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What do I do about my friend's husband who crosses boundaries?

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Question - (12 June 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2010)
A age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My old roommate and I still talk and have fun when we hang out together. She's married and right now her hubby is away on business, so I get to see her a little more. When her husband comes back in September she wants to have a "welcome back" party for him. The problem is, at the last party for him there was alcohol and he got a little rowdy. I was the only single person there, so I became his "target" so to speak. He kept on calling my name or poking fun at me. At one point he pretended to grab my boob, with my roommate right there in the room!!!!! Needless to say, I'm just not really looking forward to this welcome home party. If I cancel, she'll get mad at me and give me a hard time about it. I guess I could leave early if things get bad, but I don't know. I don't have any guy friends or someone to bring with me for support. I just don't know what to do- any advice?

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (12 June 2010):

RAINORFIRE agony aunthmm your a grown woman act like it if some guy is making you feel uncomfortable let him kno. he was being a jerk but you can probably get him to curtail his behavior just. and how come you dont have any guy friends what are you wating for you need to get a man.

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (12 June 2010):

RAINORFIRE agony aunthmm your a grown woman act like it if some guy is making you feel uncomfortable let him kno. he was being a jerk but you can probably get him to curtail his behavior just. and how come you dont have any guy friends what are you wating for you need to get a man.

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (12 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntDsmn, that was going t/b my first suggestion, take a date. Take your cousin, any guy you can use as arm candy for the night. Otherwise, I'd tell Mr. Friendly, if he tries the same thing again that he's going to draw back a stump! Smile sweetly at him and try your best to look like a shark smiling at him when you do.

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A male reader, 2old4this United States +, writes (12 June 2010):

2old4this agony auntI think you are blowing this out of proportion a little. I think you just let her know that you don't really like that kind of playin around with her husband and that it makes you uncomfortable. If she is any kind of friend she will understand. But i would just go and if this starts to happen again then let her know all this. I could have been a fluke one time thing. I might not happen again.

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