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writes:hi, i'm a fourteen year old boy and il tell you a little bit of background about my situation first. i'v been going out with my girlfriend for eight months now and i really love her, i can't think about anyone else and its going really well. it's a long distance relationship but we comute and see each other as much as possible.me and my dad have never really got on and i dont really like him or care about him or his feelings but i try for my mums sake so she doesnt get upset.i cant see my this half term so we planned to meet for a long weekend the weekend after. but my mum has said that its my dads birthday that weekend. i know it would upset my mum if i left for that weekend and i know my girlfriend would understand if i couldnt see her but i know shed be dissapointed. i'm not sure what to doplease help!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2011): How about asking your girlfriend along, you'd hopefully get to spend some alone time as well as satisfying your Mum. It would also show your girl that even though you don't get on with your Dad you think your family is important and see her as part of it.
It obviously depends how stressed the relationship between you and your Dad is as to weather this would just boil down to being awkward but only you could make that decision.
Just a thought!
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