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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Should I ask him to see what's inside his account?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - were just new in our relationship as bf/gf, its for about 5months..i do have a friendster account just recently and come across with my bf account but its restricted for friends user only, i did tell him bout it but didnt insist of anything else for i dont want to be insecure ... (134 words)

How do I tell him I'm still a virgin at 21?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Here is my problem. I'm a 21 year old virgin. The fact i've remained so is a mystery even to me. Mostly it's because I never let guys get beyond the first few dates, I go out and lose interest. But my biggest problem is that all my friends and even my family probably think i'm ... (152 words)

what does it mean when a teacher strokes your hair and is always looking at you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - what does it mean when a teacher strokes your hair and is always looking at you? i'm a female high school student and that has happened to me. she is a female teacher. what does it mean when she does that? is she attracted to me?... (49 words)

I think I just told my mate's boyfriend something I shouldn't have! Should I have kept my mouth shut?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 502 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

- omg i just told my mates boyfriend ( who's also my mate) that last night she went on msn and watched some 20 year old wank on webcam . do you think i did the rite thing , they might not break up over it , but it is possible ! x x ... (53 words)

Life is miserable for everyone involved. How do I proceed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - After more than 20 years of a bad marriage, I had an affair with a colleague at a conference. We had known each other for about 15 years, but both of us were in unhappy relationships. My husband Bill had traveled for his job and had numerous affairs. He lost his job as of ... (300 words)

Been with him 5 years and I'm feeling he doesn't love me as much anymore. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Been with my partner for 5 years nearly. It's been a rocky ride as this is 2nd time round for both of us, I have 3 kids and him 1. His ex was his first love and she had messed him around a few times yet he never gave up, It was only when she said that she didn't want him ... (320 words)

Do you think I should ask him to cheat on her with me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, Im 14 and I really like this guy who's a year older than me. He went out with this girl a month or two ago but he really liked me and we were going to organise it so we could see each other without her knowing. Please don't tell me that was wrong, i made up my mind. Ho... (161 words)

Now he just wants to be my friend. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm seeing a guy with two other girlfriends even though i know the situation and am quite secure enough to be able to handle the lack of monogomy, he decided to break up as he "cares" to much to lose me from his life. He wants to remain close friends because in the end he will ... (80 words)

I cheated on him and told him, then he cheated on me. Now it's even do you think we can make a go of this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. After about 2 weeks of dating him I cheated on him. I was truly sorry. I wish I could turn back time. But I can't. Maybe about 6 months after I confessed to him because it was eating me inside. Now two years later I found ... (167 words)

Do you think it's possible for someone to learn to find someone attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Do you think its possible for someone to learn to find someone attractive? I work with this guy who I really like personality wise but im just not physically attracted to him. The other day he told me he fancies me like crazy but I didnt know what to say. I feel so shallow ... (154 words)

We met online but she is 22 years older than me (40) do you think this relationship could work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi Im 18 and recently went on a few dates with a 40 year old women, after meating her online, i think it went really well, but do you think we will get a lot o trouble becuase of the 22year age gap? And is anyone else in a similar situation. Thanks for any input :)... (64 words)

Who do I choose? The guy who treats me like a queen or the one I love deeply?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 498 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - WHAT SHOULD I SETTLE FOR, TREATMENT OR FEELINGS? I have to choose between two guys,there is one i love most and another who treats me like a QUEEN. Guy1 treats me well he gives me everything but i just dont feel for him that much but i am afraid to leave him because i wont g... (156 words)

Our sex life is almost non existent, he says he's "going through something", I can't handle it much longer...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am 21 and my boyfriend is 32, we have been together for almost 2 yrs., lately our sexual activities have been few and far between. He says its because he is "going through something", I guess like a midlife crisis. But, its been like this for almost 8 months! I don't know if ... (66 words)

