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Archived questions from: 19 March, 2007 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

How can I get on with my life and be happy like he is?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - we had been together for 5 yrs we lived together for 2 years before i got married before we was married i fell pregnant i got married in the july and ad the baby in oct and i found out he bin cheating i kicked him out in the january its bin a yr now but it still hurts he sees ... (115 words)

I am really depressed and thinking he is making a fool out of me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do i need help im with a partner have 2 children the problem i have is when he goes out he does not come home he does not go out often i am really depressed, is he is making a fool of me?... (48 words)

We've been together 11 months and have moved in together, is this too soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am 17 and my boyfriend of 11 months as recently moved in with me. i am starting to think it is a bit soon but i really love him and can't stand to be apart from is it too soon?... (41 words)

I don’t even know completely what a breast looks like because I can’t bare to see (no joke).

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I am a 25-year-old man from central England who has Cerebral Palsy and uses a wheelchair. I am very scared of love, sex, sexual contact, and even typing "xx" in a message to my mates. Generally, if I fear that I’m about to see a boob or the other female thing, I turn my head, ... (973 words)

During the relationship our sex life broke down and our communication broke down too.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have just broken up from a 4 year relationship with the woman i thought I would marry. Since we met we both have bought a house together far from where I come from and I had to move my job in the process. This girl was my first true love and also the girl who took my ... (260 words)

What will happen if I go to the doctor to tell him I'm depressed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

- Hey, if i go to my doctors to find out if im depressed which i suspect i am what will exactly happen!? im so scared to go... (27 words)

I saw a statement of hers and she has over $25K in debt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Been dating my girlfriend for about 6 months. When we first started dating she told me one of the reasons her first marriage didn't work was because her husband got them in credit card debt. She told me then that she tried to pay off credit cards at the end of each month. ... (92 words)

Why does she keep embarrassing me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 423 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

- Why does she keep on embarrassing me? I am seeing this girl for the last year...we get on well and have many shared interests but.... When we are getting on at our best and most relaxed she will, when we go out, decide to pick some (usually very good looking) guy and start... (274 words)

Since we broke up I've slept with 3 people, he knows about 1, should I tell him about the other 2 now we're back together?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I went out for 3 years... we split up for one year and kept getting together on and off. Now we are seeing how things go getting back together. While we were broken up I slept with 3 people, one of which he knows about... do i tell him about the others? The one ... (164 words)

My friend fancies my next door neighbour but he hasn't asked her out again even although they got along so well.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 470 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend fancies her next door neighbour, they went on a date last weekend. This happened after weeks of flirting and her not knowing where she stands, he says he is shy and seems to find it difficult to approach her. After bumping into him in a pub, I told him she liked him; ... (123 words)

I don't want to hold him back but I don't want to lose him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, this might be sort of long, I'm sorry. I am 18 years old and I’m going to be a freshman in college (in the United States ) in about 5 months. Two years ago while I was on vacation in the UK , I met a guy. We liked each other a lot, so we decided to keep in touch. It wasn’t ... (703 words)

She was sexually molested by a male relative and now I find it gross touching her.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello Ive been dating my girlfriend for 3 years and recently she came clean about being sexually molested by a male relative when she was 8-14 and now as horrible as it sounds i find myself kind of grossed out by her. everytime i touch her i think of her having sex with t... (89 words)

Do you think he's hooked up with her in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - my b/f, his friend and i were at a bar one night..all of a sudden a girl comes in and sees my b/f. She gives him a kiss on the cheek and a hug..my b/f said this is my g/f so and so but i realized i did meet her before(she is the sister of one of his other friends). And she is ... (157 words)

I want to have sex with my sister in law!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i want to have sex with my sister in law. i don't love her but i know the sex would be unbelievable. she is three years older than me and has always shown interest in me. my head tells me know but i have the urge to just openly tell her what i want to do. how should i approach ... (71 words)

He asked the teacher to read out a love verse....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi i need some help..today in class the guy sitting infront of the guy i like after i had put my head on the deskand covered it with my had had said sleeping beauty...then another time in class some were joking when my friend gave mywaterbottle to the teacher for an experiment ... (184 words)

