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anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, im a 15 year old male, who recently had my best friendship with my 15 year old female best friend Jeanny complete fall apart (it actually happened 4 months ago). However, i used to like her (i still do), and basically what happened is she trusted me with sumthing, and i went ahead and told my other friend wut she was hdiing, it led to a sequence of problems, then it got worse, evnetually it got to the point where she wouldnt answer my calls, talk 2 me, respond 2 my e-mails, absolutely nothing, however heres the catch, i just found out she has feelings for me, and i know because it came from her who told people, and they told me by mistake. Any how, heres the other thing, I think she was trying to grab my attention at times, becuz shed keep trying to get advice on her dating situations with people who i found out weren't even real people. So the real question is? is she obsessed? Is she to afraid to go out with me? or is she trying to find away to prevent the drama that would happen if we were to go out. Another point - i have asked her out 4 times, and each time she gave a very bad excuse "friends told me not 2" "oh, i dont find it right to go out with sum1 from another school" "oh, im sorry, but I already like sum1 else" etc..Any thoughts?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): Um a) if she was your best friend you were so wrong for telling everyoneb) SHE IS NOT OBSESSED- SHE HASN'T SPOKEN TO YOU IN FOUR MONTHS- GET OVER ITc)She gave bad excuses because she didn't want to tell you in a direct way that she doesn't like you like that!
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (25 February 2009):
 You are a horrible friend and I wouldn't speak to you either. Trust is the most basic stage of any relationship/friendship and you can't be trusted!
Learn to keep things to yourself unless anyone is going to be harmed by the secret. I am a medic and I have to keep thousands of secrets about complete strangers. So telling a secret about a close friend is totally unacceptable to me.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (25 February 2009):
 If she told you something and trusted you with the information and then you went and told people you are an idiot for thinking she would want to go out with you. You need a reality check! This girl may have liked you, or may even still like you but she won't go out with you because she can't trust you anymore! You need to move on and find someone else because this girl sounds too good for you. In future don't make the same mistake or else you will end up having nobody close to you in life, you need to be a trustworthy person!
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