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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I cheated on my fiancee and can't get over my guilt.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 46 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I cheated on my fiancee.. I cheated on my fiancee, the woman I love and have been with for four years, with a girl I didn't even know. I have no idea why I did it. I was at a party drinking heavily and met this girl who started flirting with me right off the bat. I ... (358 words)

I have been burned bad in my past relationships, how can I start trusting again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been burned real bad in my last past relationship and now I have met a new girl and have very strong feelings for her but I am not sure on how to trust her. How do I start trusting again?... (42 words)

I already have a girlfriend but have just got with this other girl, now I like both of them. Who do I choose?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - What do i do? I've just got with this girl while I've already got another girlfriend! Who do I choose?... (21 words)

How can I make him lose that control and cum inside me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I want my man to come inside me but he has so much control how can I make him come inside me? I want to make him lose that control.... (30 words)

Now I'm Really Worried And Regret Been Soo Stupid, What Should I Do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hello, I Have Taken 4 Paracetemols Together In The Past Couple Of Days, And I Was Reading Something On The Internet About Toxicity. Now I'm Really Worried And Regret Been Soo Stupid, What Should I Do?... (37 words)

I am really into my boss who is female and married. I am also female.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 486 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i am really into my boss who is female and married and i think she is into me too, i am a female also, how can i tell before i make a fool of myself?... (35 words)

He is only in the marriage because of the child. Is there any hope for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 486 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what do i do about loving a man who is in an unhappy marriage and stays in it for the sake of his child? i have known this man for a year and a half we are both sober. at first we were just friends. he was separated from his wife and has a small child. he moved back with ... (174 words)

I checked his MSN and know for a fact he's been seeing other women casually although I don't understand why as we get along so well.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 54 year old widow and have been seeing my partner (also widowed) for almost 3 years. We get on brilliantly and I get on well with his family. A few months ago I became suspicious that something was going on when I saw pop-ups on his computer - the type you get on MSM w... (238 words)

What does love actually mean... and is falling in love painful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hey guys just wanted to know, what does love actually mean???? and is falling in love painful???... (17 words)

How do I go about asking my ex girlfriend out again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - how do i go in asking my ex girlfriend out again?... (11 words)

Is it normal for your feelings for your significant other to fluctuate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

4 March 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, and I am wondering is it normal for your feelings for your significant other to fluctuate? One day I feel madly in love with him and cannot wait for him to come home from work, while other days he gets on my nerves and I ... (91 words)

I'd like to move on but feel completely clueless at the moment as to what I should do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I split up at the end of 2005. We have a son together and spent much of 2006 arguing over him. I finally had enough and started Family Mediation. My ex and I started to get on really well and it's opened up a whole can of worms. He has indicated he would like us to ... (178 words)

i seem to have man boobs, is this normal and does it go away when you lose weight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

4 March 2007 (M) - dear agony aunts im the guy that previously posted about my parents arguing because of me. i would like to give you guys an update and say that they worked things out this morning and started talking with each other. my other problem is, i seem to have man boobs, is this ... (114 words)

She has been unreasonably jealous since our relationship started over 3 years ago. Is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - She`s admitted looking through my phone,accused me of hiding things in it,accused me of looking through her phone. I am baffled to what is going on. Why would someone class her phone as privacy then look through mine? Am i being petty here or am i on to something? Everything ... (119 words)

My partner and I have been arguing a lot this last couple of weeks, how can I resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My 2nd anniversary is coming up, but me and my partner have been arguing a lot for the last couple of weeks. i love him to bits and want to resolve things but he seems to be laid back and he says he dont care if we break up. I buy him everything and he is a lovely man but i ... (96 words)

Why do I fall in love so easily and always end up getting hurt?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I fall for men too easily and too fast. If they are not interested and reject me it really upsets me. Its beginning to ruin my life, the only time I feel good about myself is when I am drunk becuase it blocks out the feelings but it also makes me lose my inhibitions which ... (143 words)

I'm 16, and I've been offered money to do a dominatrix/fetish photo shoot.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 16, and I've been offered money to do a dominatrix/fetish photo shoot. I signed up to a free modelling site a few months ago (perfectly legitimate, not porn type stuff) and this guy has contacted me through that. I told him I was 16 and that I am no doubt too young to take ... (136 words)

