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Archived questions from: 12 March, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

My friend KNEW I liked him and now she's with him! I feel betrayed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I'm going throuh some stuff, ok here it goes, my best friend let's call her hannah, well a while ago I told hannah that I was crushing on this guy, well she understood and we became good friends with him. A couple of days I heard that he liked ...

Should I tell Adam what I did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Hi guys, I need some help... and I dont know what to do. I did something really bad and I'm ashamed. Well me and my buddy Adam are like two peas in a pod... we're the best of friends we're really close and nothing could tear us apart, we get along ...

Do you think she likes me or is she just enticed by my body???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Hey aunts, I really like this girl but I don't know if she really likes me back. Today I was walking in the hallway and caught her looking around my crotch area, our eyes met she gave me a smile and quickly turned around. Do you think she likes me...

How can I slow things down a bit with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - She's too fast for me. Hi I'm 15 and am in a relationship with an amazing girl that I love. She loves me too, she's very caring and kind. We've been going out for 3 months but she's got a really high sex drive, I don't think I'm really ready for ...

I kissed my friend's boyfriend when I was drunk and she's found out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I kissed my friend's boyfriend about a month ago, I was drunk. I told another friend and asked her to keep it a secret as I decided not to tell her as it seemed the best thing to do at the time. Since then me and her have got really close and not ...

Are we drifting apart even though we meet up often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I've got a pretty good friend from my final years of high school whom I have gotten on well with since we met. We live near each other and hang out quite often. However, lately, she hasn't messaged me back as often as she used to and often refuses ...

He's still with his g/f but he's flriting with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - ive been good frends with this guy for a while, but recently w've got alot closer and hes been flirting alot. hes a bit of a player and he and his gf split up for a few days apparently because he was always flirting with me. all of our friend...

I want him, but then I want to push him away and make him suffer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - okay so i sorta in a way kinda like this guy i am like 100% sure he likes me but.. ive been feeling weird lately and confused like i want him to suffer and wanna push him away forever but then i wanna hug him and see his right happy smile w...

I just want to know whats going through his head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - i seriously need help as i dont know what to do. its a very long story and complicated story but im going to try and keep it short, 2years ago i really liked this guy, i never knew him properly infact we hardly spoke i dont exactly know how...

I'm so confused. what sort of game is he playing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

I'm having trouble reading what he's trying to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - So this guy and I have had a rather bumpy road. We've both been immature and acted hot and cold towards each other and gotten 3rd parties involved in our relationship. Really stupid. But now we are on break and we decided to start over and i ...

Can't fit in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Some may think I’m exaggerating but I’m being totally honest I’m 14 and I’ve been very confused cause I feel a little out of place at my age. I have lots of friends but that’s exactly why I can’t fit in any social group. Everybody thinks I’m 17 sinc...

I don't want to fall out with them. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Ok so here's my problem... me and my best friend have been best friends for eight years now and we've never had a fall out. then this gy got involved and it nearly split us up but we made it through it and we fell out with this guy. we bitched ...

How much space and time should I give her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - ill try explain fully, i met my girlfriend 2 years ago, we got on and was love at first sight we went on holiday after 3 weeks had amazing times never argue have done loads of amazing things, in 2 years we have been on 5 holidays moved in together, ...

My FWB says he loves me now that I lost weight. Reality check?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Ok here is the story I have been fwb with this man for almost a year now. Well I'm losing weight and he is starting to really respond to this. He tells me how beautiful I am and how much he wants me and how he can't keep his hands off of me. He h...

How do I stop putting all my happiness into a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - How do i stop putting my happiness into guys? Theres this guy and i know he likes me, we always text and speak online and we went cinema a while ago. , its not offical or anything. Its one of those things were you like each other but nothings...

Accept or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - how to accept or move on? my boyfriend of 12 years insist on us seeing each other every other weekend since he and i have lived apart for 2 years . i have had a very hard time dealing with this along with his drug abuse . he is also in a new band...

I would like some advice about what to do, I really like him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I need some advice about my ex. You might have read some of my earlier posts, if not I’ll try and sum it up real’ quick; My ex and I met at school almost 3 years ago, we liked each other from the beginning, and after half a...

No intimacy anymore! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Ok...So I broke up with a girlfriend of 3 years back in June. She was staying at my house and a girl I knew from the pool room I worked in, invited me to stay at her place. I was kind excited because she was roomies with a girl i worked with and ...

I felt for him more than a FWB. Any ideas how to cope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - hi me and my FWB have today decided to stop, and just be friends. ive been feeling for a while that he didnt want to carry on and that something was wrong becuase he was making excuses, so i asked him and he told me he didnt know becuase he doesn...

