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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Why does it embarrass me that I lost my virginity at 20 years old?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I feel like such a loser I was a late starter and lost my virginity at the age of 20. To my currant girlfriend. You hear about and read about sex all the time and are keyed into believing that its abnormal to wait that long. My girlfriend lost hers three years before I met her ... (110 words)

I'm 13 and I'm really sexually pumped into this guy I met online! Is it smart to start a relationship with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm 13. My uncle got married and his wife's nephew and I are the same age. In the summer last year we saw each other quite a lot. He gave me his hotmail address and we chatted. He admitted he fancied me and I admitted that I fancied him. That didn't really last long. He gave me ... (256 words)

I love my bf so much but I'm falling for my male friend! So what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now, I love him so much and couldnt imagine my life without him, hes amazing, he still makes me feel like we did when we were first together and now so much better!! weve had our rough times and weve come out of them only loving ... (231 words)

How do I tell my LD gf that I really like this other girl that I have dated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Here's the deal, early last month my girlfriend of 4 years decides she is moving back in with her parents half-way across the country and I am left alone. We decided to try the LDR(long distance relationship) thing, but we never even talk. So she's been gone for over a month ... (201 words)

I worry that if I don't get along with his kids..he will leave me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everybody out there in internetland. I have just met a guy who i have been on a few dates with, the problem is that he has 2 children ages of 8 and 10 from a previous girlfriend, i have tried to explain to him that i am not sure what to say or do around them when i have... (103 words)

I lost her! And I don't know what to do...please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi my question is i was engaged to a very special girl for 2 years and we was together for 3 years and recently she told me she was not happy and called it all off. I know she loves me and i very much love her but she has moved out of our home to move back to her parents.... (100 words)

How do i kiss my gf properly? Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - hello people im in a fab relationship wid a gal for bout two weeks now n this girl is the best ever she is amazing but im soo rubbish at kissing and its so embarrasing i dont know how to kiss at all i feel as if im letting her down n that she will finish wid me soon if i don... (82 words)

She leaves messages for other guys with kisses...but not me! Why is this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - hi! there is this girl that i like at school. the problem is that i am shy. i will sometimes speak to her in my classes but i can never get a conversation going. online on bebo i will leave her comments and she will reply. i find this an easier way to talk i leave kisses. bu... (103 words)

After we broke up he said he still loved me but now...the past 2 months he sends me hate messages! How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My Boyfriend broke up with me on January 23rd 2007. He always told me he loved me and even after he ended it he still said he loved me and always would and said he wanted to get back together later on. The past two months though all i've had is hate messages from him. I tried ... (143 words)

He cheated on me with my best friend! Should I take him back?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - DearCupid, My ex-boyfriend and I of 2 years split up in January. He cheated on me... with my best friend. I was completely heartbroken, it really destroyed me, he never even apologised or anything i had my suspisions before but he just said i was being 'paranoid'and told me ... (168 words)

Dad insists I should keep up my singing career and I don't want to! How do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I need advice as this is driving me insane! I am 25 and have been married for 18 months and I am an only child. My dad has always been possessive over me, mum is fine with me but sides with Dad most of the time! Dad keeps droning on and on about me carrying on with this ... (216 words)

Having sex with my bf hurts a lot...what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi guys..I've been with my boyfriend now for six months and I've told him that I love him and hes said that he loves me. Our relationship is fine in every way except for sex. I've been with other men before including a man with a 9" penis and enjoyed sex, but with my ... (176 words)

Would my friends think I'm gross if I tell them I might be bi-sexual?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 352 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello I dont know if im bisexual and it worries and scares me so much. I know im not gay, but Im scared to experiment - would my friends hate me or think im gross? what if I am bi? And within a heterosexual relationship I will regret or miss the fact I have no female sex? I a... (96 words)

I having problems with my best friend! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 467 days ago

23 March 2007 (?)

- My best friend of 3 years has changed a lot recently. We are both 14 and have just moved up to high school. She started to make new friends and we drifted apart slightly. The other day we had a disagreement and stopped talking for a whole week. In the end I rung her to see why ... (166 words)