How do I tell if she is really wanting more and what do I do about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with another woman for seven years and I do really love her. But our sex life is pretty much nil. I have had a terrible infatuation wtth someone at work for a couple of years (she is straight.) We are friendly, but do to the difference in rank, ... (131 words)

Should I tell her to stop contacting me, or should I try to suck it up until I get back into town and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

4 March 2007 (M) age 26-29 - My ex (age 23) and I (age 26) had been in a long distance relationship for 3 years, spending about 5 months of every year around each other. She broke it off saying that she was unsure I was the one for her. She says she hasn't ruled out getting back together in the future ... (162 words)

He's married and we have been together for 4 years! He claims he doesn't sleep with his wife..is this true?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with a married man four two years and he say he has not slept with his wife at all. i just find that hard 2 believe cause we have sex like crazy i need some help.... (39 words)

How can a man last longer while having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - how can a man last longer havin sex?... (8 words)

She 's promiscuous, has a bf and we are close friends. How do I get her to date me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey. I am 16 years old, and I am in love with a girl that I am really close friends with. We dated for a while last year, and later on ended up having sex. The thing I am concerned about is something that happened about 3 weeks ago. I probably should have posted something ... (342 words)

I need to move forward--How do I end my affair with this guy who is still with his gf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some help to end an affair...I have been seeing this guy for 2 years. I was going through a horrible divorce when we meet and he was living with his girlfriend. My relationship is now completely over and I need to move on with my life. Yes i do love this guy but I cant ... (87 words)

Why is no one interested in taking it beyond 'casual sex' with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 38 and I haven't had a boyfriend since 2000. I take care of myself -- I'm well-educated, slim, sociable, good job etc -- but no one is interested in taking it beyond the casual sex stage. At one point, I went two years without even the passing pleasure of casu... (89 words)

I'm getting married but have met up with the ex again..I think I'm still in love with him! What should I do?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i really need help. i'm supposed to getting married in the summer of 2008 and i meet up with an ex boyfriend of mine and now i'm confused because i have falling in love with this guy again. meaning i am in love with two guys and don't know what to do. my question is ... (119 words)

Does anyone know of any safe but effective slimmming pills?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - does anyone know of any safe but effective slimmming pills? I exercise and am on a diet but nothings really happening and ive seen television adverts but im not to sure which ones to trust. thanks!!... (36 words)

We have such a connection but he has had a gf for six years!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok, i play tennis every weekend and recently have become extremely close to the guy I play with. We have been textin each other at every oppurtunity and the flirting on both sides has been outrageous. We agreed to meet up last friday and we had a really good laugh as always, ... (249 words)

I haven't heard from him in 2 or 3 days, was it because I didn't tell him I felt the same?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been seein a guy behind his girlfriend's back and at first we both didn't mean anything, then he told me he loved me and since then i have started to get feelings for him, however since he said that and i didn't really tel him how i felt, he has been really off with me ... (74 words)

He views it as insecure and jealous, I view it as sneaky and dishonest! What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 mos. Early in the relationship I told him some trust issues I had and what effected my trust in a relationship. One was "baggage" brought into the new relationship. Issues with old lovers/gf's that they still talk and keep in ... (163 words)

Do you think these are signs from him that he wants a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

- me and my bf are both 18 we havent had sex but are these signs he wants a baby naming his future kids saving for kids future looking at 2 bedroom flats to move into calling me up when he out and sees a cute baby telling me the words im pregnant he is dying to hear from me ... (193 words)

This might sound silly but I have been married 17 years and I feel my wife and I are closer than ever. Is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i know this might be a stupid question but me and my wife have been together for 17 years, close friends all our life and married for 7 years. Is it normal for me to feel that way i do for her becuase loads of other poeple who have been together as long as us arent like ... (181 words)

Do you think he is shy, scared of rejection, or just being professional because of our work relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I wrote a post on here a week ago about me going out of my mind over my work colleague and got some very good reply's. Im 20 and he is 31 and we work really close together. We have been flirting very strongly since the summer and i feel we have developed a strong bond between ... (242 words)

I don't want a heroin addict or alcoholic in my house! What the hell do I do here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - should you give up on love because of children? Me and my wife have been married for 8 years and have kids from previous marriges. She and her son left 2 months ago.We have been talking every day and spending weekends together. We are very much in love. Her son (23) has been a ... (194 words)

Did I miss the opportunity to get to know her more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hello, I previously posted a question asking if anyone thought a girl liked me, the kind people who replied 100% agreed that she did. She broke up with her boyfriend a week or so ago. Last Monday (after she had broke up with him) she continued to act flirty with me etc. ... (166 words)

