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Archived questions from: 16 March, 2009 (see latest in Friends category)

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Friends: Help and advice

How do I get her to have sex or should I just move on??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I have asked all of my friends so I guess I will ask and wait for a random person to give me the answer. I'm still in high school and my gf is older than me but she is a virgin and I want sex but I don't want to cheat on her.... she avoids the ...

He's going out with me but flirts with her. Why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - okay so me and this guy are going out and theres this one girl that he does the whole tap your right should then jump to the left side while she looks the wrong way thing and he'll be talking to her then just reach in her pocket right outta nowh...

Lying so no one gets hurt

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I would like people's opinions on whether i am doing right by lying to a friend to ensure she doesn't get hurt. My friend and i were very close at one point but we don't really speak as much anymore, not as much as we used to anyway. Anyway, she ...

Can you really just be friends? Opinions on crushes, the attraction zone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Your opinion on crushes, attraction and the friend zone. This question is mainly directed at guys, but women can answer too. So if you were once attracted to/ interested in someone but then became good friends, does that feeling of attraction ev...

He's so shy he runs away!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - he acts like he likes me and has for years however he so shy i dont know. he wants to be around me because he always is i know we're best freinds but i think he wants maby more he has kissed me. he just so shy he run away what do i do?...

Is he asking me to prom as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Last night, me and the boy I am madly in love with were talking over the internet. We'd been talking about my recent illness, and he was being so understanding, more so than some of my closest friends, who don't seem to understand my illness at all. ...

Serious all consuming jealousy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - There is this girl that always wrote on my bf's friendster wall..i asked him bout it bfore and he said he never met her before,she is just sumone he knew from friendster..i think he knew her before he met me..anyway,what really really annoys me is ...

Cheating on my wife of 27 years..is it lust? Or love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5235 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I am 50 year old man self employed married to a beautiful lady since 27 year father of 3 daughters doing MBA in my orginization a 25 year young beautiful lady made advances towards me and made friendship with me on mobile and SMS this was 3 years ba...

Crazy about a guy but don't know how he feels any more

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I have been with my bf nearly 4 months now. I'm young, but I am crazy about this guy... Now knowing my age I have high school exams so I can't contact him a lot. I love him LOADS, he's my world, I don't know what to do because when I get in conta...

Why do things have to be so complicated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Hi! I need help here! I met a girl this weekend through a friend of my brother. It appears this guy was under the impression that she liked him. Anyway, later on she told me that she didn't fancy him at all, and felt awful about it. She w...

I just wish we were both less jealous and co-dependent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I'm extremely jealous/insecure. I don't know where it stems from, but let's try and see. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and a half. He's my first boyfriend ever. In the beginning of the relationship I wasn't this jealous, and I was more...

My ex hs started to flirt with me again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - i am with my ex boyfriends friend, it did not mean to happen but he treats me better than my ex, my ex was cheating on me with two other girls and he finished me. but now my ex hs started to flirt with me again and asking to come to my house, now ...

It got completely out of control and the lie got so big, we couldn't back out of it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - Hi everyone I've been friends with a girl named Natalie for about 6 months now. She lives 40 minutes away from me. My friends that live close to me and I decided that it would be funny to lie to Natalie and tell her that I had this huge compli...

My friend's wife is very jealous of me

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16 March 2009 (F) - My friends wife is very jealous of me. She thinks there is something going on when there's not, and doesn't want him anywhere near me. I've discussed this and she is very sweet to me, but talks about me behind my back to all my friends. There ...

Help me save my friend!

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16 March 2009 (M) - So here's the story. I've been friends with a guy for four years now -- hes my best friend. We moved in together almost 2 years ago now and we have a great relationship. Just this past November, he dumped his girlfriend of 3 years because he ...

A love triangle thing and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Ok im in the middle of a very messy situation at the moment! kind of a love triangle thing and i dont know what to do. From the outside looking in im probably going to look quite bad (i know i feel it) but any knid of advice on what to do here would ...