So many relationship problems here and my bf says it's because I don't give enough! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi There, please help me! I have been in a relationship for the past 7 years with a great guy who I love. Last year he asked me to marry him and we are supposed to be planning a wedding for 2008. Over the past 6 months there have been a few things that are worrying me. Firstly, ... (288 words)

I want marriage before kids...how can I make my partner understand that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 32 years old a single mother for that past 10 years and I've finally found love again. We've been dating from a distance for the past 6 months and I am preparing to move out of state with my daughter to live with him. Our intention is to be married and I have little ... (245 words)

I want sex and my man hasn't touched me in 9 months! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I find myself being vibrant and wanting to have sex, but my man hasn't touched me in 9 months. I'm really frustrated and haven't cheated on him. He says it's my attitude, but for 9 months? How come I'm good enough to cook, but not to be intimate with? I am 28 and he is 43.... (118 words)

We quarrel and there is no sex! He won't talk about this with me...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and I are always quarrelling. I don't believe that he loves me. We never have sex. Whenever I try to discuss he always changes the topic. Any advice?... (30 words)

He has a son and he wants to marry me but I'm not ready for a ready made family. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm having a few problems with my boyfriend. There's a large age difference between us, but it's never been a problem; we're very similar and have a lot of fun together. I knew he had a son from a previous relationship but he's only started seeing him regularly (every weekend) ... (125 words)

How do I find out why she dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i don't know why my girlfriend left me. we were only togeather for about 4 months and it was a long didtance relationship, but i liked her alot, mainly because she was my first girlfriend. at first i wanted to get back with her but i don't anymore. i just want to know why she ... (720 words)

She wants to dump him and date me. How do I advise her on that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - This girl and I are really close. We've known each other for around 6 months, and we would really like to start dating. Sounds great, right? Well, the problem is she has a boyfriend at the time. Yesterday, she just started crying. She tells me it's because she would rather be ... (100 words)

I suspected he liked another female and he denied it. Now he's dumped me and I am crushed! What can I do to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend of 3 years and I broke up in January. We lived together for nearly 2 years... and although we had our issues it was going well especially up until October. Then this girl at work becomes interested (which i insisted she was regardless of him saying no) He said I ... (354 words)

I'm dating a guy but had a dream last night about another guy! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

- i have been going out with my boyfriend for a while now and i lost my virginity to him... but last night i had a dream about someone else is this bad??... (35 words)

How do I get this guy to ask me out again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Please anyone got any advice? I am really confused, there is this man I like and after my friend told him I liked him he took me out one night. We had a really good night, got on really well and had a real laugh.He never tried anything on all night and we went back to his and ... (202 words)

He loves playing his computer game. Am I being unfair asking him to cut back so we can be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, I'd just like a little advise on a situation im in at the moment. Basically me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 2 years and they've been brilliant but more recently, he has become extremely interested in a computer game which now seems to dominate our ... (243 words)

Is car sharing a way of controlling??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Although this is not a real serious question, i was just wondering what people thought about this small issue in general. My boyfriend said that once i passed my driving test, we could both use his car. Sort of, share it between us. Obviously i am not going to do this as i lik... (172 words)

Does she just want the 'wife tag'??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi Cupid, I recently moved in with my wife who was distant until now, she is a very matured woman and lives life practically and her life is very mechanical. I am still looking out for jobs and when we meet in the evening she does not even kiss me properly, I am having a feelin... (131 words)

It's not over 'yet' but I am driving him away!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm afraid that I'm driving him away. Our relationship only a couple of months old, but it's progressed very, very quickly. He was a high school flame, and after running into him many years later, our feelings still ran high. He was my best friend when we were young. I always ... (375 words)

Could I be pregnant after dry sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 310 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Today is Friday. On wednesday i had dry sex with my boyfriend. Is there a possibility that I am pregnant? I am expecting my period next week, if i DO get it... could i still be pregnant? Is it true that if his cum (which could contain sperm)is exposed.. it 'dies'? Cos his penis ... (101 words)

Should I chase him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

- Im in such a mess I don't even know where to start. I've been going out with this guy for about a year and a half. its been pretty turbulant, weve had a few rows. but last week we had a huge row and he finished it with me. I called to him the next day and he was so angry wit... (164 words)