We dated 10 times, he said it wouldnt work out, but we still did the couple thing, but now hes slagging me off!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - dear cupid i am really confused this boy went out wid me bout 10 times but it was finished he said he still liked me but it just wouldnt work out but he still wanted to hold my hand and do stuff that couples would do (confusing). but bout 2 weeks ago he told my two best... (109 words)

I was forced to have sex with this boy, my friend now doesnt want to know me, and I feel I have no one to talk to!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 484 days ago

4 March 2007 (F) age 16-17 - i feel as if i am alone i have no one to talk to i am due to go to counselling in a few weeks i feel as if i cant go through with pretending everythings ok when its not. i was forced to have sex with a boy. my best friend tried to help me but becuase of this she gets threatend ... (219 words)

Im 40 he is 21, is it selfish of me to stay with him ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a fourty year old lady dating a twenty two year old guy we have been together for thirteen months we live together and have done since day one almost. Do you think its selfish or not of me staying with him? There are so many reasons for staying together and so many for ... (143 words)

My boobs feel heavy and hurt, im two weeks past due and havent had sex, but did in Nov, had 2 periods since, what do you think ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i know many people may ask this question but my boobs feel realy heavy and they hurt my period was due a few weeks ago i have not had sex although i was forced to in november and that is being delt with. i have had two periods since then and i was on my period when it happened ... (76 words)

Could there really something going on with her and the ex ? afterall I am the one supporting her financially!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing this girl since July last year and i really think the world of her, when i met her she was pregnant with her EX's child who she had split from. in January this year she lost the baby and since then the EX has been back on the scene. I understand after... (294 words)

Im 13, would it be okay to ask a boy out or should I wait for him to ask me ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i am thirteen and i like a boy in my year my friends say he likes me because he flirts and looks at me a lot is it ok to ask a boy out or should i wait for him to ask me out? ... (46 words)

How can I make it clearer to him that I want him to kiss me!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey! me and my bf are both 16 and have been togther for 2 months yesterday :) all we have done so far is hug ALL THE TIME! and about a month ago we kissed but we havent kissed since :( but i really want to! he is too tall for me to reach up and kiss him tho so i cant make t... (149 words)

Whenever my boyfriend comes round I get this really sad feeling that I want to cry! Whats wrong with me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi im 16 and me and my bf go to the same school. whenever bf comes round my house every weekend at one point in the day i always suddenly get this really sad feeling and i just want to cry and most of the time i do start crying! i never get this feeling when my mates come ... (67 words)

Could a straight guy fall in love with a gay guy ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it possible for a straight guy to fall in love with a gay guy I,m 41, he,s 25 I,m gay he,s straight we get along really well buy he,s very anti-gay I think he suspects that I,m gay but doesn,t seem to bother him Should I let him make the first move or let things go as the... (62 words)

I have always fantacised about my Gf's sister, but Im not sure if what happend was just her being playful and if I should say anything ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 52 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I have been with my girlfriend for four years now. Over christmas we went to her family house. Her sister whom is 26 and I'm 23 is always very pleasent to me. I have always fantacised about her. I would love to have sex with her. I know that I could never do it but because it ... (249 words)

I want my wife back, but she gets angry when I talk to her, even more so at the time of the month!!! Please help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife has left me and i want her back we have been going through a tough time over the last year or so but came to a head about 6 weeks ago the problem was she was helping everyone else's buisness out but neglecting her own but just won't listen. i keep trying to talk to here ... (129 words)

I really want to know what this boy was saying about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I am 13 and in some love troubles. I like this boy in my class and people say he likes me (in that way) i saw him talking to a friend about me but i could not hear what they were saying i realy want to know. What can I do? Is it ok for a girl to ask a boy out?... (63 words)

I just want to have a good holiday with my family!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age - I'm going away with my family (2 elder sisters and my brother-in-law) for a few days. I'm excited but at the same time I am apprehensive because I haven't been spending time with them in the last year. The reasons are as the following: 1) Have been voluntarily unem... (433 words)

I love my man, we're both successful, but it seems he needs someone who needs him. I need him emotionally! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been in a relationship for 4 years with a wonderful man, living together for 1 year. We both have professional careers and started drifting apart under work related stress. I am very independent, and we earn the same amount of money. He says he feels "I don't need him" ... (198 words)

