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Archived questions from: 25 March, 2007 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

She broke up with me! I'm hurt so should I leave her alone or contact her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - should i try to contact her? hi there, was seeing this girl for about 7 months. we were getting on well and i thought happy. we went away for a long-haul holiday and we had loads of fun and romance. 2 days after our return, she txt me to say she needed to chat with me. sh... (145 words)

I know he cares about me but at 14 years old...should I have sex with him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, i'm 14 and am going out with a lovely 17 year old. hes always nice to me, and makes an effort. weve been going out for 3 months, and i can tell that hes thinking about sex. as hes my first "real" boyfriend, im not that clued up about how guys think... i think that i ... (87 words)

My bf has been going to see 'male' strippers! What am I to make of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I found out off a good friend of mine that my boyfriend had been going to see male strippers frequently - spending on upwards about £3,000 a month on this "hobby". I asked my boyfriend, and he didn't deny it, and said, "relax, it's entertainment!" I asked him if he was gay... (96 words)

She's dating another guy and I'm so upset! Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 487 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Hello everyone For this post please could you refer to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-havent-misunderstood-her-she-definitely-used-to.html as this post continues from that previous one. Bascially I sent her the note a week ago and I still feel terrible, I understand ... (277 words)

She goes abroad for 15 months soon..should we break up or do I stay hopeful she'll come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - my girlfriend and I met at university and have been going out for just over a year. We were really good friends for a while before taking that next, daunting step into a relationship. I am in real need of some advice. Although we have only known each other for about 18 mon... (372 words)

She left her bf for me but not before she had one last romp with him! I'm upset about this..what should I do about it?.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ive been going out with a woman for about a month now, she was still in a stale relationship until she split up with him last week she told me they hadnt had sex for a while but saturday just gone she tells me the night before she moved out she slept with him as a way of saying ... (89 words)

The long distance in our relationship is getting to me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

- I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, for the first 8, my mum didn't know about it- at first she didn't take it too well but she was willing to welcome him in. After the first proper meeting, she proceeded to tell me he was "too polite" and acted like a 60 year old ... (229 words)

How can I tell him that i admire him? Will I regret it if I don't say anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi there , im a 28 yr old female n i need some help. I am otherwise a very confident person and i love life...last year i saw this guy n let me tell you, it was this gut attraction, you dont feel like this ( all the time ) and i regretted never getting to know him, until ... (168 words)

Are my friends right about this guy and am I blinded by love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with a man for 3 months now. He's 27, never been married, doesn't have any kids, very sweet and straight forward. My Mr. Everything. In the beginning he would come to visit like every other day due to work schedules and gas. Since day one he has ... (612 words)

We don't talk or hardly go out together! Not sure if my bf of 1 year is right for me--what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - ive been with my boyf for just over a year, but im not sure he is right for me we hardly go out together, and we dont seem to talk anymore, we havent made any future plans not even for a holiday together. we both have a child from previous relationships so we are never on our ... (116 words)

Lost my hubby 6 months and now am dating again! Is it too soon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 28 with kids and my hubby died 6months ago i met a great man 2 months ago he is 15 years older than me it feels right but is it 2 soon 2 be in love again?... (39 words)

We fought, split up and got back together a lot. The last split was final..how can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How do I Move on with my Life After an Intense Relationship? I met this man last August and we soon became capitivated with each other. By September he had moved into my apartment. He is 9 years younger than myself. We are both going to the same school and are in the same ... (322 words)

I dumped her and now find, I want her back. But she will not agree to this. How do I win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I finished with my girlfriend a couple months ago after a argument we had been together a year. After a few weeks of not being in touch I really missed her so decided to get in touch and we met up but she told that I had left it to late and she did not love me anymore and that ... (243 words)

Dating another man to get a committment from my current bf!! Any thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 482 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been dating a man for just over a year.(man#1)However i am not getting the commitment i desire from him. So i have started dating and found a man(#2) that i would like to get to know better. I have told man #1 about this. It has prompted him to make more plans wi... (177 words)

He's dying to have sex but I want to wait until marriage. How do I tell him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 years now and lately he keeps asking when are going to finally have sex. He doesn't know that i have chosen that i want to wait till marriage. how do i tell him???... (43 words)