He hates my best friend! Is he intruding on my personal life here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend and I of 1 ½ yr had a fight last night on msn (5 hrs long). It was an emotionally fight with no yelling at each other. He is to come over and stay for the weekend coming up. His friends called him and arrange to hang out. He said he will still come over after they ... (231 words)

I'm travelling and can't find anyone who speaks english! Any advice from other people who travel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

- I'm from England. I'm 5 weeks into my travels and I'm depressed. The reason is that i have been in Paris for 4 days now and have not met anyone who speaks english. And since travelling I haven't met anyone who is british (Ive met some Irish and Americans however) even though ... (77 words)

Confused about a freind. She's nice when we are alone and she's agitated with me when we are in groups. What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have fallen in love with a close uni friend. We both commute to uni but live in opposite directions quite a distance apart. I see her most days and despite not having anything really in common – we do feel quite close. I have always fancied her and recently after s... (368 words)

How do I know if he feels the same way as me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) age 22-25 - I am in love with someone, we aint been on any dates, but we are very close. how do i know if he has feelings for me? if got no mutaul friends. when he see each other, we both give each a look, and when he talks to me, he cant make eye contact with me for long. he sometim... (175 words)

Im feeling so down all the time, tried all the usual but cant get in to gear.. please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I just feel fed up all the time. It's as if a light has gone out and i can't get it back. My bloke is great, but i just cannot pull out of this black hole. People say go to the doctors but i dont want to be on some long term anti depressants and end up like a zombie. I've seen ... (115 words)

Can anyone recommend a website to help me make my wedding vows special!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I need help i have searched on all the things about getting my wedding vows written and i have so many things i can say about the man i am going to marry i just dont think they sound good is there any advice or website i can go to to help me out so it dont sound like i am ... (76 words)

Im in love with my friend and dont know what to do!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) age 22-25 - I have fallen in love with my friend, and things have been gettting really difficult for me. He doesnt know how i feel at all. I sometimes think he has feelings for me to coz of the way he is with me (we have a close friendship). We dont have any mutual friends, its just us. We ... (725 words)

His depression and his mood changes are affecting our relationship! Should I move on or wait this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - Hello. I would really like it if someone could give me the most honest and down to earth answer you could possibly give me. I have recently come out of a relationship with a boy who i believe i fell deeply in love with. Before we got together we would text each other all t... (493 words)

Do you think that he slept with her, and just lied to me ?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for six months. Then today he tells me that he went out with a female friend of his and they went drinking and then he ended up sleeping at her place because it was late at night! I was a bit shocked at this news, but he said, 'Nothing ... (102 words)

She assures me she loves me, but Im not sure how to act as she keeps feeling suffocated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hmmm. I'm a little confused here. So around January, the most amazing 6 or 7 months that I've had w/ anyone. My girlfriend broke up w/ me almost w/o a warning. No fight, no bad feelings, nothing. She freaked out on the phone and after crying hysterically for an hour, we brok... (254 words)

Its early days and I really like him, I dont want to come across as needy so how do I relax ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been seeing this great guy nearly,2wks.i think about him all the time,its driving me mad.i cant seem to chill myself out,and am scared i am coming across all needy.how can i just start to relax,and just enjoy everyday as it comes?dont want to lose him,and know its only ... (52 words)

How do I tell my bf thats hes dull and boring and that I want to date my ex ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm emotional troubled. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. I got with him right after I broke up with my ex. Our relationship is so dull and boring. We can't even hold up a 10 min conversation on the telephone. So in the end I've been thinking about my ex ... (91 words)

I just recently saw my ex after 10 months, we had sex, now he wants friends with benefits!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 258 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I just saw my ex-boyfriend after 10 months today. We haven't talked that much in between, but all of a sudden started talking again and made plans to meet today. We hit off pretty well, and we both were flirting with each other A LOT. And then he kissed me out of the blue. ... (260 words)

She has depression, no friends and issues of trust and is bringing me down!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, this has gone on long enough and i really need help or advice. I've been seeing my girlfriend for just over 2 years and im getting unhappier by the week. she is my first love (im 21 and she is 23) and there are a few points that are making me unhappy but it all stems from ... (343 words)

