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writes:hi,i fell in love with my second cousin and things were great. I never thought this would happen i love her and when i told her this she kinda freaked out and told me she likes me as a cousin.I'm crazy about her and I don't want to stop talking to her. Neither does she. Because she loves talking to me I didnt talk 2 her 4 abt a week but then i couldnt help it. She told me she doesn't want to hurt me n that i shouldnt keep my hopes from her,I don't know what to do. I can't help myself in my love for her. Please help.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 February 2013):
 Sadly I do not think you will get what you want.
she's made it clear she is not interested in you as a romantic partner. That will not change. If you can't bear to see her as just a friend, then I think you need to not be in contact with her as it hurts you too much.
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reader, Aunty Medge  +, writes (14 February 2013):
Hi
The first thing to remember is that we can't choose who we fall in love with, it happens at the strangest of times and often with the most unlikely of people.
However you do need to respect your cousins boundaries. If she is saying she only likes you as a cousin then don't push things and ruin the relationship you already have.
Remember she is family and that things can get complicated very quickly.
Try sitting down together and talking things through. See if she has any of the same feelings for you.
I wish you the best of luck
Love Aunty Medge x
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