He is totally ignoring me and I don't know why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - right iv been seeing this boy, for 2 years now! i really love him but as he lives so far away we arnt together. anyways i dont realy know whats happend i text him about a week ago and i havnt herd from him since!! and i dont want to ring him because its him thats stoped ... (98 words)

His 15 year old daughter doesn't like me so we have to keep our relationship secret!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need your help i have bin going out with a 41 yr old with a 15 yr old daughter she doesnt want me in their lives i spoke to my partner who has said that we will ave to keep it a secret and that i carnt phone him while he around her the thing is he lives quite a distance away ... (115 words)

Should I forgive her or confront her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 468 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi this is a long story but i'll try to make it as short as i can! when i was in the 8th grade i used to like soeone who we became very close (he'd call me at least once a day) then all of a sudden we stopped talking i asked why he'd never tell then in 10th grade(last year) i ... (322 words)

How can I get closer to this boy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - well me and this boy, we have been showing signs of liking each other for 3 years and still we havent been bf n gf yet. he sticks up for me, and him n mates stare at me. i really like him. but when i confront him he says he duznt like me, but he shows signs of liking me. becoz ... (171 words)

I found my boyfriend's profile on a dating website!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

- I need help again! This past weekend I found my boyfriend's profile on a dating website. Its been there for a while but he has his profile unsearchable and he claims he doesn't have a membership. But, he also had favorite girls picked from this website that listed at 18 days ... (160 words)

What exactly is "a ladie's man?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - What is a ladies man? I heard someone say to someone I know who is very respectful to females 'Oh I can see you bein a ladies man when your older'. So guys and especially ladies, what would you describe a ladies man to be like?... (48 words)

Is him looking at porn just a phase he's going through?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I recently found out my fiance is looking at a lot of porn. He is also chatting with them online, and I walked in on him once when he was getting off on it. He ran out of the room, embarresed, and curious I looked on the computer (suspecting it to simply be pics and I was ... (221 words)

I'm 15, my boyfriend's 20 but I've told him I'm 16.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i have been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now and i really like him. hes 20 and im 15!! the problem is that he thinks im 16 and i really want to tell him my age but im afraid he will finish me. What do you think i should do?? please help x... (55 words)

I am so untrustworthy under the influence of alcohol.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 441 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) age 22-25 - i am so untrustworthy under the influence of alcohol, i flirt and used to yrs ago just kiss men behind my bf back. i now have decided to give up alcohol because i also have blackouts and sometimes get fairly violent. my bf found out that i was flirting around a fella i know ... (167 words)

I am a virgin but don't think I have a hymen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

- Heyy im a virgin but i dont think i have a hymen but when i masterbate i can reach my cervix. But it doesnt seem long before i can reach it. Either i dont have a long vagina area or theres something wrong with my cervix. help im not sure if its right or not thanks... (56 words)

Someone told me my boyfriend is gay, they have a recording of him admitting to it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - ok, well,this is a long story. i met this boy wen i was about 14. from then i liked him, even tho he was goig out with my best m8s, m8. afta 2 years of being with her they split up becoz there was a rumor he was gay. well i met up with him and he told me none of it was true a... (187 words)

While we had sex, he called me his ex gf's name! I am so upset and hurt-what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months. We've pretty much lived together for 8 of the 10. The other night during sex he called me his ex's name! He was with her for 15 yrs. But they have been split for almost 5 years. I'm so hurt and mad I can't see straight ... (70 words)

I don't want him going to the big Motorcycle rally in Sturgis! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - my b/f wants to go on a bike week with friends which i am uneasy about b/c i have seen pictures of what goes on..the sturgis bike week is what i am worried about and hope he does not go to that one..he also wants to go camping completely alone without any friends or anyone for ... (98 words)

Why do I feel so upset that my bf grabbed this other woman's ass, when he was drinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend of 8 years when out for a St. Patricks celebration with a couple of friends and one of our friends brought a co-worker with her, so as the night went on the drinks started hitting all of us and so I started dancing with the co-worker and we where just having ... (177 words)

I'm clueless about how to flirt! Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Im 16 and im completely clueless about how to flirt without making it obvious! Can anyone give me tips please?... (20 words)