What does it mean when a guy says he fell for you ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - What does it mean when a guy says he fell for you? I can eloborate in a private message, if you want to get to the nitty gritty...... (29 words)

She says she loves me, just that she wants space... What does it mean?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been in a relationship for almost a year now and everything was going really great. We don't have major differences. We are on the same page on a lot of issues of life and friends. She did ask for space almost a month ago. I've been reading a lot of articles and yes!! it ... (122 words)

I cant get over him, we broke up last summer and I still cant deal with it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I can't seem to get over my Ex boyfriend. is there anything I can do? I find myself wishing he would call and the reason we broke up was he is moving to another state. We broke up last summer and i thought i would be over it by now. What should i do? I'm so confused.... (61 words)

Miss having my fiance next to me at night!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I need some help i know i maybe just worried and triping but, i am engaged to the best guy ever i will be getting married in may of 2007, when i got with him i knew he was a truck driver and i accepted the fact that he will be on the road and i will not see him as often but he ... (165 words)

I need some excitement ibn my life...and am looking at my sisters husband!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My name is Helen. I'm married with 2 kids, but I'm feeling a little unhappy lately. My husband is a migrant (from Lebanon) and lately I don't feel like we have much in common. He doesn't really challenge me enough intellectually, and sexually things could probably be better. I ... (277 words)

Do you ever think your guy is a skank??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - Have you ever got mean thoughts about a guy you like ..say you got a thought of him being a skank or wondering if he was? I feel like i don't deserve him because i keep having thoughts! I feel like i have to tell him but why?! ah please help! Thanks... (55 words)

My gf gets annoyed over the sillyest things!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 474 days ago

23 March 2007 (M) - Why is my girlfriend get so pi**ed at the stupidest stuff?? I'm always taking care of my girlfriend, whether going out to eat, movies, and even being doctor for her that she's been sick lately. My girlfriend though snaps at the stupidest stuff. For example this morning she had ... (264 words)

My health is at risk! Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

- http://www.dearcupid.org/question/ive-had-sex-with-a-woman-for-the.html) I wrote a question about my girlfriend who has an off putting fishy smelling vagina. Ok well I asked if it was normal to smell like that and I have done my reasearch and this is what I found out from var... (402 words)

Worried about my "ladies' bits"... size of my clitoris, pain I get when fingered, STDs, etc!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 474 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I read somewhere that a girls clitoris is about the size of a pea, right up to the size of a small finger. Well, mine is looking more like a pin head. I'm worried because when my boyfriend fingers me and tries to stimulate my clit, I'm not getting any pleasure from it. So... (204 words)

Should I pursue him or let her have him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) age 18-21 - There is this boy, and he lives pretty far away. I reallly realllly like him.. and i know we could never have a relationship now because im a bit young for a long-distance relationship. Herein lies my problem: he and this girl dated before, [she and him also lived pretty f... (200 words)

We broke up after 15 years together because he cheated for the 3rd time, but I still love him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my BF of 15 years last month. He cheated on me for the third time. We have broken up before but we always get back together. I'm always thinking about and dreaming about him. I don't know what to do! I still love him!... (50 words)

My new GF won't sleep in the bed with me, but on top of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 474 days ago

23 March 2007 (M)

- How Long Does A Girl Hold Out? i've been dating a 20 year old for just over a week now and everythings going good. shes the first girl to ever turn me on since my ex dumped me just before xmas. after geting with this girl for a week i asked her to stay over at mine so w... (469 words)

All of a sudden I am attracted to these other men when all I want is a family with my husband! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

23 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 28, married two years to a wonderful man that I've been with for nearly 12 years. However, for the last 10 months I've found myself easily attracted to other men. I've never had this before, no-one has ever managed to attract my attention. But there are these 2 men that I ... (166 words)

Will the girl I like get jealous if I talk to my female friends when she's around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

23 March 2007 (?) - I'm going crazy over this girl i like. I dont talk to her as i do to my other close female friends. Do you think it's ok to talk to other girls in front of her? Will she be jealous or think i dont like her? it's extremely hard to talk to her because i cant just randomly walk ... (104 words)