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writes:Hi all, please can you guys give me your advice?!On new years eve, my best friend, his sister, her friend and I are going out of town for the night to celebrate.. The thing is, I seem to get on really well with my friends sister, we've all been out twice before and our sense of humour seems to be the same and I am attracted to her. I have no idea if she's attracted to me or how to spot the signs, if she doesn't show any signs then I'd rather save the embarrassment of asking her out, but my other big obstacle is that it is my best friend's sister and I don't know if he'd be uncomfortable/ annoyed at the thought of this- am I crossing a line??Like I say, rather than potentially creating a problem with my friend for nothing, I don't know if she likes me or not in that way but I would like to get to know her more individually, so please, any advice would be greatly appreciated!Thanks,Ben.
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reader, bennyboyca +, writes (30 December 2013):
bennyboyca is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice guys!! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2013): You should spent more time with her(make up excuses if must) and check for positive sign languages.There are many sites that you can easily find which cover on this subject.So start working on it and find if shes into you or not.
If it works out,then you could tell about it to her brother and if he his your best freind,he will give his blessings because I know would!!.
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reader, malletchick76  +, writes (29 December 2013):
 I'd say tell her how you feel! It's going to be a new year, start living your life!! Sure things might get awkward if she doesn't feel the same way, but then things will get better. Pay attention to body language... does she square her shoulders toward you when talking to you and if you're sitting across from each other do her knees point to you? Does it look like she's just paying attention to you and not other men that walk by (looking is one thing, but going on about another guy is a sign she's not into you)? Maybe try complimenting her on how great of a person she is and then get a feel from that. If it seems like the right time, ask!
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