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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Why does my boyfried suddenly want me to make the first moves before we can have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Why does my boyfried suddenly want me to make the first moves before we can have sex?... (17 words)

Why do I cum and orgasm straight away when I'm on top?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Why do i cum and orgasm straight away when i am on top of my boyfriend but it takes ages when i'm not on top? any ideas why?... (28 words)

We've been fighting a lot lately, how can I stand up to her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - hey, im a guy, 15 yrs old. me and my girlfriend have been fighting a lot lately. i mean, im trying to be helpful and trying to help, but she is stubborn and doesnt think things can be fixed. i do though. and i dont want to lose her. she is the love of my life and i cant live ... (94 words)

Do you think that men and women can be just "good friends"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My male friend and I hit it off immediately when we met through friends a couple of years ago. Since then we have become really good friends. We're constantly laughing, we're one of the first people we tell everything to, we confide in each other and I never get bored of ... (126 words)

I'm a bit hot headed and always take it out on her. How can I control this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going strong for about a year and a half now. We've had a few arguements, but what couple hasn't? Last night though, we had a really big fight, during which we both said things we didn't mean, and hurt each other pretty badly. We're back together ... (107 words)

I just wanted to post to everyone to say THANKS!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, I haven't got a question, I just wanted to thank everybody on the site who has helped me. I'm only 18 years old and so obviously I don't have a lot of life experiences, so it's always been such a great help for me to come on this site and be able to talk to other pe... (131 words)

I'm in love with a guy but he has MOOBS!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm in love with this bloke but he has MOOBS! (That's man boobs for those of you who don't know) I don't want to sound shallow but we all know that looks play an important role in attraction. I don't care about race, colour, nationality, religion....but I care about loo... (135 words)

I found out he had been over at his ex's house, asked him and he admitted it. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend whos 20 for almost a year...On march 5th I found out he went to his ex girlfriends house. I acted calm and asked him to come over to my house right after so we could talk. He said he just wanted another friend and she was just ... (280 words)

I have to make changes for HIM but he won't make changes for ME!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Whenever I ask him to alter a bothersome behavior, he always has an excuse why he doesn't have to, but he can have his own laundry list of complaints and doesn't seem to see that as unfair. All my complaints are little things but I worry when they build up its unbearable. The ... (92 words)

He has so many issues I don't know if he's sincere or not... what do you reckon?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man for almost 3 years, he tells me he loves me but I just don't feel it. I also found dating sites he has been on. I really love him and keep thinking that he loves me too. I just feel like he is hanging on to me until he finds someone. Can a man love ... (126 words)

He is 7 years older than me and I like him a lot but my parents don't like him, should I go out with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hy my question is what should i do if my boydriend is 7 years older than me and my parents dont like him should i go out with him even though i love him a lot.... (36 words)

Should I ask her out? Do you think she would say yes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I like this girl she is in the eighth grade I am in the Ninth and I really like her in fact I think she is the hottest girl on earth and I am afriad I am to ugly for her.I have some acne and a little chubby ... (48 words)

Help! My period is really late, could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 492 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! I had a normal period Febuary 1st thru the 6th of 2007. I should have gotten my period on the 3rd or 4th of March, 2007- No later! I am really late! Today is the 8th. I have taken two digital tests- both came out negitive and I have also taken a early response ... (100 words)

How do you know when someone is right for you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - How do you know when you are right for each other? This is just a general question to see what other people's experiences and advice has to offer. I don't believe in "soul mates" at all and I do think that there can be more than one person who is right for you. But how do ... (68 words)

Any tips for me to help him cum?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and have been together for a few months and he told me when we first started dating that a woman has never actually made him ejaculate...he says its different when he's on his own...but nothing a woman can do can send him over the edge. We've tried everything and ... (106 words)

How often do women think of their past sexual partners?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

- I have general questions for women. How often do women think of their past sexual partners? I'm curious because my girlfriend seems to bring up(in converstaion) people she has slept with at random moments. ... (38 words)

Should i text him again although its been a month saying that i want to be mates with him or should i try and forget him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi all im really stuck me and this guy a few months ago meet up and talked and seemed to get on well , we met up a few times and drank and chat and become mates , but after a few meets we ended up having sex and we still decided to stay mates so anyway i wanted more and ... (155 words)

He can never say no to this guy, how can I get him to spend some time with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age - i have been dating a man for 2yrs. and 3 months. a relative of his is always asking him to go fishing with him. i don't mind the fishing but i do mind when its anywhere from 3 nights to 7 nights that he is gonel his relative has been married for 40 years and therefore does ... (211 words)