I'm big and I'm obsessed about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 489 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - OK, i hate my body, and have posted on here before but the only replies i got was it was normal at my age to be insecure. Which i guess is true, but my weight is the only thing i focus on for most of the time and seeing as i am in my final year i kinda need to be focusing on my ... (120 words)

My fling has developed feelings for me, and so have I, but I don't think I am worth his tears.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I was at my friend's house because we decided to spend a friday together. She decided to invite her boyfriend and my fling. Honestly I don't even know where we are at. Like a while back we decided to take a break bc he needed to get his head straight. And I really like this ... (243 words)

I think she still loves me and am a wreck!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago from a distance relationship (she lived about 1.5 hours away) because of an incident at the theater we where at.....I wasn't....forward enough you could say i was a little standoffish and she got embarrassed by her friends and ... (469 words)

We fight a lot, and we have issues, but what should I do about all of this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 489 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Me and my boyfriend fight a lot! We both love each other but we still fight a lot and we are both tired of arguing and it's usually about stupid stuff like me or him liking someone else. Sometimes I feel like I don't love/like him anymore but when we're done fighting I know I ... (66 words)

I am clueless as to what to say to my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for going on two year now, and I can't, for the life of me, think of things to talk with her. It is frustrating for both myself and for her. Just yesterday, I called her to talk about why she had been ignoring me and avoiding me, and it ... (109 words)

I want someone who appreciates me, but that isn't happening

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I am a ladies man or at least thats wut my friends say I am, but how do I actually get a woman that appreciates me for me. I mean, why is it that most women that I meet say the same thing. They say that they want someone that will appreciate them, treat them right, pamper them, ... (247 words)

My boyfriend hired male strippers for my birthday, but I don't want them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I was told by a good friend that my boyfriend had spent £3,000 on hiring male strippers for my birthday. They said they'd got some evidence about it which was too upsetting to reveal. I found the evidence of it at home: loads of bills for male strippers, internet history... (173 words)

My guy is going into the military, and he is thinking of marriage. Don't you all think he's rushing it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now. Its the first "real" relationship I've been in. I realy love my boyfriend and he's a great guy, though he lives in Illinois while I live in Ohio. We hardly get to see each other, though we talk every day. Though we've only ... (272 words)

I'm 19, she's 14. I don't want to wait years and years. What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 478 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have a question for you all, that I really need help with. There's this girl that I have been talking to for a little while now. I am 19 years old, and she's 16. Her and I have actually already talked about getting together and all, but now it gets confusing. First of all, ... (262 words)

I think my partner only stays with me because of our daughter. What can I do to make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my partner have only been together a year and one month we have a 4 month old daughter together and I really feel like I don't matter any more. I love my boyfriend so much but although he says he loves me some times i think he is only with me because if he leaves me our ... (98 words)

I can't and do not want to get over her, even though logically, I should!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

4 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I want to start off by sayin that I am 19 years old, but I d'ont want people to say the same thing people alwayz say to me, and that is how "I'm still young, and this will all pass", because, really its not... please, i need some actual advice. Although I am, 19, I have been ... (573 words)

Should I wait to see if they will be together again, or should I just go for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - There is this boy, and he lives pretty far away. I reallly realllly like him.. and i know we could never have a relationship now because im a bit young for a long-distance relationship. but herein lies my problem: he and this girl dated before, [she and him also lived prett... (174 words)

We're going away for 3 days. How can I get my friends to let my bf join us as he dying to come along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

- im going away for 3 days to a concert and my bf really wants to come along but one of my friends said no with the reason he doesnt like my bf (he never met or spoke to my bf) but he bringing his gf who i hate . we only be all together in between bands and after the gig as me an... (115 words)

They both treat me well. Should I go for the guy I've been hanging with, or should I stick with my bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm having a little problem with my relationships right now. Well, I've had boyfriend for about a month now, at first, I thought I loved him. But now, I dont seem to like him as much as I though I did. The thing is, I've been hanging out with this other guy a lot lately. I ... (113 words)

I have not had a period for about 9 months and i am getting worried! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

4 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 15 years old, 60kg (9st 4) and 5 foot 1 and ugly. I am unhappy about how i look and feel. I have never had a boyfriend as no one has looked twice at me. I have never even kissed a boy and all my friends have done more than that. I just feel embarassed and ashamed of my bo... (148 words)