Dating 3 weeks and he ignores me in school! Why is he like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - Hey, Me and my boyfriend go to the same college and we have been going out 3 weeks. We are both 17 and its great when we are alone outside of school but he seems to ignore me when we are at school. i dont want it like this what can we do? Plus where can we go to be alo... (95 words)

I'm wondering why he's so cranky with me! Is it the drinking or another love interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been separated for nearly three months with one month left to go. We still talk as often as we can, but the horrible pain we felt for most of our separation is gone. I still love him very much and I know he loves me, but it's different somehow. I'm ... (247 words)

I’m so scared, that NOT dating him now, he’s going to move on and forget me! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 471 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

What are the stages we go through when we break up with someone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

- hey i was wonderin if anyone new the stages you go through of gettin over someone that you really loved at the moment im at the hating him stage for not loving me lol wots next and wot happened before anyone no what the stages are before FINALLY gettin over someone ? thanks a ... (56 words)

What tips have you got to make my heartbreak go away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

- hey at the min i am trying to get over i truley loved because there has been a lot that has happened and in the end he decided that he only liked me as a friend and i no i shudnt have done but i sort of had a go at him so he now hates me and he has now allegedly "fallen in ... (100 words)

I will never love anyone like I love him! Is this a lost cause..and what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - This is without a question the hairiest and most complicated relationship issue I have ever even heard of, much less been involved in. I have known my ex for 9 years. He was my high school sweetheart, and we dated for 2 years in high school, and remained the best of friends ... (1155 words)

She lied to me about her faith! Should I end this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 373 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I recently found out that my girlfriend of 6 months has been lying to me about her faith. She is a practicing Wiccan, and she's always led me to believe that she's a Christian. What makes me most upset isn't her different faith, but the very fact that she's been lying to me ... (186 words)

He ignores me! Should I just get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I met this lad on holiday last year and i fell in love with him we dated for a month but he lived too far away, when we split he didnt tell me he just ignored my texts and phone calls. I still love him and cant get over him and i want to know if i should go and get him back or ... (68 words)

He says he wants back with me but is dating another girl! What can we do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my first boyfriend and i split up about 2 years ago and i got talking to him the other day and he told me that he loves me and he always has but the problem is he has been dating this girl i no since we split. He wants me back and i want him back but it will cause loads of ... (67 words)

I'm 15, he's 27... and I met him on the 'net!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I recently met a guy online who was 26 at the time, I told him I was 18 (even thgouh i'm 15, seemed like a good idea at the time). As soon as we met i told him the truth about my age, he said he was cool with it and glad I told him the truth. The trouble is I'm 15 ... (232 words)

Why did he get into the relationship if he was doubting this from the beginning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 468 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) age 18-21 - ... So many things happened...I was with some guy but things ended abruptly when he was confused about his feelings. I stayed there for him like a champ and after a while my feelings were confused as well...things are alright. My friend talked to him and my friend told him "you... (297 words)

Been with him 4 years and we even looked at rings! Now he is saying he not sure about our relationship. help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I moved in with my boyfriend past July. recently we celebrated our 4 year anniversary and even went to look at engagement rings. Now, a month later, he told me that he is not sure whether he wants to be in a relationship, period, but that he still loves me. I don't know what to ... (111 words)

We have agreed to take things slow... But what if I take things too slow and he thinks im not interested!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my b/f of over a year. Come to find out that a guy that Ive know for almost 2 years was about to ask me out before I started dating the ex. He has said he is attracted to me and wants to take things slow.. Im all for it but afraid if I take it to slow he will ... (74 words)

My dad says hes too old for and that I need to break up with him! Im 16 hes 19!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 466 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my 19 year old boyfriend grew up together. we just started talking in November Im 16 i will be 17 next month. my dad wants us to brake up because he thinks that he is too old. Do you think i am too young for him my mom and his family thinks that its ok for us to go out ... (63 words)

He says that once he has sorted things with his ex we can get back together, im stuck as things have changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I've recently stopped being a guys girlfriend because of his ex, However, he claims that when he sorts it out he can see us getting back together, Now whenever we talk the conversation is much more awkward and it was nevr like that before, I like him alot but I... (76 words)

