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36-40,
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writes:OK new problem, still a virgin :( but I got this girl staying in my house, I have been friends with her for couple years now, she doesn't want to sleep on the couch so she sleeps in my bed with me, 3 nights now. I tried to make a move but no luck, maybe just no game, I don't know. I really like her and want to be more then friends!!! Please help! thanks
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reader, Miss Karma Louise  +, writes (9 April 2009):
Hey Calm down.
You shouldnt even be thinking that way about your freind.
if she trusts you enough to sleep in your bed..respect that she trusts you!! youve made your move and im sure she knows now that if she wants to,your intrested..when shes ready. if she feels the same way. its not a crime for a woman and a man to sleep in the same bed without sexuall contact. i mean hey lighten up mate.
after all she is only a freind.
try chatting to her..but dont abuse her trust!! youll get nowhere fast.
karma xx
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009): You haven't ever said whether or not you and she are sexual at all. Are you guys kissing, holding hands, cuddling at a movie, or anything?
If she's just a total non-sexual-relationship female friend, then you'd best forget about her suddenly rolling over to you one night and humping your brains out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): Hun, i wish it was about control but no i tried, its not that i wanted to stay a virgin just lack of opportunity, and now to top it off, i got performance anxiety, LOL actually no not really funny. Anyways, I think its all about lack of confidence when it comes down to it.
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (25 February 2009):
 LOL ... you are too funny (in a good way). I think it is admirable that you are still a virgin ... you have shown great control of your raging hormones as a young male :-)
You will make a woman feel so special when you do have sex with her ... particularly if she knows that you do not sleep around. Plus, you are soooo safe and free of any STD concerns right now!
Just be a slut in your mind right now ... later when you find that special lady ... you can be a slut all you want to her (and her only) LOL
Have fun (in getting your degree and paying bills) and keep safe!
Cat
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): she got kicked out of home for a bit... u know what i think im tryin to hard to get laid. I'm takin this virgin at 22 thing way to seriosly, i swear its on my mind all the Fking time!!! and its sad, im 22 and should be focusing on school and work and bills etc... should i just go get a hooker and get it over with??? :(
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reader, wonderingcat +, writes (25 February 2009):
Why is she staying in your house for 3 days? Your invitation? Her sorting some things out in her life? (Hence needing your warm cuddle without you asking questions)
Cat
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): maybe she's a moocher
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reader, Lunchbox  +, writes (25 February 2009):
If you like this girl a lot and theres never been any communication about your feelings, maybe your bed isn't the best place to make a move on her. Talk to her and let her know how you feel outside of your bed.
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