How can I cope with all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi, im 16 years old and have recently been diagnosed with depression, and also my boyfriend split up with me wed bee going out for 4 months and he helped me to cope alot, he says this is due to me being too clingy-although all of mine and his friends have mentioned too me ... (152 words)

Why would he look so shocked? Did he get scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Can anyone tell me what this means? I really, really fancy this guy i work with. We have been flirting heavily for about two weeks. Last time I saw him I gave him the 'bedroom eyes' look. Not meaning I wanted to sleep with him but trying to look seductive. He was staring at m... (142 words)

Is it possible he's just become too afraid to love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My husband of a year and a half has just admitted to me that he feels like he doesn't love me anymore, and hasn't for quite some time. He said he feels like he's been pretending all this time. I feel like he is rushing towards divorce much too fast, without putting any effort ... (194 words)

Last night I saw him at a party and he completely blanked me out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - a few months ago i snogged a family friend at a weekend away. i really like him but the only problem is that i am 17 and he is 27. it was my first true kiss but it felt wrong because i saw him as a friend. the age gap really bothers me. last night i saw him at a party and i ... (85 words)

I keep thinking how lucky he is to have a 19 year old blonde virgin on his arm and what an ego boost.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm an 19 year old virgin and my boyfriend is 36 years old. We have been together for 6 months and I've had lots of fun with him. The thing is...with the age gap. I keep thinking how lucky he is to have a 19 year old blonde virgin on his arm and what an ego boost. I do love ... (82 words)

I don't want to lose her as a friend, if she doesn't feel the same way about me, so I'm a bit uncertain what should I do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - There's a girl i met quite a while ago, that I recently started to like. About the time we met she showed some pretty clear signs that she wanted to have something with me, but I was dating another girl at that time and didn't do anything. Now i really think I like her, but ... (161 words)

Should he be making the effort to be in touch with me more often?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm nearly 19 and my boyfriend is 36 and we've been together for 6 months. He is a real workaholic! He lives in London (where his business is) during the week and near me at weekends. When he is in London, I don't always hear from him every day and sometimes see him a couple ... (114 words)

She seems to want to copy me all the time and it's really starting to get on my nerves!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 485 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) age 26-29 - Hi all...I need some help coz I've been getting annoyed with this friend of mine. She and I go to the same university. Recently, she started buying the same perfumes that I had, so I stopped wearing mine because I didn't want us to smell the same. Then she started thinking I'd ... (275 words)

What can I do to stop these types of arguments and at the same time feel free to talk about my opinions without fear of these horrible arguments?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am currently engaged, about to be married next month. I love my fiance very much but I find something about the way we communicate very troubling. Here is an example of our last argument that is similar to the trend I am speaking of. I don't know how to remedy it and I am ... (525 words)

What is the best way to console him about this boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age - My husband and I have "looked after" R since he left an unhappy home when he was 16. He is now nearly 38 and we have known that he is gay sice he was 20. He has been in several "relationships" all of which have failed to be sustainable. He is an entertainer/singer and recently ... (308 words)

I'm 16 and thinking of having sex for the first time.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 475 days ago

25 March 2007 (M) - i'm 16 years old and thinking about having sex for the first time. i'm really nervous cos the girl i'm with has already had sex a few times and i dont want her to think i'm rubbish. i am uncircumcised and wanted to know if i'm supposed to pull my foreskin back when having... (75 words)

I so want us to work but I can't seem to get his ex out of my head.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 486 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for over 9 months now, and we had the most amazing time together. We were friends for over a year before we got together and I am so in love with him. The problem? I can't get his ex girlfriend out of my head. I don't know what my problem is, she's ... (148 words)

My life is horrible at the moment, I feel my parents treat me unfairly, can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (?) - My life is hell at the moment. my parents treat me like rubbish. i dont know what to do. they want me to be perfect and listen to every single little command of theirs! i spend most of my time at home trapped in my bedroom. i work on weekends and all the money i get i have to ... (267 words)