He still refers to me as a virgin even though Ive told him im not ??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

- Ive told my bf (hes a virgin) that im not a virgin and that I have had a few sexual partners. I've told him this more than once. But he keeps refering to me as a virgin. we are both 18 and were waiting to have sex. ... (54 words)

The sex has lessened to once a week, does my bf just not fancy me anymore ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and we used to have sex like 3 or 4 times a week. but now i'm lucky if we have sex once a week. is he just no longer attracted to me?... (43 words)

His response to his friends when asked if I were is girlfriend was "We are not together like that" Im devastated!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been dating a guy for six months and I thought things were progressing nicely. We spend a lot of time together, have regular sleep overs, and talk on the phone every other day. We never said we were boyfriend-girlfriend but we agreed to be exclusive. I thought that by ... (190 words)

He cheated on me, we broke up, were talking, Im seeing someone else, but I think my ex would be good for me, not sure what to do!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I had dated for 2 and a half years. We broke up a little over 4 months ago. We had been kind of off and on b/c he was freaking out about our relationship. It was his first and was really serious. He had this slut of a friend who threw herself at him and they ... (281 words)

Can I say anything else to her to make her see that we are meant to be together and its worth the effort ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid I've been apart from my ex girlfriend now for 1 and a half years and we've remained good friends and love each other. I guess we've been in a state of limbo. We were together for over 2 years and we had a good loving relationship. Partly the reason we split was bec... (312 words)

Thanks to all those that helped me on my quest for various answers.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I would just like to take this time to thank everybody who has answered my questions. I have asked three or four, to you they may seem different subjects, but there not. They all tie into my life today. I have asked about my ex boyfriend and why I dream and have feelings fo... (506 words)

My girlfriend wont let me near her, what should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - My girlfriend has now suddenly changed. She Doesnt allow me to touch her, or even hug her What should i do ?... (26 words)

How do I forgive the fact that he lied for so long to me and will still see this girl ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm a sophmore in college, my boyfriend is a freshman, we go to different schools. We've been dating for 2.5 years, on sunday, he called me and said he's been cheating on me since january. he was sober, he had made-out/cuddled 5+ times, and he was questioning whether our love ... (145 words)

Is he really cheating and messing me around or I am just nuts ??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 470 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya again.I am writing again as i posted a question on here a few weeks back and got some postitve replies. Me and my bf split up because he was ringing and texting a woman from work for a couple of months before i found out, they were flirty txts and he was ringing her in the ... (338 words)

My bf of 8 years doesnt seem interested in "us" anymore,any ideas what I can do ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about 8 years. I love him dearly but think that he is no longer interested in "us". We do not have any sexual relationship as his usual excuse is, he's tired. He does work really long hours, so understand that he is proba... (154 words)

Shes 19, had at least 15 sexual partners, I think shes easy and this bothers me, is it worth sticking at a relationship ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi im 21 and have been going out with my GF(19) for about 4 months now. I really like her personality and i think she is a great person. However she has had sex/"done stuff" with 15 other guys and its really killing me. Most of these were one night stands with random guys, she ... (184 words)

My best friend keeps flirting with My bf!! How can I make her stop!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

- well ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly two months. My so called best friend keeps flirting with him and its getting on my nerves to say the least!! i comfronted her about it and she said i like flirting with him and im not gonna stop for you!! i was so angry,,, ... (136 words)

Out of the blue my husband of 12 years has told me hes not sure he wants to be with me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - M husband of 12 years has just said out of the blue that her needs some space and he does not know if he wants to be with me anymore, he says he still loves me but not in the same way. He has only had these feelings for a few weeks and yesterday he just turned 40, he hates his ... (67 words)

Would you agree that January was the month for a lot of break ups ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 472 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Would you agree that January is the month for break-ups? Speaking to friends and having myself gone through a break up in January, I felt that maybe it is not a coincidence but more like something thousands or millions of people go through each January. Why do you think th... (86 words)

I treat women as sex objects and they seem to like it! Is this disrespectful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I am persistent in treating women as sex objects with no feelings as such. Some would object but i have seen women like this attitude i have towards them. I see them glow when i look at them with passion and desire. Is this disrespectful? ... (47 words)

