like girls but would rather gys but does this mean i like my friends? i sometimes want to ...

How to sort it out with sponging friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I've been best friends with my bestie for about five years and we've had our fall outs, for like three months at a time sometimes, but always made up. We've had some really great times together and i am forever grateful for how hes always been there ...

We're friends but I'm getting mixed signals

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - Im getting mixed signals from this guy i have been friends with for a while. We dated for about 4 years ago but its didnt work out and broke up. We lost touch but for the last year we have got back in touch mainly because we have the same friends ...

How can you love someone who hurts you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

21 May 2009 (F) - I have a friend of mine who's maddley in Love with this guy who treat her sooooo badly and she just won't leave him alone he talks to her like crap and just walks all over her.he hits her and just so nasty and disrespectful but she just can't leave ...

Falling for a girl that is taken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

21 May 2009 (M) - i dont think im a bad guy, i help out my friends when they have problems comfort people so on, i'd never beat up a woman or anything, ect ect However i find my falling for a girl in my year that is taken, we've been friends for about 3 months b...