I pay for everything, he has no qualms spending my money, my mum disapproves, will he change ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy while I was in the West Indies on holiday through my aunt. he bascially is a taxi driver but he close to my Aunt.feelings started to happen when we spent a day together.On my return i rang as I could not get him out of my head.He was equally happy to have met ... (288 words)

Going to see him in 2 weeks... I need some fantastic suggestions on how to make this the most memorable experience for both of us. Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I've been in this long distance relationship for about a year now. I'm going to visit him in about two weeks and I am so excited. I bought a bunch of lingerie to make sure that we have a time that both of us will remember for the rest of our lives. Do you h... (76 words)

My bf wants to try bondage. What do you all think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend wants to try bondage and im a bit nervous. What do you lot think about it? how do i really start it off? do i have to get into charcter? sorry i aint got a clue.... (38 words)

The spark is gone! I've tried every romantic thing I can think of. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - well me and my girlfried have been dating for a few months everything was great we would fool around all the time and in all places. we would be hangin all over each other all the time but then it just stopped. we also work together and now its just so weird. when one of us ... (100 words)

I have so many questions here. Thank you for reading and answering them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi all. sorry is i've been asking SOO many questions latly, but this site is the only place i can talk 2. look at my other questions before reading this. and about the jealousy of my brother being cooler that me, well now it's driving me insne. now, he says that girls come ... (514 words)

My gf and I are sort of together, but I get on well with another. Should I pursue her instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello, I am wondering if you could help me. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and things have started to get a bit 'bumpy'. We are sort of together at the moment but sort of not. There is this other girl who i really like and get on well with but im ot sure w... (92 words)

We broke up and his friend raped me. We got back together and when I told him he said he can't deal with it anymore. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - me and my boyfriend broke up 3 months ago and i became good friends with his friend.. but his friend raped me one night when we were out at a club. me and my boyfriend got back together and have been together for a month but i just told him what happened and he just said he ... (85 words)

I'm 14 and in love with this guy but I need to get him out of my head once and for all! How can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

- I want to finally get over this guy, he's 15, and has just lost his virginity to a girl he's been seeing for a while now. I've been in love with him for two years now, and I'm sick of having my heart broken by him. He only pays me attention when he wants it. I'm 14, and all the ... (163 words)

His ex wife wanted nothing to do with him until she heard he was seeing someone else. Now we can't get rid of her and I don't know how to handle it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi. My boyfriend has been divorced for 1 year and 5 months. He married in 2002 and got seperated in 2003/ beginning of 2004. He was with his ex wife for 10 years all together. They do not have any kids. I am 20 and he is 35 and we've been together for 8 months. At first I ... (400 words)

How do I get him to "cut the cord?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - so i just moved back to my hometown after 4.5 years, and i ran into an old boyfriend that i dated right after highschool. when we were together, it was great...we were thick as theives...i am close with his family, and they have always wanted us to be together...in fact, im ... (239 words)

How can I get him back and let him see I'm much better than her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I don't know where to begin. I was seeing a man for several years. Our relationship was great. He was separated from his wife, we both have two children. The kids are the best of friends. "Gary" and I were friends for 2 years prior to starting a romantic relatio... (277 words)

I prefer texting to phoning as I don't like the awkward silences, how can I make him understand this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i'm15. been dating this guy for a few months now. i love him soooo much but he calls me like everyday and like sumtimes more than once a day! he also expects me 2 phone him all the time, but i am the kinda gal who likes texting instead. its not that i have anything against him ... (94 words)

How can I handle his depression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Help, How to handle a depressed boyfriend? I have been with this man for two years. When things are great, they are great! He has had rough early 20's and has had to deal with a lot of family loss in his life. It seems whenever times come up that remind him of the members o... (438 words)

He wants me to send him naughty pics but I don't want to, I don't feel comfortable with it, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - guys..my bf wants me 2 send him naughty pics. i trust him sooo much but i'm not ready 2 do that jus yet. its not that i feel uncomfortable cos of him.. i just think its kinda gross.but he has sent me stuff and is expecting me to send him. this is not worth breakin up. i lo... (165 words)

Is there any advice you can give me on how to make her feel better and be there for her without having to cuddle her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, my wife recently lost a very close family member. Well all i've tryed to do over this past week is be there for her but now that the funeral is over she is worse than she was before. Everytime i ask her how shes feeling she keeps saying shes fine and that when shes upset ... (295 words)