Points to ponder on advise against teenage sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - Out of curiosity, I was recently browsing through the advice I had given in the past 9 odd months I've been on this website. What struck me is how much "stern" I seem to be when giving advice to teenagers under 18 about sex. I frequently adv...

What do you think is his purpose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - hey there, me and my ex boyfriend broke up last october 13, 2008. i really cried hard because i really love him, even though he hurt me for several times, i still love him. now, i wanted to befriend him, when we talked via im, he told me that he regr...

I really don't know what to do. He's in my dreams, I really miss him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I'm really confused about this guy I know,I've known him since I was 5,we barely see each other now.. We were never really close,but there was has always been this strange umm.bond like an electrical current that flows between us.It was like him and ...

We are both with others, but there seems to be an attraction

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - My gf and I have a mutual friend, but I have known her for a little longer than my gf. We will name her Julie. My gf is Elizabeth. They have become decet friends since I started dating Elizabeth. Before I started dating Elizabeht, I susp...

Is it ok to stay home alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I need help, I have got myself into a rut since my good friend went to uni in september. I have become a loner I don't like going anywhere alone so I stay in my house all day(on my days of from college) I feel so sad because I want to do things but ...

I'm 15, she's 22 and I'm wondering what she feels for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - hi there, i'm a 16 year old lad and i feel as though i'm in love with my friend. she somehow makes me feel alive and more happy, something that i've never felt like for other girls i've got to know. but the thing is she's coming up for 22 and i have ...

Help needed!!! Do I tell him how I feel... or do I just remain friends with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I'm 14, I go to church and have met a really nice guy there, he is 16. We have been good friends for a few months and have become really close, it may sound stupid but I think I'm in love with him. We hang around a lot and always just goof around ...

We've been friends for a while, should I tell him that I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - we've been friends for a while, and I really wanna tell him that I like him, but I'm too scared that things will get awkward afterwards, or it's not mutual. My friends think that he likes me... Like he often teases me (is that a sign?) and does ...

He says he loves me as a mate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - ok im so confused. Theres a lad whos a mate of mine that seems to have some sort of problem in talking to me... i don't know why its so weird. Like if we are alone at college in a morning before other people will get there he'll probably talk for...

Dont know what to do!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I am 17 years old. My bestfriend and I dated for about 6 months, but we've known each other for about 3 years. Well we broke up, but now were just bestfriends again. Well anyways, her ex that she dated for a year, and lost her virginity to is stil...

My boyfriend is balding and I don't like it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I really need help please. I love my bf as a person. I think he's great but recently he's been losing his hair and its really starting to look bad. He's tried many different hairstyles but they don't really suit him. Recently he shaved his head ...

Why do guys turn into womanizers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I know this guy and we made out a couple of times. He wanted to have sex but I said no. I like him but it turns out he is a big manwhore who sleeps around. I heard that he was in a 3 year relationship not too long ago. I dont know the exact details ...

What should I do about my ex???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...

Girls do not like bi guys

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

16 March 2009 (?) - My ex girlfriend made me bisexual. Now when I tell a female I am bi they are grossed out even if they are bi. Should I let them know?...

Being led on hurts so much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I'm 19 and was with a girl for two years. I was getting kind of bored and wasn't sure what I wanted. I met this other girl and started getting feelings so I left my girlfriend because I didn't want to cheat. This girl had a bf for 4 years and he ...

Romeo and Juliet situation

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5526 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - I don't know what my heart wants. For some background information I dated a smart boy with the sam beliefs as me and who over time became my best friend in the whole world. My world revolved around us and our relationship. Because of this, we got to ...

Problems with my Xbox friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - I met a girl on Xbox right before valentines day. We started talking as friends then started getting more serious after we found out we were almost the same person now what I'm gunna say will make her sound like a psycho bitch but I love her so ...

I'm not in love with him, but what do you think of this situation?

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16 March 2009 (F) - This guy who's a boyfriend of my colleague started coming on to me on a job training (he's one of the trainers) he was shy didn't talk much, until the next day we found ourselves in an elevator together(i know what are the odds?!) so he asked me a ...