We broke up for a week and now he's with someone else and I don't know what to do...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Me and my Ex boyfriend have been dating on and off...at first we were goin out then we broke up...during the break up we went out and did things a couple would do but never claimed ourselves as one...i have been ignoring him because i feel that hes been lying about things and ... (148 words)

How can i make myself last longer in bed with out coming to soon?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - How can i make myself last longer in bed with out coming to soon?... (14 words)

Should I break it off? I do believe I love her with all my heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi im 17 and my girlfreinds 16, after about 2 months of dating, we fell in love it was her first relationship in 2 years, i took her virginity, and im the first serious releationship shes ever had. at about the 3 month mark i went over to this girls house, and she kissed me, my ... (339 words)

I'm going to tell my best friend how I feel about her! Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi, i wrote up yesteday asking for advice on whether to tell my best friend how i felt about her. Well i'm stopping over there tonight and i've decided i'm going to. Could you give me some advice on how to bring the subject up, i don't just want to suddenly come out with it in ... (83 words)

We are soulmates! Is it wrong to have these feelings for someone else, yet still be in love with our spouses as well?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - "I found my soul mate 3 years ago,but were both married" Hi everyone,I'm just new to this forum,I was so surprised to read a forum letter and its replies about soulmates, I was never looking or in search for my soulmate, but our lives crossed 3 years ago ,and we knew from the... (243 words)

How can I get rid of my damn shy morale?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, I've some problems with myself and my morale. I am a shy person and every time that I want to open the friendship door with a girl I can't and because of this problem I have to ignore to speak with this girl. Please guide me how I can get rid of this damn shy morale. thx... (61 words)

Is it unreasonable to ask my boyfriend to get an STD test before we stop using condoms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 500 days ago

10 March 2007 (F) age 22-25 - Is it unreasonable to ask my boyfriend to get an STD test before we stop using condoms? We've been together for three years and hes cheated on me before, we split recently for 2 months, and I think he slept with other women although he wouldn't admit it, and now he gets mad ... (88 words)

How can I tell him I like him when I'm just a shy wimp?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - at school theres a boy called Grant and i really like him i have went out with him before 3 times but we didnt last! =( he went out with my best mate not long ago but he dumped her i dont know if he likes me and i really want to find out! but how can i tell him i like him when ... (72 words)

He keeps blowing hot and cold all the time, does he want to be with me or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - mixed signals, my friend split up with this guy, who i really like. he started to text me flirty texts n says he likes me. i asked him out, and he said that he needed time to sort his head out. so i left it a few days n text him, he was back to flirting with me. he keeps bl... (126 words)

What do I do to make her feel more comfortable with me and not feel smothered?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I have been raised to treat women with care and respect. I show it all the time and she says she feel smothered in my Love what do I need to do to make her feel more comfortable with me and not feel like that with me, we eventually want to get married I just want to make sure ... (70 words)

Could I be pregnant if we never had actual penetrative sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 496 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok so i am 16 years old and i have a pretty serious boyfriend. i dont want to sound stupid but can you get pregnant if you dont have sex? we both had pants on, but there was thrusting and i could feel *him* and i kind of had an orgasm, but since i have never had one i'm not ... (82 words)

After 3 years she said she needs a break, 2 days later and she sleeps with another guy! How can I get her back again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i was seeing a girl for 3 years and one day she says she needs a break. then she sleeps with another guy two days later. Its been 3 weeks now and i still love and miss her what can i do to get her back? if anything?... (48 words)

I think she's wanting sex but we've only been going out for a month. I think this is way too fast but how do I tell her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Yo...ive been dating this girl for about a month and i think she wants to have sex and ive been in a relationship where we moved too fast and it tore us apart ....i really like this girl and i dont want to lose her....i want to tell her but i dont want to sound gay....so what ... (66 words)

I get unnerved and disturbed by the fact that someone finds me sexually attractive.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I get unnerved and disturbed by the fact that someone finds me sexually attractive. I start to form bad judgement about the person concerned. I am a single guy 25 yrs old. Please advice. ... (38 words)

