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writes:just a quick question. Is it wrong to get your girlfriend turned on like "about to jump you turned on" just before you leave to go back home? I still live at home with the family, I'm a student and can't seem to find a job, always seems to be someone better. And My mom usually picks me up and gives me rides to places or gives me rides home. I have a habit of turning my GF on like only a little while before I have to leave. Most of the time I don't mean for it to happen but sometimes I do it on purpose, just to have a little fun before heading home. I like to mess with her and turn her on even if it don't lead to something after. So is it wrong of me to do that or am I just having a bit of fun and sub-contentiously reassuring myself that I can turn her on and make her want me? Reply to this Question
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reader, supermum  +, writes (28 December 2011):
 You are contradicting yourself here. You say it is an accident, that you just lose track of time, and then you say you are going to stop. If it was truly an accident, you would not be able to stop.My suggestion? Respect her a whole lot more than you do now. Never be certain she wont cheat, it seems you are trying your best to push her into it.I am glad you had a talk about it, and I hope things work out... just don't push her.
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reader, mammer69 +, writes (28 December 2011):
mammer69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your comments but I really do know she wouldn't go some where else. She had that happen to her and she loves me to much to put me through the hell she went through. but i have talked to her about it and she understands that we lose track of time and that it is all in good fun. I've decided to stop and she understands I just can't keep my hands off her. and she has done it in both senses, in the kind of pay back sense and in the come and get me sense.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (24 December 2011):
 If you keep up the way you are dont be surprised when she looks for something better.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (24 December 2011):
 Probably after you've left she just goes to some boy next door or down the road to have him finish what you have started. But, hey, it's all in good fun .
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 December 2011):
 Sorry I didn't see your followup. It doesn't really matter if you don't intend to be mean, from your description she obviously does not enjoy it. So keep better track of time before you try to get busy.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (24 December 2011):
Depends. Does she ever do this to you back in a clearly fun teasing way (no hint of malicious anything or anger)? If so, she may find it amusing, if not, then quit it.
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reader, mammer69 +, writes (24 December 2011):
mammer69 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe wouldn't do that to me she wouldn't go after someone else. But ya I figured i would get these kind of answers. but most of the time i don't do it on purpose it's just bad timing. we lose track of time we start things and then i get a call "We'll be there in 10". I can satisfy her very well, I know, it she knows it, her sister knows it and all the neighbors do to. And ya i guess it wouldn't be very nice but if it was me, she would have no chance of leaving and she knows it and loves it. I don't know why but she doesn't really like when I just get her in the mood, she likes it when I pretty much just take her. So if she did that to me ya she isn't leaving yet. But it is all in good fun. in fact she has done that to me got me excited and then left, well tried to leave. once she starts she can't stop. but thank you I was just wondering that.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 December 2011):
 IF you have to ask then deep down inside you know the answer.
and Jonas has a good point...
and doing it by accident... well yeah that might happen once in a while... but if she's like me, then when you leave she can fix it on her own no problem...
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reader, supermum +, writes (24 December 2011):
Here is the issue, if she is super horny when you leave, she may look for release elsewhere.
I don't think it is a very nice thing to do. There is nothing wrong with it, but leaving her frustrated when you leave is not very fair. Imagine if she gave you the best blowjob you had ever had, stopped just before you were about to come and told you to leave. How would you feel?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (24 December 2011):
Well its simple, would you like it if she turned you on then left you with nothing? I doubt it. If my partner did this often then I would not be happy.
It sounds like you aren't very secure in yourself if you need to prove that you can turn her on.
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