My husband of 10 years doesn't kiss me properly and always avoids it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - MY husband of 10 years doesnt kiss me properly and has always avoided it, he says he finds it disgusting yet he enjoys sex very much?, i cant get any answers re; this from him we always fight about it because i think something is not right. Any idea why a guy would do this? ... (93 words)

Do people sometimes keep a tie with their ex because they want to keep the door open to sleep with them again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

- I was going out with a guy for a couple of months. He ended it. I told him I would back off and wished him well. For some reason he seems to really want my friendship but I am finding this a tall order. Things ended in a rather hurtful way and he says he is confused as well by ... (134 words)

I'm always there for my friends, but they can be real horrible sometimes.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Ok here it is, At school I'm adequately popular, I rarely walk from lessons by myself, and I'm always with people at break and lunch, its just I'm always alone at the weekends. i dont really get calls or texts and they all just ignore me if i go online. i dont know what i... (76 words)

What can I do to celebrate our first year anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm in my first serious relationship and its coming up to our 1 year aniversary. im not sure what to do, what to buy etc. can anyone help me? and if you can please help me fast! ... (39 words)

Is there a way I can help him feel more comfortable with expressing love and showing affection.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is my partner (of 16 years, we have one child just over 1 year old) he seems to have a real problem expressing love and affection. It seems to have got worse since we had our baby. He does not tell me he loves me but thinks I should know. He very very very rarely ... (127 words)

We want to have sex, we're both 19. Is this a decent age to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Is it good for us i mean me and my girl friend to have sex at this age? We both are 19 years old. Will it be a problem after marriage?... (31 words)

Should I move on or get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Should I move on or get him back? Dear everyone, I am a girl in my mid 20s, and I've being with my bf for 1.5 years. I looked at him as a perfect man I really wanna be with. He is charming,honest,and romantic. I love him alot. Our problem was we never stopped arguing and... (630 words)

How can I tell him I don't want to have sex with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - dearcupid i am a 14 year old and i was wondering how do i get a boy to see the real me and how do i ask him to go out with me? I go to his house and he talks to me and he wants to have sex and i am scared and i like him alot but i'm afraid to tell him no and i think he like ... (82 words)

How can make her see that I truly love her and I want us to be together again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfiend broke up today, and she won't even talk to me. What happened I went in the bedroom around 10:00...and fell asleep watching TV...then woke up around 3am...went out and got a drink and had a smoke...went over to the couch and put my arm around her...but it ... (161 words)

I need advice on how to get me through this summer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am only 16, and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half. hes joining the army and is going to be away all summer. to tribulize the situation he has a really weird home life, with parents on the verge of splitting and controling every aspect of their ... (233 words)

His son who no longer lives with us broke into our house!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 487 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband of six years has two teenage sons (who do not live with us), one of whom has been mostly trouble since day one. My husband has never disciplined his kids or made them accountable for their mis-deeds, and now the troublesome 17 year-old has gone too far. He and two ... (272 words)

What is the first step for me to stop being emotionally abusive and controlling towards her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello. First off let me share my background. I'm a 21 year old guy, in a relationship with my 20 year old girlfriend. Although the relationship has only lasted 3 months this far, we've known each other for over two years, being best friends and each other's confidant for mo... (371 words)

I've been having a bad time with self confidence and to a certan extent self loathing

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I've been having a bad time with self confidence and to a certan extent self loathing. I believe its starting to affect my relationship, as im constantly putting myself down. I was bullied at school (most people are). I was told by many girls that i was unattracti... (90 words)

My mate has been gay for 3 years and said he's been thinking about what it would be like to be with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 488 days ago

25 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - my best mate whos been gay for 3 years , said he cares for me a lot, and has been thinking about what it would be like if we got together I dont know what to say to this as i know hes saying this cause hes lonely, cause since hes been gay he hasnt had a boyfriend, and w... (122 words)

I found out after turning up at her work place that she had moved on with someone else.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 489 days ago

25 March 2007 (M) age 41-50 - My ex partner of 17 years decided to leave without any explanation. I tried to get closure but didn't get any joy. I found out after turning up at her work place that she had moved on with someone else. When her new boyfriend turned up to pick her up in her car. This all ... (96 words)