I feel as though I'm losing all my friends because they're "doing it" and I'm not...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi.. It seems as though all my friends are doing it and I'm not. We're all around 13/14 and the girls that have done it are slowly forming their own clique, becoming cool. I feel as though i'm losing all my friends! I'm wondering how to deal with the separation and whether I ... (78 words)

Is it true that emotional attachments tend to destroy the creativity of a human being?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

10 March 2007 (M) age 30-35 - Is it true that emotional attachments tend to destroy the creativity of a human being? I am not sure but have felt like this a few times, for in emotional attachment, there are so many do's and do not's that one may feel trapped altogether to have any space for creative ... (58 words)

When do I know when a woman is lying and when do I know if she's being honest? I find women sooooo hard to read!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M) age 26-29 - Why do i find it difficult to read a woman especially when i get emotionally involved with them? I treat them way to high, respect them, even adore them but most of the times i get disappointed to find them to be ill-suited for the kind of treatment i give to them. They change ... (72 words)

Is there anything wrong with calling them and why am I always tempted??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi all.... after splitting with my boyfriend of two months im slowly gaining confidence. I am trying by all means to take him out of my system....I dont have feelings for him anymore. I have come to a point where i trully understand why we broke up and I am very clear about not ... (223 words)

He's into extreme fetish porn and I'm terrified it will ruin our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've recently found out my fiance is into extreme fetish porn, such as "scat" and "watersports" and it absolutely sickens me. I want to talk to him about it and let him know it bothers me, but I found it out by hacking into his computer looking for ordinary porn, so know he'll ... (75 words)

I fancy so many people now the one I want to go out with won't go out with me BECAUSE I fancy others. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F) - Right, I have a really Bad Problem which is effecting my social life and my relationships: I Fancy Robbie, Have done for a while, Im not Promiscuous or anything so before you all go calling me a slut etc, I have a Boyfriend called Ben and Im Not happy with Him, I just don't fe... (169 words)

Am I doing something wrong or will we never have a trusting relationship and should i just let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I met my gf on a dating site 15 months ago. She was initially unresponsive, saying later it was due to the distance between us, but after persistance, she eventually emailed me back and we started talking. Ide seen her picture and read her profile, and it was almost as if it ... (1318 words)

I exercise every day and eat healthy, I don't know what else to do to drop some weight...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, Lately I've been getting really down about my weight. I'm not exactly huge, but I'm not happy with myself. I've felt this way for most of my life, and I've lost weight but I'm still not happy. It's come to the point where I'm obsessive about my weight, always putting m... (140 words)

I can't understand my girlfriend just now... any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm the guy who wrote regarding my girlfriend wanting to stop seeing me for a week even though see still loves and cares for me. she said she doesn't feel good arond me at the moment that it doesn't feel right that shes not happy.i don't understand cause two days ago she was ... (64 words)

I want to go to the doctor to see about an embarrassing problem, if I took my dad could I go into see the doctor alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (?) - Hey, i know i have foreskin that doesnt retreact a lot, i have never seen my whole penis head exposed, and have really bad smegma recently, im really concerned and want to go to the docter and maybe result to getting circumsision to make it go away, but im worried about asking ... (95 words)

I know going on dates will help my confidence but I'm not ready for anything serious, should I go on this date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

- Hi, ive been split up from my husband for nearly 8 months and i am beginning to get my life on track. One of the things ive been doing since the break up is salsa dancing, and i really enjoy it. One of the guys there has asked me out dancing at another club, ive said yes ... (96 words)

i really love my boyfriend and i dont want to upset him. why do i feel like this all of a sudden

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 484 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am almost 21 and my boyfriend is 23. we've been together for almost a year and we love each other very much. recently ive been feeling confused. our sex life is usually great but a few days ago I didnt want to have sex with him cos i just didnt feel like it. as he is a s... (185 words)

