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writes:This girl I know has a massive hang-up with her ex bf, he dumped her and she still isnt over it even though it was about 6 months ago. since then we've got to know each other really well and become really close friends she says alot that im the only one who cares. recently shes started texting me and flirting loads, putting lots of kisses at the end where i know she usually doesnt put more than 2, being really flirty when we talk and has invited me round her house in a few weeks on my own with her when her parents are away... theres other stuff aswell which makes me think she may want to be more than friends. If it was anyone else in this situation i would say she liked them for sure and say go for it, but knowing all that i do about how she feels about her ex, im so confused.what do you think? please help me, its making me so confused.
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reader, Enya  +, writes (15 February 2009):
 Hello, i feel this situation needs delicate handling. It sounds like your friend had quite an intense realtionship with her ex but also everyone heals at different speeds...You have been a tremendous support and comfort to her through out her ordeal and you should continue to dso that..if you try and push your feelings onto her you run the risk of loosing her...so slow down and take a slower pace and let things develop naturally..if she has feelings for you then it wont take too long...
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reader, aunty jess +, writes (15 February 2009):
 hiya! first of all, are you sure that she STILL has a hang up about her ex, have you talked to her abou how she feels about him? perhaps if you slip him into a causal conversation and see how she reacts. if she doesnt seem to care and says she is completely over him then go for it
give it a chance
good luck
jess x
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