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writes:I dont know where to start..i just spent the last two months with the most wonderful boy. We broke up on thursday. When i first met him he had a girlfriend but split with her. They have a child together. I knew he was very down the last week and i was gettin worried dthat at he was missing her coming to see him for xmas. I think he was upset that he wouldnt get to see his child open his presents xmas morning. i broke up wit him because i just felt bad...like i was breaking up a family. he never gave me an indication he wanted to end the relationship with me. i had a work party last night and i stupidly rang him asking him to call up to me but he wouldn't as he was minding his child. i texted him twice today and rang him but he is ignoring me. i am so cut up over this. and i am shocked he is not replying to me. we had such passion between us when we were together! it just felt fantastic. i miss him so much already. im heartbroken. i dont know what to do...its xmas eve an i just don't how i am goin to get through tomorrow. This is the worst xmas ever. i dont know wat to do. please can somebody tell me what i should do. im torn up over this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2011): You ended it with him remember.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2011): You were a rebound OP, plain and simple. I find nothing shocking about your predicament or the way he's acting really. He had a girlfriend, broke up with her, you turned up to give him sex and comfort and now he's done with you.
You do nothing, you move on. You see you gave him the out that he needed by breaking up with him and now he can act the saint and let you think you're the one who fucked up. While you did by getting with a guy not even out of a relationship and then just barely out of it you didn't do anything bad or wrong to him so don't let him put this on you.
Don't worry, you're not the first person to have mistaken the passion and connection that a person on the rebound can give as meaning something when in fact it doesn't.
All I can say to you is walk away, never get with a guy who is just out of relationship and remember whatever you think you had with him it was all a rebound. He was down all week most likely because he missed her and missed being a couple with her, I bet you a million quid that he was planning on breaking up with you anyway.
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