Ever since my best friend moved, I've totally changed. I'm very unsettled by this. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi i'm a 15 year old girl. i am going to ask something but i dont think there is any correct answer to this. i would just like to know what everyone thinks and if anyone has ever been in this type of situatuion. My best friend of like 8 years moved to the UK end of las... (586 words)

Will my ex realise that the new guy in her life is a player and will hurt her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I have just come out of a relationship with a lovely girl. She said it was because of her job, but then she told me she was seeing someone else, who is known as a player (testified to me by many people). They had been friends for 6 months before we broke up and they got ... (94 words)

Is a ring on her finger, a new house and guilt, enough reason to ignore her true feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Thanks for your reply; but i have another query - I have asked this girl if she loves the man she is engaged to and she says "I care about him - i have feelings for him that won't just go away and while i have them i will not leave him." I ask her if she loves me - she says ... (149 words)

I am in a long distance relationship but my girlfriend seems to have changed. How can I get her to open up and talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dealing with a long distance relationship that has a become a lot less affectionate and expressive is very hard for me. After a few months of amazing happiness my girlfriend has changed. She is very busy with work, grade school on weekends and tons of other things in her life. ... (419 words)

What can I do to get closer to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - well most of you know about the boy thats on sniff and sleeps around that in falling in love with, its git worswe we used to ring eachother all the time and talk sometimes it go and meet him but we didnt do anything , so he got bored moved on to anyother girl (older) now he ... (220 words)

Are there any women out there in their 50's who are with partners who are 15 years or more younger? Would love some insights?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 475 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Older Woman in Age Gap Relationship. Are there any women out there in their 50's who are with partners who are 15 years or more younger than them? I'd love to chat about the highs and lows!!! Did any of you leave your husband to be with your younger man?????... (57 words)

Can you tell me what the law says about a 15 year old female dating a 17 year old male?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age - I need to settle an 'argument'!! Can you tell me what the law says about a 15 year old female dating a 17 year old male? Not asking about sexual side, just, does the law say that just dating is illegal for the ages mentioned?... (47 words)

When a girl says she loves me but ignores her feelings for me because she is engaged - what does she mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - One for the ladies - your opinions please! When a girl says she loves me but ignores her feelings for me because she is engaged - what does she mean? I know she loves me and she knows i love her but she will not admit it to herself and has said to me that she does love me but ... (72 words)

I don't want to be with her any more but don't know how to tell her. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - iv been with my gilrfriend for three and a half years now but iv fallen out of love with her she is always wanting to know where i am what im doing and who im with i told her about it before and she changed for a week then went back to her old way i dont want to be with her no ... (78 words)

I feel isolated and lonely with no friends but it's okay for him to go and on the razzle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Good Day, I am 20yrs old and I have been with my boyfriend for just about a year now, our relationship was so healthy for about the first 10mths, now recently the sex life and affection, etc. has just seemed to fade. In the beginning when he started dating me he always used t... (437 words)

Things just seem to be going downhill for us now and I don't know how to fix it... any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - To whom it may concern, I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year. I lived in another state for a while but eventually ended up moving in with him because the distance was becoming too much for us. Originally, when I lived elsewhere, we were all over one another-like... (867 words)

Why do I always want things to happen quickly for me in life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M) age 26-29 - Why do i want things to happen quickly for me in life? When i am relating with someone i want them to meet my demands quickly as well. What's wronG? ... (32 words)

Sex with my boyfriend hurts. What can we do to stop this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi. im really worried. i know this may sound wierd but everytime i have sex with my boyfriend it hurts realli bad tryin 2 get it in. i keep feeling a right idiot thinkin my boyfriend will think theres something wrong with me even though hes always asking me if i want him to ... (81 words)

How can I feel better about myself? I feel as if I'm not good enough for my fiancee.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

- i feel like im not good enough for my fiancee. he treats me like a princess and worships the ground i walk on. everything he does he puts me first im the main thing in his life. my past relationships were very abusive so i became used to abuse so a guy being nice to me feels ... (79 words)

How can I control my jealousy? His daughter, I feel is bang out of order here.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Im a 27 yr old women whos been going out with a 39 yr old man for almost two years now. We are deeply in love and pretty much happy. I am a very jealous person, and I need some advice on the reasonability of my jealousy. He has a 16 yr old daughter from his previous marriage, ... (241 words)

Should I take my posters down or leave them up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

