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I haven't heard from him in 2 or 3 days, was it because I didn't tell him I felt the same?

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Question - (4 March 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 4 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been seein a guy behind his girlfriend's back and at first we both didn't mean anything, then he told me he loved me and since then i have started to get feelings for him, however since he said that and i didn't really tel him how i felt, he has been really off with me and i haven't heard from him in like 2-3 days.

What should i do?

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2007):

nicola79 agony auntI totally agree with kenny,dont ring him because it sounds like he has played you and got away with it. Dont be a door mat sweety and find someone who will be all yours and who will love you. xxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2007):

Firstly this isn't fair on the guy's girlfriend. Before telling him that you feel the same way make sure that he's finished with his girlfriend. But seeing as you aren't very old why don't you just move on and get with a guy who hasn't got a girlfriend?

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A female reader, atarisrocks United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2007):

atarisrocks agony auntthis happened to me i was with a guy for 3 months and he had a gf at the same time. dont do anything with him until he leave his gf coz every week this guy would tell me he gona leave his gf and every week i was foolish to believe him and carry one doing stuff with him. forget him he will come to you if he truely love you

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (4 March 2007):

kenny agony auntI woulden't call this guy untill you know for sure he is not with his girlfriend anymore.

If you were seeing him behind his girlfriends back what makes you think he woulden't do this to you if you were his girl?.

Don't chase him, i would leave him and find someone who is not attached.

Good luck x

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A female reader, here_2_help United Kingdom +, writes (4 March 2007):

here_2_help agony aunttell him that you feel the same way let him know that you are ready for an open reletionship. He was trying to tell you that for a reson and now it looks like you dont feel the same way. I think that maby he wants to dump his g.f for you.

hope this helps xxx

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