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I love my cousin but she rejected me, how can we stay friends?

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Question - (15 February 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2009)
A male Bangladesh age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hello. Guys . This is about me and my cousin. She is 15 . Im 19. Things are like, this started 2 years back. This cousin of mine and me is too close. More than just cousins. We used to talk for hours, we used to hold hands, she used to rest on my shoulder and chat for hours. She ll tell me every secrets of her. She told me that i am the only guy who can read her eyes. She told me that u shall have a 6pack. And gradually made me do so only wid her interests. She would not go out to a party where i wouldn go. So gradually i thought this was love. She is my first love. I waited 2years. Then asked her out . Now she says, sorry , no. And stopped contactin me. I txted and mailed sorry. I dont wanna completely lose her. I wanna remain frenz. I dont care my condition, Im doomed,my emotionss shattered. I just wanna be normal like before. What do i do? Have i always been the stupid and picked wrong signals. Help me. Thanks

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009):

Good luck with that. 15? Too young to begin with. It sounds like you already took the necessary steps to patch things up though. It's in her hands now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009):

She is family! She never thought of you more than that! Gosh don't let your perverted imagination run away with you. No wonder she blocked you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009):

it is a hard situation but i would make sure you dont upset her and ask if she would like anything...

This should help but try not to be to friendly if you are cousins you should make sure you spend family time together not friendship time.

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A male reader, Bill23 +, writes (15 February 2009):

OK, family is off limits she just like being around you because she felt that she could be herself with you. Now when you came at her the way you did scared her and now she doesn't want things to turn into something more. All I can say is tell her that you are sorry and take it from there. Even if she never speaks to you again at least you know you tried to make right for your wrong.

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A male reader, MyDestiny United States +, writes (15 February 2009):

MyDestiny agony aunt isn't it kinda wierd that you feel this way about your cousin????

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A female reader, SJ_ninety United States +, writes (15 February 2009):

SJ_ninety agony auntConsidering you're cousins, that's probably the reason she said no. Otherwise, I'm quite sure she would've said yes. In any case, you should get out more and gradually get yourself into the habit of meeting girls who do not have any relation to you. Good luck! =]

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