How can I become more than just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - what do you do when you really like your friend but he not atrracted to you in a sexully way...

I Like this guy, alot. but I'm not sure if he likes me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I Like this guy, alot. but im not sure if he likes me. we've been best mates for a long time and we do flirt a little bit. My best friend told me that she also likes him but i havnt told her how i feel. he told me he doesnt like her and recently...

I wish I knew what he was thinking. Have I blown it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hey so i met this boy months ago in a bar, we started talking (as you do) he added me on facebbok and that. Anyway we started texting eachother for a while but then i kinda got bored, had a lot on so i kinda faded away from texting him. I bump...

I am starting to have physical attraction to a female friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - For the past few months i've developed a rather strong physical attraction to one of my female friends. I've never ever been attracted to a girl or even thought about it and always simply liked guys. I was freaked out by my feelings at first but i ...

I've put my name down for a charitable game... But I'm nervous. Is it a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Hi, My university is holding an event for Comic Relief tomorrow. This event requires some volunteers who will then stand in line while people place bids to go on a date with them, with the funds going to charity. I thought it would be fun so ...

Since we are housemates now, does that mean he is off limits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - So here's the deal... I met this guy through mutual friends about 2 years ago. He's a relatively shy guy when hes around people he doesnt know and hasnt really had a girlfriend. We all hang out go out for dinners, parties etc and we always got al...

I am dating my best friends ex-fiancee. Should I tell her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Hi guys and gals. I moved down to London around six months ago because I found a good job. I left my best friend up in Manchester. About three months ago, I ran in to my best friend's fiance here in London. I knew that they had broken up since my ...

I saw him kissing his ex. Should I speak to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do. In December I met a guy and since we were both fresh out of relationships, we agreed to see eachother non exclusively. We've been fine until the last month or so. He began ignoring me for days, while we were at the same ...

Unintentional kiss with actor threatening to ruin my relationship with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - First off, far fetched though this may sound, I swear to god it's for real. I really, really need help with this, and I can't turn to anyone I know for advice. I have, completely unintentionally got myself into a relationship of sorts with a man...

My gf wasnt a virgin but I was, and it bothers me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Ok. Ive been with my gf for over 4 years and we have a 1 year old baby. Ok my problem is that I was a virgin till I meant my gf and she was my first and only. But come to find out i wasnt for her. its kinda hard to explain but the guy who had sex ...

Please help. I am dying to talk to to my b/f's friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriend has friends that goes to my school........... i never talked to them before but now i want to make friends with them , how can i approach them.? and what if they reject me or maybe ask me out ? i want to tell my boyfriend about it but ...

I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - 20 years old and I just broke up with my bf because he was abusive. I thought I would be free of his abuse, but I'm not. His abuse has escalted!!! It has got so bad, I am constatnly shaking, feeling faint and dizzy, out of anxiety and fear. ...

Could she be waiting for me to say something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - Hi folks, I've been racking my brain over this and I can't make my mind up so hopefully some of you may be able to help me. My best friend is a woman, she is the same age as me (27). We are always going out for drinks, the cinema, something to eat...

I love him, why doesn't he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I love a guy call Law I never called him but sms him cos I know that he is always very busy at work I know that he dont even have the time to answer my call he just treat me as a friend only I wanted to be by his side I know that he will not love me ...

He's the only boy I can't get out of my head

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - There was a guy I kinda dated in the beginning of college. We hung out a few times, but I was way too busy then and we kinda went our separate ways. I was told that he really liked me though and his actions showed it. Throughout the last couple of ...

I don't want her to get the wrong idea

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - ok i have been friends with this girl for some time now, we hang out rather it be with others or just us, i like her to more than i have ever felt for someone, im 24, i enjoy the time we are spending with one another, an i just dont know if i see ...

What does this mean? Does he still like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - there is this guy at school and i thought he liked me because he would sit with me, look at me and make comments in my direction. now he hasn't been sitting with me at lunch, but he looks at me more!!!!! plus i am finding it hard to get his atte...

Jealous of my best friends boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - now, there is this girl that i met last year and we really connected. we tell each other everything and are together all of the time, and we have both admitted to liking each other. but.. she has boyfriend. she tells me everything about their ...

Want her to want me more than just a friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

12 March 2009 (M) - i met my best friend 7 yrs ago when I was just 16 . The moment I saw her was all over her. Every day since we have hung out. We have went on several dates over the years that amount to nothing. I am totally in love with her and she know its. I don't ...