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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have just started getting really intimate and I have noticed that he doesn't ejaculate.. not really anyways. Like I'll keep doing things to him and he will get really hard and talk about how good it feels and that I give him like 3 to 5 orgasms in a session.. but nothing seems to happen!I've spoken to him about it because I thought that maybe I wasn't doing something right, but he says it's completely normal for him, and that it just comes out very little at a time. But it just worries me because it seems like he never finishes no matter how long I do things for him!! I'm just curious as to if this is normal for some guys, and what I could possibly do to help it (if help is needed).Please, feedback is greatly appreciated! I love him oh so dearly and want nothing but to make him happy and to please him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2013): Its completely normal some peaple just have as much sperm as others he may just have a low sperm count
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 February 2013):
 My husband is one of these guys.... in all my 39 years of being sexual with men, he's the first I've ever seen this with...
I am used to large amounts of ejaculate to let me know my man was done... with my husband... I have no clue... sometimes he has to tell me to stop doing what I'm doing because he's done... and I'm clueless...
sometimes he has none..
sometimes he has a little
to be honest, we never are going to procreate so as long as he's happy and satisfied it works for me.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (14 February 2013):
 Does he look at porn? Can he ejaculate by masturbating to porn?
Not being able to ejaculate during 'normal sex' is a fairly common side effect to porn addiction. I've read many many accounts from men that this has happened to.
It's easy to know if this is the reason: if he can masturbate and ejaculate to porn then that's the problem. If so the cure is simple too: stop with the masturbating to porn.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (14 February 2013):
 I don't quite get from your post whether he never ejaculates ( anejaculation ) or if he just does not ejaculate much. It 's different.
The first generally is not a good thing, it could just depend from psychological blocks, excess of self control, a warped view of sexual pleasure like something " wrong " or " dirty ", etc.etc. but , more often, proceeds from a variety of physical causes, like diabetic neuropathy, hypothyroidism, testosterone deficit, neurological problems etc. He should see his doctor for a thorough ckeck up.
If he does not come much ... ejaculation varies in quantity from a man to another. Plus,seen your age range, it's quite a safe bet saying that probably, beside being intimate with you, he masturbates a lot,... maybe a bit too frequently to let a sperm " replenishment " build up-that's why he is, ahem, shooting blanks.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (14 February 2013):
 Not to be indelicate, but you say "very little" comes out. Do you have anything to benchmark that against? The norm for men can range down to 1 ml or less (a teaspoon being 5 ml.)
If it's nothing at all, it could be retrograde ejaculation.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Retrograde_ejaculation
Has he ever discussed it with a doctor?
The bottom line, though, is that if something is produced, he's happy, and you're not trying to get pregnant, everything is probably OK.
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