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writes:Ex finally started talking to me after 2 months NC. I hurt her really badly and destroyed her self-esteem. Obviously she missed me so much that she decided to stop ignoring me, but she is being really mean and cold towards me. I'm trying my best to be nice and make her feel good about herself but she will just rage and treat me horribly whenever we talk about anything. If I approach the subject of what happened before she will literally go berserk and not want to speak to me for days. Clearly she is not over the fact of what happened and can't accept what I did. Should I just leave her alone again? What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2013): the kindest thiing you can go for this person is to let them be. If you have any respect left for her let her get over you in her own time as she is not read to be friends, even if she has convinced herself she is. Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind and trust me she need times and distance.
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reader, 1sunshine  +, writes (6 April 2013):
 What did you do to hurt her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2013): You knew you hurt her badly and Destroyed HER SELF ESTEEM...
what would you expect from her?
if someone is ignoring you, it only means they want you out of their life. its not because they miss you.
you need to make a lot of effort to make her feel comfortable talking to you again, or better yet leave her alone and wait till she's happy with someone else and everything will be forgotten.
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