- i have around over 50 posters of different guys from bands many of the posters have the words the sexiest men in rock on them. i have loads of billy martin poster which my bf knows i used to have a thing for. my bf is coming round soon should i take down the posters or leave... (63 words)

I met her on a dating site but it seems she keeps in contact with others from it too. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Dera AA, I met a lovely girl on a dating site a few months ago. I have since learned that she seems to keep in touch with a number of previous boyfriends and had a date with another person from our dating site. we discussed this and I thought we had resolved this. however she ... (86 words)

What might I be able to do to ease her mind and give her strength and what would you do in my shoes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 475 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in a long distance relationship for just over a year now. It's been great and out of the year we've, all in all, managed to spend about 6 months together. We love each other very much and both get along great with each others families and friends. The thing is... (539 words)

Was this all innocent last year or do you think he was messing around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F) - going out with my b/f for almost 2 years. In the summer (which was like 6 months of going out) when looking through his phone(which he was there with me so it was ok) i saw a dialed call to a girl to which i said who is this. He tells me an old friend. I ask more questions and ... (562 words)

Why does she come in and out of my life??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - hey ladies, Any help will do. Well here it goes I was with my ex girlfriend for about a year and a half when all of a sudden she broke up with me for no reason at all. She changed her number on me and just vanished from my life. After about 2 months of no contect with her she ... (242 words)

It's killing me not knowing how he feels.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend of 4 years recently told me he needed space. He just turned 25 and I am 21 close to 22. He has a roommate that wont allow me in the house when he is home which makes it difficult to spend time with him sometimes. Its been about a month and a half now and I am mor... (270 words)

How do I tell him I am mad at him??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I don't know what to call him...okay well him and I were seeing each other for a while and then we decided to to take a break bc he needed to get his head straight.... He said he needed time and I was more than willing to give him that. Little did I know that "time" would be... (320 words)

I don't think he fancies me although I do think he loves me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 506 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my fella 3 years and he used to masterbate every night before we lived together...i make all the moves towards sex, dress up, touch him up, let him know how sexy i find him.... but only get a response when he has drink and drugs.... i know ive gained a little ... (85 words)

His ex says she is pregnant but she is a compulsive lier!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend's ex girlfriend keeps calling us, stating shes pregnant with his baby, and wants him to go sign some papers to grant her full custody of the baby. This girl is supposly only 2 months pregnant, if she is pregnant at all.. She is a compulsive lier and is bypolar.... (125 words)

Just hit second base with my bf...please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - I think me and my bf just hit second base. He fingered me. I'm 15 and he's 17 what do i do? help please... (24 words)

I am always the rebound guy but I just want to be with her all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - So there's this girl...She's amazing, ive known her for 2 years. I'm a freshmen we met in the begininng of 8th grade and we went out 3 times in 8th grade but we broke up everytime 1) too clingy,2)didnt feel rite 3) I blamed her about why we werent workin out, for example, i w... (275 words)

She wants a break to 'feel better about herself' but tells me she still loves me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 493 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My Fiancé and I have been together for three years. We own a house together and have two dogs. We are both very stubborn people and can often disagree with each other and have minor arguments a lot where we are equally to blame. She also has horses and spends the majority of ... (264 words)

He treats her like a piece of meat...how do I stand up to him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - To anyone, I am 15 to and 5,9 and 180 pounds brown hair hazel eyes and glasses.I go to church about 4 times a week.I belive in proper manners and to be polite to every one around you.In this day and age not many girls like a guy like me I dont drink smoke or do drugs.I am not o... (156 words)

I think I'm falling for my ex's best mate!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 506 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some advice i think im falling for my exs best mate and i dont know what to do even before i got with ma ex also ma lil boys dad i knew there was some kinda feelings i had for jay, rob only became mates with jay bout 6months after we got together, me n rob split when our ... (166 words)

How can I manipulate his penis so he can "aim" better?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 506 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i have this problem when im having sex with my boyfriend. We lost our virginity together, but he has hmm some people tend to call it "bad aim" basically he doesnt always get in me, but don't get me wrong when he does the sex is brilliant. i dont want to embarass him by ... (78 words)

Was he just trying to make me feel better say that he liked me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

8 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - dear agony aunts, a few months ago i got with a guy i thought i really liked. a few of his bad habits annoyed me a lot. i felt smothered so in about a week i broke it off. the trouble had been i didnt know him well enough. i started dating another guy a few days later and he g... (240 words)