My bf's friends are threatening to ruin my life now that we are back together I dont feel safe, what should we do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

- Hiya, Well, here's my query me and my bf went through a rocky patch and i did things i'm not proud of (we have sorted it out) anyway his so called best mate is threatning to ruin my life and my relationship with my bf and now he is saying to my bf that plenty of people want t... (123 words)

My best friend has started to make me feel bad all the time, how do I get rid of her!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a friend, who up until now was my best friend. She has become really childish, she makes horrible, nasty comments. And always puts me down. She always wants to be around me, I think she gets some kind of pleasure by making me feel bad. I don't want to be around her an... (89 words)

Why does she always agree to meet up and then never show!?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (M) - dear readers im currently having a problem with a girl. i met her online and we talk when ever shes on and also talk to her on the phone aswell. i have asked her to meet up with her and she goes yes but then never shows up and comes up with excuses, this happened about t... (139 words)

I love him, he doesnt know, our dates always get cancelled now hes moving away! What do I do I dont want to lose him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) age 22-25 - Sorry to be long, but some background info may help. it was about 6 months ago, I met this guy at work. I was only working there for two weeks and we got on straight away. On the penultimate day, he asked me to accompany him on some business, I did. We talked a lot on our jou... (911 words)

I've just found a valentines card to my husband from another women!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I found a valentines card sent to my husband from another woman. hes never mentioned it as a joke.... what should i do?... (25 words)

I dealt with our break up by pretending he didnt exist, trouble is I am bound to see him soon, how can I deal with it!!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, would really appreciate some advice. my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years dumped me just before Christmas. We had a long distance relationship but it was very serious. He ended it as we were having some problems and he just couldnt see it working long term any more. ... (339 words)

If he loves me, shouldnt he be making more of an effort when it comes to being together and making plans ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend wont ever make plans which is starting roughs between us. He also tells me he loves me, wants to spend the rest of his life with me yet doesn't show his love very well in his actions. Eg he was going away skiing and didn't have time to see me the day before cos ... (170 words)

I have recently become confused about my sexuality even though I'm Married. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been married for 8 years and have recently become confused about my sexuality I have children and don't want to hurt them or my husband but my life is spiraling out of control and I can't cope much longer please help me. ... (44 words)

She wants to end it as she feels I cant deal with her son always being in her life!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm 18.. have been with my 16 year old girl georgina for 4 months now...i've never felt this way about anyone..i love her so much. she has a son who just turned 1...who sees his dad every weekend. a month or so ago i told her he feels like my own..and he does...but recently... (148 words)

AM I being unfair by not meeting up with her? Can't we just talk about this over the phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 473 days ago

19 March 2007 (M)

- Hi, I broke up with my (ex) gf the other day. I went over to her and said it to her face to face. i also said that if she wanted to give me a phone call later on, or later in the week, that it was fine, i dont mind, in case she has more questions that she didnt think of j... (163 words)

I'm getting married in less than 4 weeks! I don't want to marry him yet I can't call it off! What should I do?

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19 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm getting married in less than 4 weeks time and i feel sick about the whole thing. His parents are chuffed to bits. My son hates him and their family. I cannot get anyone to have my son for one night while we get to the venue, which is 50 miles away. I just don't feel the ... (162 words)

Its been a roller coaster relationship, we have remained friends, but she doesnt stop talking about her ex and its driving me nuts!!!

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19 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone...we talk alot to each other but it's been a roller coaster relationship. Although we agreed to be friends she brings up her ex in almost every conversation we have about the things they did together. I 'm not sure how much I can handle before I mentally collaps... (59 words)

My dad really doesnt like my bf! Its so hard, what can I do ??

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19 March 2007 (F) - My dad and my BF do not get along well at all. They don't fight out loud, but My father makes it obvious he doesn't like my BF staying around. I have been lying to my dad about me and my BF, saying we're just friends so he will let him around, but lately my dad's distaste f... (183 words)

I abosolutely hate my new boss!!! I'm having really bad moodswings and it's affecting my relationship with my boyfriend.Help!

