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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm looking for some male perspective. I have been pursued for in excess of two years by a man. He tells me how beautiful I am and how I am the woman of his dreams. I recently ended a five year relationship, and have considered dating this man. Do you feel that a man that has pursued for over two years is really as "head over heals" as he claims to be? He has stated that he feels that I am the woman that he has always been looking for and also feels we would be a good fit for each other. I can see a future with him, but he seems to have me on quite a pedestal. He is attractive, intelligent, financial secure, and has a good job. The same is true of me. Any advice? I am just being insecure in my thinking that he couldn't really feel this way for me?
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (7 April 2013):
 Why would you not try? Is there something else you arn't telling us?
Is he married?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2013): give him a chance I was in the same position and tried for a year and a half to be with my girlfriend (unfortunately shes not quite "girlfriend" material as I am seeing as this relationship progresses) but I do give it my all since had been chasing her.
Give this man some credit for enduring this wait. Give him one shot...and one opportunity to see how he is and if you like his style.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (7 April 2013):
Could be but there is no real way of knowing unless you try. Maybe it works out and maybe it doesn't but you don't have much to lose if you try. It's good to keep an open mind about these things.
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