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writes:Hi folks. This is a bit of a silly one but how do i get my stupid boyfriend from bringing up Lady Gaga every day? I had no problem with her apart from the idiotic and attention seeking things she does but obviously it doesn't affect me so it was fine. Until that bloody telephone video came out with her flashing her bits like some stripper. Now my boyfriend (who loathes chart music entirely) is unable to stop himself from talking about her. Today for example, in the two hours i spent with him he tried to talk about her at least 15 separate times. It is driving me insane. I can't help feeling a little jealous and more than a little annoyed since even when i say "please stop talking about lady bloody gaga" he doesn't.Advice on how the heck to get this boring conversation out of my relationship without seeming small and petty would be very much appreciated. Cheers!
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (4 April 2010):
 @ stellaforstar :-)
... well I hope I haven't wasted time on the nails lol, ... I kinda thought guys liked a good manicure when your hand was wrapped around well you know what when your doing you know what ..lol.
Hmmn, .. I gunna throw this one out as a new questions and see what they say hehehe
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reader, stellaforstar +, writes (4 April 2010):
stellaforstar is verified as being by the original poster of the question lol i think you have put a lot of effort into pleasing your bf and i am pretty sure it won't go unnoticed. Have fun :) Not sure he'll be paying much attention to those nails tho ;)
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (4 April 2010):
...ah, but you have gotten your panties in a twist over a woman who dresses like a moron , ... or at least over a boyfriend who raves on about her, ... or you would not have written in about it in the first place. :-) Hopefully tho, you've vented abut it and really are just wiping off a scene that annoys you and refusing to let it get to you. Good for you if you have!
Are you reaaalllly so sure your boyfriend would be laughing instead of loving it tho?
Hell yeah tho, I agree my man (and any man in their right mind) would laugh his arse off too if I was in the lobster get up lol - and no chance of that level of freaky happening, ... but she does have more subtle looks too - such as the one in pokerface which is more where I am angling.
Anyway, if I can find this thread again down the track, I will tell you if he laughs or not. I'm putting it off about a month tho coz I have just been the naughty easter bunny and can't spoil him too much too often ..lol.
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reader, stellaforstar +, writes (4 April 2010):
stellaforstar is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have to say that my boyfriend would laugh his ass off if i ever dressed like lady gaga in or outside the bedroom. ultimately i think we can all agree that anyone who sits down to dinner in a Chinese restaurant in a see through plastic dress and a thong and tit-tape, finished off with a giant lobster hat - is actually a moron. And maybe that should be the final word on the matter. I here-by refuse to get my panties in a twist over a moron. gaga lovers out there i mean no offense.
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (1 April 2010):
 I don't really have an answer. I just had to state that I loved Not My Name's answer! Not only do you get to have fun with it, he also will be all over you. And love you for it. It is just a silly celeb crush. Laugh it off. And Not My Name, you sound like an amazing girlfriend/wife! To go through all that for him is very sweet and he is lucky to have you, tell him so!
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reader, MonksDaBomb +, writes (1 April 2010):
 I agree with Calico - maybe then your boyfriend will see how annoying it is and if he brings it up, tell him it's the same way when he's non stop about Lady Gaga.
ChristineAvril - Lady Gaga is this American singer who I honestly believe we'll never hear from again in about 10 years. Known for her fashion (STRANGE fashion, I might add). It's better if you don't know her, although "Paparazzi" is a nice song.
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (1 April 2010):
 One of my mates just split up with his girlfriend because of her unhealthy obsession with Michael Jackson. How serious is your relationship? Because if it isn't serious, I'd leave because it's just gonna really annoy you and could even end up in an argument.
However, I would give him a bit of time, because after a week or two he'll probably completely forget about it.
Are you sure he's not just trying to wind you up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2010): Sorry, but i dont blame him! Im gaga for gaga too! Lol! Do what callico said, he should stop soon.
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reader, stellaforstar +, writes (1 April 2010):
stellaforstar is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol loving the advice. I think i am going to have fun with this one. You won't catch me dressing up as that headcase for anyone though i'm afraid. I am very open minded when it comes to my boyfriend but i just dont want him thinking of someone else when he is "with me" if you know what i mean. That is not how we work. Anyway, it is not the "crush" that is the problem it is the frequency of which i have to listen to her name! It does my head in! But i particularly like calico's idea... Let the James McAvoy/Lady Gaga wars begin =P Thank you everyone for your help on this little nuisance and my fist will be held back with extreme difficulty! haha.
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (1 April 2010):
Sorry I wont be much help to your actual question, but I had to laugh coz my man is gaga for Gaga too.
So much so, he asked me a couple of weeks ago to buy a blonde wig, (the long straight blunt cut one she is wearing with the grey beaded top in pokerface) and no points for guessing what he wants to be doing whilst I am wearing it.
Does not bother me tho, I find his little celeb crush amusing, (...and yes, I have literally watched him pausing the telephone film clip trying to check out her pixelated girly bits) so I thought what the hell, I might as well go all out on this one.
So, I have my blonde wig already stashed in the cupboard, fishnets, boots, I've spent hours painting tiny little card suits on to black false nails, made a replica of the gold lightening bolt on her face and did a trial run with the eye makeup and lashes etc, (which worked out nicely) and just tonight I have spent hours gluing tiny mirror tiles to a black bra (from a diff clip of hers) ... just got to decide what to have on the bottom half and shall be good to go.
I see it as just a bit of harmless fun to indulge his fantasy crush, so ahhh why not. It will be worth it for the look on his face alone. Can't wait to shock the hell out of him :-)
We wont get in to the catwoman fetish he has lol
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reader, ChristineAvril +, writes (1 April 2010):
 Who is lady gaga?
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