How do I tell if she is really wanting more and what do I do about it.

A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have been in a relationship with another woman for seven years and I do really love her. But our sex life is pretty much nil. I have had a terrible infatuation wtth someone at work for a couple of years (she is straight.) We are friendly, but do to the difference in rank, cannot really be friends. But lately she has been kind of flirting with me. I would never cheat on my gf; even if I would, doing so with this woman would end up with one or both of us being fired. How do I tell if she is really wanting more and what do I do about it. I know it wrong, but love the attention and fantasy it brings.

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A female reader, MISTANG2  +, writes (4 March 2007):

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