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I already have a girlfriend but have just got with this other girl, now I like both of them. Who do I choose?

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Question - (4 March 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

What do i do? I've just got with this girl while I've already got another girlfriend! Who do I choose?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007):

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thanks to everyone who helped it was good advice! its all sorted nows!

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A female reader, TakeItOrLeaveIt South Africa +, writes (8 March 2007):

TakeItOrLeaveIt agony auntmy opinion... you dont deserve these girls. you cheated on the first girl so she deserves better. and the poor second girl will just be taking a chance that you'll probably cheat on her with the next...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007):

Have those girls told you how they feel about you? These girls may find out about each other.

I suggest to leave those girls alone. Better off, come clean with it.

You are giving men a bad name and it goes both ways. There are good men out there and you're making it hard for them to find good women.

If that was the case, you should have just dated them.

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A male reader, maxsteel86 United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2007):

maxsteel86 agony auntYou've given very little info to receieve any real advice about which one to choose here so I say flip a coin. Also, you're a jerk

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A female reader, Lady Destiny* United Kingdom +, writes (5 March 2007):

Dear Mr Fussy!

You should rank them on certain things:

1.Dedication-are they fully comitted to you or do they just want a fling?

2.Love-who displays the most affection?

3.Which one do you think about more?

This question makes me wonder if you still like your girlfriend... because if you did then there would be no one else. I sense problems have happened recently and you are trying to block them out with this new girl. Sort things out with your girlfriend first and if all goes well you know who to choose. If not then the other girl is for you. Remember your girlfriend will be hurt if she finds out you like another woman so its best you confess to evrything... or if you are trully stuck then dump both of them. Hope all goes well and let me know your decision!

Lady Destiny*

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (4 March 2007):

kenny agony auntWhile i can not condone two timing which is effectively what you are doing to these girls.

Without knowing either of these two girls its very hard to say which one to go with.

So here is a shot in the dark, stick with the one you was with first and ditch the second one. Don't be a two timer and keep them both.

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