How could he of wanted to sleep with another woman if he still wanted me back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 491 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

- I finished a relationship a while back because i felt it lost its spark etc,it lasted 4 years but my fella wouldn't take no for an answer,anyway we have got back together because i started to miss him and wanted to work out our differences. Anyway, i did ask him if he went with ... (143 words)

I just don't know if I can trust him enough to take him back again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my bf for 4 1/2 yrs and i just had a baby girl in august. I found out that he had been cheating on me for 2 almost and got a girl pregnant. Not once but twice she had one baby and is now due in april. I have never been in this situation before and i alwyas said ... (174 words)

I love my boyfriend and my best mate but the mate wants to be MORE than friends, I don't want that, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. when we first started going out, things were great, but things have been going downhill for a while now. Im 22, hes 23, we dont live together or have kids (thank god), i honestly can't remember the last time ... (534 words)

We were great friends and now...he's stopped talking to me? What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 502 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi my name is Jackie. I used to date a guy who i really really liked last year. But, he ended up dumping me when i loved him. Because, we had too many fights and such but, there were times when we were alright. But, when we weren't going out anymore we still hung out i still ... (410 words)

my boyfriend's sister is a bitch and keeps nosying in our business. How can I make her back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriends sister is a bitch! she keeps getting in me and his business and i am sick of it! she says she wasnt gonna back off!!!!! what to i do?... (31 words)

I am confused I might be gay. I'm 14 and it is really freaking me out!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm 14, and i have never really felt gay or questioned my sexuality, but all of a sudden, one night i just started thinking i might be gay. I don't ever walk down the street and look 4 dudes, i always look 4 chicks. I have been real depressed because of this feeling, i can ... (163 words)

He keeps saying hurtful things to me, do you think he wants to break up and this is his way of doing it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - When your boyfriend is progressively pointing out your faults and says mean hurtful things, after a 3 year relationship does it mean he is trying to break up but doesn't know how to do it.... (35 words)

Why should he be the one having the good time!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I broke up with my boyfriend 2 months ago because he cheated on me but now i have to live with him because unfortunately i was very silly having ever got together with him because he is my flatmate in halls. He's now seeing other girls and the rejection and jealousy really ... (87 words)

I think my girlfriend is trying to kill us... HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Ello My friend broke up with his girl friend and she said that we were to be sorry were both 15 and we thought it was funny then we was walking off the bus together and a car came and swerved and almost hit us so we ran the next night I stayed at his house and it is i... (151 words)

Am I too small or is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I need help My penis is 2 inches long when not hard and 6 inches when hard I am 16 and 5,7 and 222 pounds is it to small... (33 words)

I am on the brink of disaster and losing my grip because of this girl. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hello Friends I am in love and I mean crazy love I cant sleep or eat.I am sad all the time because I like her I mean really because I thinks she is the most beautiful girl I ever saw I am a little older than her but love knows no limits. Anyway I like her but she is g... (122 words)

We argue a lot and he doesnt seem to accept that my uni work is really important to me. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok, i have a problem. Im totally in love with my boyfriend but i now live away from home (like an hour and a half drive). we were getting on really well but we keep arguing over nothing and he doesnt seem to accept that my uni work is really important to me, we've been together ... (94 words)

I feel I owe it to her to tell her why her Dad abandoned her. SHould I or shouldn't I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'll try to make this as short and painless as possible :) When I was 13, my stepfather (James) kissed me. He later apologized and said he was drunk, so I believed him. A few months later, he tried to have sex with me. That scared me, I told my mom, and she kicked him o... (367 words)

We date for awhile and then he ignores me! Is he interested ot should I just end this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 505 days ago

10 March 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help , I meet a guy a 3 months ago in a club he was a friend of a friend we had sex that night he took my number and called the next day there was lots of text messages phone calls etc and we meet for drinks a few days later and went back to his place , lots of phone ... (216 words)