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19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - guys help me out.iam workin in an alien land wth no family n friends its really hard, i thought i will be ok in some months but things got worse, my boss i hate him to death, and egoistic, irritatin idiot.thers nth i can do to right now coz iam new and he is really powerful, i ... (77 words)

I want him back and I love him so much, but I broke it off as he always ends up hurting me!!

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19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I finished with my boyfriend but now I want him back. The reason we finished is because he was always hurting me in some way and everytime I would forgive him and take him back. It felt like he thought he could get away with anything and I would always take him back. this time ... (112 words)

I can see my Husband has changed, but I have met another guy, do I try counselling with him, or make a go with the new guy!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 469 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I was married for two years and have been separated for five months. My husband was verbally abusive and has anger issues, when I left the relationship I was very unhappy, to the point of being depressed. He was also very unhappy. During our separation he has come to realize ... (192 words)

Shes says she only sees me as a friend, but when I mentioned leaving the country she wanted to come with me!? Am I stupid to think something can happen ??

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19 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I really need some advice here as I have no idea what to do, if anything at all! Please bare with me... this is a little bit long. A little background. I moved to a new town about 6 months ago for work. As it normally happens, the people you become friendly with th... (387 words)

Why am I finding it so hard to give someone a second chance!?

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19 March 2007 (M) age 26-29 - Why do i find it so hard to give a second chance to a person when i realize that they have been cheating on me or were not honest about certain things and hurt me for some reason. This despite of the fact the person may have realized their mistake and are sorry or are ready to... (70 words)

His drinking is out of control and my child deserves better! What does everyone else think!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 401 days ago

19 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a long one. I've been in a realitionship with my bf for going on 4 years, now. I'm 25 he's 30. Age is no problem. We have a 3 year old child, who is prefect. The timing wasn't there. Our worlds are sooo different. We've had so many ups and downs. More downs, it seems. ... (338 words)

He says shes just a friend and people hang out there to chill ? But shes says different!! Who should I believe ?

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19 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - so my guy and i have been togather for going on four years and we have a 2 month old son.i cooked, cleaned, and took care of his children in which by the way arent mine for a year or so. i had grown attached to them too.the kids recently went to live back with their mother or ... (349 words)

I'm not one to gossip but...do you think thats the reason he doesn't want to date me?

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19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I don't think of myself as someone who spreads gossip or talks about people, but lately I've been wondering if that's why this guy who happens to be my room mate won't date me. I admit that I've said some things to some people close to us, but it has always been about me. This ... (596 words)

We are in a long distance relationship and things are good, but what does bother me is he still has a profile on a dating site, should I be worried ??

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19 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I moved to another town and met this guy on line, we shared mails for 2 weeks, then we talked on the phone for a week, then we decided te meet up. We fell for eachother right away (we both removed our profile from the site), we had a great relationship for 4 months, I met his ... (454 words)

Things were great, but now her ex husband keeps coming round to see the kids, and its like hes there all the time!!!!

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19 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I got into a relationship with an older married woman, her relationship with her husband deteriorated and they are now divorced. We lived together at my flat for 6 months to help our relationship grow, then we decided to move to her marital home.. Her ex had moved out and ... (427 words)

Hes alot older with a 15 year old daughter, she doesnt want me in their lives, but I think hes just torn, I'm not sure what to do!?

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19 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a guy with a 15 year old daughter and he's alot older than me. The daugther told me she doesnt want me in their lives but i dont no how he feels. I think he is torn and its also a long distance relationship. I dont know what to do!!! I have feelings for him we hav... (74 words)

Im so self concious of how I look and how I will perform, its stopping me making a go of it with him!!

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19 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - im 20 and ive fallen for a friend who has just told me he feels the same way but i am very self conscious about my weight and this combined with the very embarrassing fact that ive only slept with one guy and that was 2 1/2 years ago are holding me back from making a go of ... (175 words)

My step dad is always on my case and my Mother won't do anything! What can I do?

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19 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - My step dad is always on my case and is rude to me. That guy just hates me. My mother wont do anything about it. When i try to stand up for myself he gets all mad, its even worse. Should i keep letting him treat me like dirt? what should i do?... (53 words)