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Met him by chance, liked him a lot, he was supposed to call, didn't, should I try to find him?

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Question - (15 February 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2009)
A female Ireland age 41-50, *t23 writes:

I recently visited a city where a friend lives about 100 miles away from where I live. we went out that night and while looking for another friend a guy began talking to me in friendly banter. I immediatley liked him (very much a first for me) and proceeded to have a converstaion with him during the night i spoke to him several times he told my friend he was shy and asked her for my number, told me later he had it and ssid he would call me the following weekend, seemed genuine and kinda nerdy, I told him we were going to a different bar he said he was going to the same place and he would see us there, we didnt stay in there and didnt see him it was to busy. My question is that he said he always goes to the same bar I really like him and wonder if i should make an effort to see him again and get his number this time? I have been single for 3 years (by my own choice) but now feel ready and he is waht i am looking for...... am I crazy to even talk to him after he didnt call.... nothing at all happened that night, just flirting but I was shocked when he didn't call he seemed to nice and quiet? I would obviously make him think it was chance that we saw each other again!!!!

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A female reader, kt23 Ireland +, writes (22 February 2009):

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penguin64 thanks os much for your answer, your right I should make an effort, went out last night in my own town and he is still on my mind! this is so wierd for me

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A female reader, penguin64 United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2009):

penguin64 agony auntI think you should go to the bar and accidently on purpose bump into him. what harm can it do? anything could of happened for him to not call. you can usually tell if they arent that intrested but from what you've said it seems like he was. he might of ost the number or something. Go for it.xx

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