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My fling has developed feelings for me, and so have I, but I don't think I am worth his tears.

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Question - (4 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was at my friend's house because we decided to spend a friday together. She decided to invite her boyfriend and my fling. Honestly I don't even know where we are at. Like a while back we decided to take a break bc he needed to get his head straight. And I really like this boy. Anyways, turns out that my friend's bf left because he got mad at something she did. I left outside to talk to him. Meanwhile, my friend was talking to my boy. Well she talked to me and told me what they had talked about.

He was telling her that he had deep feelings for me but he was scared that a relationship might not let him concentrate in school and he was afraid that he might hurt me. Then she told me something that broke my heart into pieces - he began to cry.

It broke my heart because I know how it feels to cry for someone, especially if you're confused. It broke my heart because I don't want him to cry for me, especially for me bc I'm not worth any tears that he might shed. I was falling for him and I was scared of everything to come but I put it in the line because I know something good is coming out of it.

What do I tell him? Do I tell him not to worry?

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A female reader, AngelofLove United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2007):

AngelofLove agony auntIf you were falling for him and you now know that he has feelings for you, what are you looking for?

Talk to him and hear it from the "horse's mouth".

Go for it and good luck

Angel of Love

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007):

Then make yourself worth his tears. Need I say more? [wink]

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