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Archived questions from: 11 March, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

Why do I want something to work out in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I have a friend who I have liked for a few years. One time we kissed but then he said since we don't live very close it wouldn't be a good idea to start anything. We talk a lot, but often just casually online and I get annoyed with him easily ...

Co-worker setting me up for failure and I getting quite distressed about it

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11 March 2009 (F) - Hoping for some help here. Often good answers and will appreciate any help offered. Last year I worked with a colleague who claimed to be 'concerned' about me and discussed my job performance to other colleagues. Some friends of mine mentioned she ...

I love him but he's got a g/f and I wouldn't want to break them up

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5528 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - So theres this guy (lets call him fred) iv known fred for 3 years now, and we've only just got really close, and since december (tis now march) iv been having feelings for him, the strongest feelings iv ever felt, i thought id been in love once but ...

There's this boy I like, but does he like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - There’s this boy that I like and im not sure if he likes me. I don't want to ask him and i'm way to shy to ask him anyway. I would just like an honest opinion so I know. Here are some of the signs: He stares at me a lot from the other side...

I feel like my life is longer my own. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I’ve been with my g/f about 5 months now and I really like and care for her but she keeps saying that she loves me and gets upset when I can’t reciprocate. I want to be able to say it but just know it isn’t true yet. Will this change for me? The tr...

I'm so sad people around me laugh at my wide, square, flat butt:'( pls help me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I'm 21 years old and I'm an asian. I always feel down when thinking that I've got quite not a good figure. My boobs are small (B.34) and actually i'm still okay with my small boobs. The only problem is that, i've got a wide hip but a very flat...

Outside opinion please: does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5528 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi, I have known this guy for 7 months, i met him through learning to to drive! He is a nice guy, my type both personality and looks. Was wierd at first as i was confused to whether i did like him more than just a normal person, but the more...

Why did he do this? I'm confused.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5529 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Im really confused. I have what i thought was a good friend in Reno, we have known each other for two years or so, but have grown closer over the last couple of months (in a 'friends' way...)we both have partners. However, lately there has, if im...

What should I do when I first meet him? Hug? Say hey?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - im a 18 year old guy and im planning to go on a date with a 23 year old guy, i just dont know how to approach him when i meet him? hug? just a simple hey? what should i do when i first meet him? we have been set on a blind date by our friends... b...

Can a hostess make exceptions to her own invitation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - hi i have recently hosted a birthday birthday for my kid. i also sent out a 'no siblings please' note in the invitations with one or two exceptions wherin the siblings were close to my son. one of the parent cornered me so as to why there w...

How do I stop these doubts and believe her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Ok, bit of a long one this, so I apologise in advance. I have made a stupid mistake for which I am paying for now... Basically, I found out my partners password to a certain social networking site and I made the mistake of logging onto her acco...

I have chlamydia. How do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5244 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I feel physically ill right now, I just had a medication abortion last week. I got pregnant by my boyfriend of 3 years and we knew we couldn't support a baby. I was off of birth control for only one month when I got pregnant. While I was at Plan...

I don't want to be made out as the bad guy to his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Need some advice. My fiance and i have been 2gether for 3years. Recently things have got really bad. All he does is smoke weed and not seem to have much of a future. Im 21 and he's 34. Friends of ours are getting married in a few...

Crush on a female whose boyfriend is abroad

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5527 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Last year I got a location transfer in my company and met a beautiful young lady at a company workshop. We were in same team and got along well. She was perfect in a lot of ways for me. It was kind of love at first sight (or first meeting) I kept...

I think I'm becoming a green monster of jealousy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - I think i'm becoming a green monster of jealousy. There is a girl in my year who i used to be really good friends, but she ended up going out with my then current boyfriend behind my back, among other things. There are many people who don't like her ...

What is my friend up to??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm female, 20yrs old and I'm in love with my best friend. but I'm just a little confused about the signals he's sending me. I've known him since we were 6 years old, then over a year ago I told him how I felt in an email.. (yes I'm a cowar...

The good ones are taken. How do I find a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - im 14 and im looking for a girlfriend seems as everyone is taken ,how do i find a girl....

I have many girl friends but I am not ready for a relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - I feels lik i want 2 start a relatnship wit a lady but inside of me i know am not ready 4 any kind of relatnship, why i said so is dat i have many friends dat ar girls but i hv not lik start tinking about any of dem in d nite and i even finds it ...

How does a guy know when a lady claims she is in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - How do a guy know when a lady claims she is in love him and wat trick wil d guy use 2 proof her. Cos one of my g.fs is claiming she doesent sleep at nite bcos of me which i doubt....

Should I confront him? It's driving me nuts

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5531 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi all. First time posting, and I'm sure you've heard it a million times already...so here goes. There's this guy (at work) I've {really} liked for some time now, and we had become pretty good mates... and I couldn't help but notice the littl...

Advice please: To shave or not to shave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - My fren recommended me to shave my vagina and if possible wax it so that sex feels better. Is it really true? Cuz' i feel too naked walking around like that....

Do you think he likes me? I'm too shy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - There is this guy who used to always come into my work when I would be working and he would come through my counter, so I would serve him. I quit that job, and moved to a different retail outlet to work. I never told him I was quitting. But hes now ...

Is this a case of bipolar love ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - huuuuuhh.... ok. Here I go. ---IT’S TOO LONG SO IF U DON’T WANT TO, DON’T READ IT 2 years ago, i met this guy i'll call Jm who asked me for $ and then dissapeared. So I forgot about his name and about his existence. He also gave it back to me la...

19 year old girlfriend and her frequent visits to Bars... :(

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Ok, I am 18 years old. i have met a beautiful girl, who means everything to me. I love her personality, the way she smiles, and the way she laughes. everything about her is inviting. I met her 6 months ago. We werent offcially going out, but we w...

He treats me like shit but I'm head over heels for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4922 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - All right, where to start..? I guess first off let me start by saying I am crazy about him and don’t want to loose him… My man and I have been going out for a half a year now, but he still doesn’t consider me his girlfriend. He told me from the begi...

The Loved And Lost

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Hi everyone. Im new here and I need some advice. Okay, here we go. I am in love with a girl I have known for a while. We have been close friends ever since we met and the day I started having feelings for her I told her. She said she felt the sam...

Can you develop feelings for someone you're not attracted to?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - Hi I have had bad luck in love for a long time. I just started recently hanging out with this guy and he's really nice but I only see him as a friend. Anyway I think he likes me he always buys me stuff and I try and tell him not to but he does ...

I think I'm in love with her, I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5530 days ago

11 March 2009 (M) - Hi I have been seen this girl for almost two years now, she has two children an no one to father them, well he is there but once in a blue moon. They are separated an never getting along. Know for the past six or seven months we have been hanging ...

Is it okay to be friends with this married man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - This friendship is long distance, I met him in a duty mission ( GI) he did in my home town. He was stationed in Korea back then. We met two times only and it was for business. We are keeping in touch since then ( 2 years ago) non stop by email. T...

Friend's b/f hits on me right while she is there!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

11 March 2009 (F) - My friend is dating this guy. I knew him before they were dating but I knew her a few more years then him. Anyways, he is always complimenting me, calling me hot, calling me cute. You get the picture. I usually just ignore this. I have a boyfrie...